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"Or you've declined to meet them and they were upset." Exactly! Why converse with someone who is so easily traumatised? | |||
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"14: You replied with a polite rejection message and 2 weeks later they send another message (exactly the same txt) or wink. 15: They send a message that so obviously shows that they haven't read your profile. I always block under those circumstances" I've had no. 15 endless amount of times today. Doing my head in! Lol | |||
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"And u blocked them because their cock pics made you heave lol lol" | |||
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"If you've been blocked by someone here are some of the reasons 1: they don't fancy you 4: they're inundated with messages and you didn't make the cut 6: they've identified that you're a stalker and are avoiding you 7: you're too needy 8: you're too forceful 9: they find you creepy 10: they know you're the type of person who'll whine if you don't respond immediately to every message 11: if they block you you'll set up a forum post moaning about how it's so unfair 12: they've read your posts in forums and realise you're a knob " These are usually the reasons i block. Numbers 11 and 12 especially. | |||
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"13 who gives a shite either way if blocked you are blocked " | |||
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"I've been blocked by someone I've had no contact with lol! I checked and I've never sent a message, there must be a group if anticipatory blockers out there in action!" me too , lol just from a forum post . | |||
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"13 who gives a shite either way if blocked you are blocked " ditto.. like what total strangers (in far away places where there is no attraction or interest and with whom you will never meet) actually think.. | |||
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"OP: if any of reasons 6 though 12 apply, then by definition, it *is* personal. " Not really, they don't know you so how can if be? | |||
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"OP: if any of reasons 6 though 12 apply, then by definition, it *is* personal. Not really, they don't know you so how can if be?" Personal (adj.): Referring to a person's character. - Oxford Dictionary. 6: Stalker-like behaviour 7: Needy 8: Forceful 9: Creepy 10: Prone to whine 11: see 10 12: 'Realise you're a knob' All character judgements, no? | |||
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"I have not one on my block list and its lovely .. xx" I have 280 at last count | |||
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" OP: if any of reasons 6 though 12 apply, then by definition, it *is* personal. Not really, they don't know you so how can if be? Personal (adj.): Referring to a person's character. - Oxford Dictionary. 6: Stalker-like behaviour 7: Needy 8: Forceful 9: Creepy 10: Prone to whine 11: see 10 12: 'Realise you're a knob' All character judgements, no? " | |||
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"Regardless of the whys & wherefores, there are way too many Prima Donnas on fab - using the block button enables them to feel empowered. “Power said to the world, "You are mine." The world kept it prisoner on her throne. Love said to the world, "I am thine." The world gave it the freedom of her house.” - Rabindragath Tagore. " Totally agree | |||
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"I have not one on my block list and its lovely .. xx I have 280 at last count " wow that's loads . | |||
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" OP: if any of reasons 6 though 12 apply, then by definition, it *is* personal. Not really, they don't know you so how can if be? Personal (adj.): Referring to a person's character. - Oxford Dictionary. 6: Stalker-like behaviour 7: Needy 8: Forceful 9: Creepy 10: Prone to whine 11: see 10 12: 'Realise you're a knob' All character judgements, no? " Then you must immediately burst into tears as a complete stranger believes you're in one of these categories? Seriously, it's a website, some people need to grow up and or grow a pair and stop moaning about somebody who you've never met has not allowed you to see their profile on a swingers site. The reality is that it doesn't matter | |||
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" Then you must immediately burst into tears as a complete stranger believes you're in one of these categories? " Yeah mate. Tears. Lots of 'em. Day after day after agonising day. Alternatively, I may have only been pointing out the self-contradictory nature of the original post. Whichever suits, really. | |||
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" Then you must immediately burst into tears as a complete stranger believes you're in one of these categories? Yeah mate. Tears. Lots of 'em. Day after day after agonising day. Alternatively, I may have only been pointing out the self-contradictory nature of the original post. Whichever suits, really. " I disagree that it's contradicts itself. By it's very nature a personal comment or attack must be personal, and if the Parties don't know each other then it's not personal,as in don't take it personally. If you (used in third person rather than first person here) wish to take it so then feel free to get upset. For example you've chosen to take my response personally when it's intention wasn't personal, but at the end of the day whether I think you're crying "day after agonising day" or not is irrelevant as we don't know each other. The list by the way was meant to be tongue in cheek but it appears it may have touched a nerve. Xx mate | |||
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"Regardless of the whys & wherefores, there are way too many Prima Donnas on fab - using the block button enables them to feel empowered. " Why is somebody a prima donna for using the block button? | |||
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"Regardless of the whys & wherefores, there are way too many Prima Donnas on fab - using the block button enables them to feel empowered. Why is somebody a prima donna for using the block button? " | |||
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" 18. Your profile shows body parts or activities I find repulsive. I do not want to stumble across them again, or meet 19. You have verifications clearly describing bareback activities. I know that in the future you may realise and hide these, so I block while I can. " 20. Your a guy who enjoys same sex activity but doesn't see himself as Bi as he "hates labels" therefore lists himself as Straight. XXXX | |||
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"14: You replied with a polite rejection message and 2 weeks later they send another message (exactly the same txt) or wink. 15: They send a message that so obviously shows that they haven't read your profile. I always block under those circumstances" | |||
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"If you've been blocked by someone here are some of the reasons 1: they don't fancy you 2: they fancy you but you might be too close to home 3: they fancy you but you're too far from home 4: they're inundated with messages and you didn't make the cut 5: they're taking a break 6: they've identified that you're a stalker and are avoiding you 7: you're too needy 8: you're too forceful 9: they find you creepy 10: they know you're the type of person who'll whine if you don't respond immediately to every message 11: if they block you you'll set up a forum post moaning about how it's so unfair 12: they've read your posts in forums and realise you're a knob 13. They just feel like it Most importantly it's not personal because you don't know them so move along and try again. " I was just about to write you and email , then read this . I shit myself and decided not to .... | |||
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"Just been blocked for sending a wink..some people should get a life. ...." Or not wink. | |||
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"Just been blocked for sending a wink..some people should get a life. ...." then i suspect it falls under a catergory such as not fancying you i think you need to read all this thread a little more carefully | |||
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"If you've been blocked by someone here are some of the reasons 1: they don't fancy you 2: they fancy you but you might be too close to home 3: they fancy you but you're too far from home 4: they're inundated with messages and you didn't make the cut 5: they're taking a break 6: they've identified that you're a stalker and are avoiding you 7: you're too needy 8: you're too forceful 9: they find you creepy 10: they know you're the type of person who'll whine if you don't respond immediately to every message 11: if they block you you'll set up a forum post moaning about how it's so unfair 12: they've read your posts in forums and realise you're a knob 13. They just feel like it Most importantly it's not personal because you don't know them so move along and try again. " 6,8,9 pretty much sums up the ones we have blocked | |||
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"Just been blocked for sending a wink..some people should get a life. ...." Why? I block profiles that I've no interest in all the time. Saves them spending literally seconds creating a bland one line message that I'd in all likelihood delete anyway! | |||
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"Just been blocked for sending a wink..some people should get a life. ...." Perhaps they have a life that's why they don't want to waste it in corespondence when blocking is quicker and easier? | |||
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"Threads long and I didn't read it all but how about being blocked as they bug you on the forums, always saying the same things; no matter what the thread is actually about and before I offend anyone unintentionally I do not mean the OP " None taken | |||
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"I was blocked for not wanting to attend or take part in a bareback gangbang. " You see that's a positive in my book! Saves you catching Something | |||
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"I was blocked for not wanting to attend or take part in a bareback gangbang. You see that's a positive in my book! Saves you catching Something " I was not going to catch anything by replying no thank you | |||
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"I was blocked for not wanting to attend or take part in a bareback gangbang. You see that's a positive in my book! Saves you catching Something I was not going to catch anything by replying no thank you " Hey some of those new diseases are pretty virulent | |||
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"I had to do a search so that I could block some of the people who made comments on this thread...because I could/can and would not want them in my life!! Abbie" You should try pre-emptive blocking! Find people you think you might not like and then block them in advance | |||
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"I was blocked for not wanting to attend or take part in a bareback gangbang. " Strangely, I've just blocked 17 guys who HAVE attended a bareback gangbang, including one who was on our hotlist. Oh well. | |||
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"After sending a msg without using the "magic" subject word, we apologised ASAP, we were then blocked, only for them to unblock and perv on our profile a few more times...Nice " Block them back then they can't do that. | |||
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"After sending a msg without using the "magic" subject word, we apologised ASAP, we were then blocked, only for them to unblock and perv on our profile a few more times...Nice Block them back then they can't do that. " Very good idea tbf. We normally do that with people who send random requests so they can't send another one. We found it amusing and let them perv away. Next time we won't be so kind | |||
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"Just been blocked for sending a wink..some people should get a life. ...." my profile says i will block if you wink or send friend request maybe that was the case. personally i dont care if people block me its their choice. i love my block button can be very useful at times lol | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 07/06/13 20:16:51]" My toilet always get blocked here lol! To much bullshit!! | |||
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"we got blocked for not going bareback " how sad is that! but really you should be glad of been blocked! | |||
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"What I think is really weird is that when I go onto the chat line to look at people camming some guys will instantly block me. As If I could give a toss about them. Maybe in their little minds it's a way of "empowering" themselves by blocking me out.Or maybe they have issues with their sexuality ? LOL. The majority of guys will message me when they know I've been looking at them on their cam and we can have quite a laugh. But these other guys who instantly block you - just weird. Anyway rant over. Play safe horny peeps. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Glad to be blocked sometimes! " | |||
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"FPMSL I been blocked by the wife ! Says none of my fecking business who's pussy or cock she sucking.....tut ! " Oh that's funny!! | |||
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"Does it really matter? The blocks are there for a reason, so people can use them...if it bothers people they have been blocked then maybe they are not as grown up as they thought " I agree | |||
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