FabSwingers.com forum: Something I can’t understand about fab

By *attedirish OP Man
4 weeks ago

london

So I’ve been on fab a few times and one thing that I always notice is people being extremely rude about others kinks. As far as I understand we’re all here for our own reasons yet half of the website seems to put eachother down or make people feel embarrassed when there’s no need to be. Has anyone else had this before too?

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Chatham

Why straight men put there straight but they are clearly not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's common everywhere. I recall listening to a conversation at work where two women agreed that they would divorce their husbands if they wanted to cross dress. They were prepared to end their marriage over clothes

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
4 weeks ago

Swansea

Yes, sadly this happens

Mrs

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By *umbriaman1962Man
4 weeks ago

outside of penrith

What one person calls a kink someone else can just think that's normal sex. My view if no one is been made to do something or see something against there will . As long as regal

Then who are we to be rude about it. I might not want to be kicked in balls or someone poo on me but does not mean I say someone cannot do that.

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By *aomilatteCouple
4 weeks ago

Midlands

"So I’ve been on fab a few times and one thing that I always notice is people being extremely rude about others kinks. As far as I understand we’re all here for our own reasons yet half of the website seems to put eachother down or make people feel embarrassed when there’s no need to be. Has anyone else had this before too?"

Many people are just rude in general unfortunately

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By *runette n JayCouple
4 weeks ago

bilston

The key is not giving a shit what others think.

Judge me to your hearts content as it has zero impact on me.

What impact it does have is showing what a narrow minded judgemental immature twat they are.

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By *unning onCouple
4 weeks ago

leatherhead

"The key is not giving a shit what others think.

Judge me to your hearts content as it has zero impact on me.

What impact it does have is showing what a narrow minded judgemental immature twat they are.

With you all the way and well said

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

h cry’s himself to sleep most nights

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By *andCberksCouple
4 weeks ago

Newbury

You put Bareback in here and watch Bareback police comment lol

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By *uzzleMan
4 weeks ago

Hastings

The sad thing is we all have them!

Outwarding criticising or voicing non approval shows their insecurities, not mine.

I like to dress sometimes and some females/couples may not like that and that's fine. What they fail to realise is that it isn't who I am, it a very very small part of what I occassionally do when getting off. It doesn't define me or anyone who knows me.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

judgement is rife, and many folk are not content to merely internalise thay but insist on trying to push their preferences and beliefs onto others.

im not bi, but I am hetro-flexible and in the right setting sufficiently turned on will play with a guy. But the judgement I see against bi or bicurious guys from insecure people is insane.

same for people whose preference is to enjoy sex bareback, the oitspoken judgement people get from folk who just HAVE to comment and have a say is upsetting.

People who prefer interrace, YV/TS, those who do or dont like oral sex or cum in their mouths or like to dabnle in consensual nonconsent or BDSM or pee play or whatever, there will always be folk who just cannot resist the urge to tell the world they find it unpaletable, as though anyone 1) asked and 2) gives a fuck what they have to say.

You find the same in politics, holiday destinations, car choices etc. Fine if you ask for opinions, but some folk mistake a conversatikn as an explicit invitation to weigh in with their unsolicited opinions. like me on this thread.

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By *yreGuy99Man
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in Moria

"Why straight men put there straight but they are clearly not."

Agreed. I get messages from men all the time because they just assume I'm like the others. Some of us are actually straight.

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
4 weeks ago

Cardiff

I've also noticed this, fab should not be an environment that allows blatant shaming of safe and consensual kink

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