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By *adeite OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

Stafford

So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.

Either meeting socially with flirting etc

Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.

Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?

Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?

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By *adeite OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

Stafford

Wasn't the end goal*

Spelling and me are not friends

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I'd be more than happy with this especially if I got to pleasure a lady no need for sex

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By *apybarasCouple
4 weeks ago

High Lighthouse!

I'd probably put oral or masturbation in the "sex bucket". It's still a fair bit more than meeting someone for a drink.

That being said I think both myself and Ms C. would enjoy a flirty/dirty talk meeting. A mucky social if you like!

It's not something easily achievable in normal life.

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By *NormalMan01Man
4 weeks ago

Harrogate


"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.

Either meeting socially with flirting etc

Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.

Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?

Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"

Always want to meet socially first. It’s just better that way, imo.

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By *adeite OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

Stafford


"I'd probably put oral or masturbation in the "sex bucket". It's still a fair bit more than meeting someone for a drink.

That being said I think both myself and Ms C. would enjoy a flirty/dirty talk meeting. A mucky social if you like!

It's not something easily achievable in normal life."

Personally the idea of this is very hot to me. And that's not to say there won't be more meets with them where things go further.

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By *adeite OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

Stafford


"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.

Either meeting socially with flirting etc

Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.

Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?

Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?

Always want to meet socially first. It’s just better that way, imo. "

I always do socials too. Never know if they float your boat fully until you have a friendly meet.

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By *ackformore100Man
4 weeks ago

Tin town


"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.

Either meeting socially with flirting etc

Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.

Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?

Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"

Always, you never know how you feel in the moment until it happens. I'm sure some people see success as filling your holes and that's fine for them. But I'd also imagine lots of folks get together and just let things happen if people feel like it or if they just want a drink and flirt in that moment... That's fine too

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By *heshireguy99Man
4 weeks ago

Northwich

I would say that oral is sex and would be more than happy with that but only clean and fresh pussy

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By *xxx73Man
4 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Would happily meet a women and give her multiple orgasms without getting naked myself (keep the uniform on)...

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By *andPextraCouple
4 weeks ago

North West


"

Always want to meet socially first. It’s just better that way, imo.

I always do socials too. Never know if they float your boat fully until you have a friendly meet. "

Never had a play session without a separate social first. For me the flirting, seduction, teasing is a massive part of me deciding if I want to take it further. You need to convince, cajole and talk me out of my clothes. And then i’ll respond accordingly

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By *edhead72Man
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

Recon you can have a lovely time without any targets, just enjoying the flirtatious nature of the meet but knowing anything might happen. (Apart from murder)

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

The vast majority of meets I've had over 8 years haven't involved sex. Less than 10 percent have progressed beyond a coffee and that's by choice not circumstance.

I've gone to lots of social meets knowing beforehand that there was zero sexual attraction but from our conversations I knew we would get on well as friends and it hasn't hindered me at all.

It's one of the reasons I don't share face pics or feel the need to because physical attraction is irrelevant when I've already decided we won't be taking it further.

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By *IG G77Man
4 weeks ago

GATLEY

It's such a horny beginning meeting for foreplay and love licking a woman to orgasm only on a first meet

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By *antricSeeker60Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

Sensuality is the objective

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By *edhead72Man
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham and Ashby


"Sensuality is the objective "

Subtlety of sensuality and bass players do it deeper

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By *ante40Man
4 weeks ago

Moving around

Social is also nice

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By *eakfitMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfield


"

Always want to meet socially first. It’s just better that way, imo.

I always do socials too. Never know if they float your boat fully until you have a friendly meet.

Never had a play session without a separate social first. For me the flirting, seduction, teasing is a massive part of me deciding if I want to take it further. You need to convince, cajole and talk me out of my clothes. And then i’ll respond accordingly "

Totally agree, the anticipation is so important and first meet full sex doesn’t sit quite right. But some heavy foreplay and the control to stop is a turn on

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, I can only answer that after you have travelled down to Dickensian ye olde London Towne to meet me.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
4 weeks ago

Coventry


"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.

Either meeting socially with flirting etc

Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.

Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?

Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"

What you write isn't exactly sex but what you propose is genrally sexually gratifying as well as gratification on a personal level.

For us we've had many hot moments that haven't involved full on sex yet been very hot. Be that the art of flirting, phone sex, kissing, mutually getting off/mutual showing off, oral/soft swing as well as full on sex.

What's important is how it excites you and how it feels rather than the technically of the physical act. Personally we just seek hot encounters and fun. The means of expression don't matter so much. If it's hot, it's hot. And that hotness comes more from the mutual chemistry and the engagement of the mind than it does from the level of physical interaction or act of penetration.

Or the quick version is: no we don't need sex as an end goal to enjoy being with someone.

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By *ondoner27Man
4 weeks ago

london


"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.

Either meeting socially with flirting etc

Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.

Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?

Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"

I actually prefer this kind of meet personally

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
4 weeks ago

Maidstone

Erm the end goal of anyone i meet is sex. That's the intention. Doesn't mean we'll have sex on the initial social. I'm not here to just make friends. I'd be on a different site if I didn't want sex.

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By *andB2000Couple
4 weeks ago

Ashfield


"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.

Either meeting socially with flirting etc

Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.

Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?

Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"

we have played this way for a while now

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Cannock

Yeah we enjoy thus kind of thing

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By *iberatedduoCouple
4 weeks ago

Ashbourne


"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.

Either meeting socially with flirting etc

Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.

Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?

Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"

For us this would be idyllic. This type of meet can often be overlooked however we are very much open to this and have only ever met with one regular couple where we have just socialised and enjoyed soft fun other times. If anyone is interested in this arrangement with us feel free to dim us. x

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By *ouMeandThemCouple
4 weeks ago

Birmingham


"So how many of you would be happy to meet where sex what's the end goal.

Either meeting socially with flirting etc

Or meeting for just oral/foreplay.

Would you be happy mutually getting each other off?

Is this something you seek out instead of the total package?"

This is exactly what we seek. For us the connection is very important... Much more so than the sex initially and we find that the sex between friends is so much more fulfilling.

If anyone feels the same then please get in touch. X

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By *helamontsCouple
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

As a soft awing couple this is what we are here for ...

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By *tickytip44Man
4 weeks ago

n.wales

Flirt and tease be 👌👌

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Socials can be great

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By *tickytip44Man
4 weeks ago

n.wales

Random fun night 🔥🔥🔥

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By *eyeYCouple
4 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

We have, do and will be next week.. Enjoy the time spent with like minded people and if more 'cums' of it later even better 😘

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By *ustbelfastMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

Do love a laugh amd good company. If there's foreplay, that's even better, and I often prefer that to full sex

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By *d4funtimesMan
4 weeks ago

Cambridge

Hey there, playful ladies or couples! Who is looking for some fun and flirty adventures? How about getting together for some light-hearted mischief and just enjoying some oral foreplay sounds a lot of fun? Wouldn't it be exciting to explore mutual pleasure and make each other feel amazing?

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By *herry delightWoman
4 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I wouldn't meet up with anyone if sex wasn't going to happen on the first meet.

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