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"So...three "single guys" in a row have let us down on the day now. We had made firm arrangements to meet in advance, and on the day, we text to confirm they were still coming. We host in our child free house, just to make things easier. Turns out that "they could not get away" so the feckers are partnered or married....For Christ's sake guys, if you are on here and partnered without their knowledge....have a word with yourself! This is not from a moral standpoint, your relationship is your business, but good grief. Do not make arrangements if you can't honour them. For all the "single bi guys" on here who would like to meet a couple, well, we have given a few of you a chance, but it turns out you "can't get away". So, clubs and parties it is from now, no more offers to host at ours. Anyone else had experience of this? " 5 letdowns in a row. Swear they get off on it or something. Baffles me | |||
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"So...three "single guys" in a row have let us down on the day now. We had made firm arrangements to meet in advance, and on the day, we text to confirm they were still coming. We host in our child free house, just to make things easier. Turns out that "they could not get away" so the feckers are partnered or married....For Christ's sake guys, if you are on here and partnered without their knowledge....have a word with yourself! This is not from a moral standpoint, your relationship is your business, but good grief. Do not make arrangements if you can't honour them. For all the "single bi guys" on here who would like to meet a couple, well, we have given a few of you a chance, but it turns out you "can't get away". So, clubs and parties it is from now, no more offers to host at ours. Anyone else had experience of this? " We have had the same thing! I still like a private meet but I think club events are easier xx | |||
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"So...three "single guys" in a row have let us down on the day now. We had made firm arrangements to meet in advance, and on the day, we text to confirm they were still coming. We host in our child free house, just to make things easier. Turns out that "they could not get away" so the feckers are partnered or married....For Christ's sake guys, if you are on here and partnered without their knowledge....have a word with yourself! This is not from a moral standpoint, your relationship is your business, but good grief. Do not make arrangements if you can't honour them. For all the "single bi guys" on here who would like to meet a couple, well, we have given a few of you a chance, but it turns out you "can't get away". So, clubs and parties it is from now, no more offers to host at ours. Anyone else had experience of this? 5 letdowns in a row. Swear they get off on it or something. Baffles me " Oh my - you are gorgeous. Unbelievable you get let down x | |||
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"So...three "single guys" in a row have let us down on the day now. We had made firm arrangements to meet in advance, and on the day, we text to confirm they were still coming. We host in our child free house, just to make things easier. Turns out that "they could not get away" so the feckers are partnered or married....For Christ's sake guys, if you are on here and partnered without their knowledge....have a word with yourself! This is not from a moral standpoint, your relationship is your business, but good grief. Do not make arrangements if you can't honour them. For all the "single bi guys" on here who would like to meet a couple, well, we have given a few of you a chance, but it turns out you "can't get away". So, clubs and parties it is from now, no more offers to host at ours. Anyone else had experience of this? " usually means there married, | |||
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"Oh my - you are gorgeous. Unbelievable you get let down x " Aww Thank-you | |||
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"So...three "single guys" in a row have let us down on the day now. We had made firm arrangements to meet in advance, and on the day, we text to confirm they were still coming. We host in our child free house, just to make things easier. Turns out that "they could not get away" so the feckers are partnered or married....For Christ's sake guys, if you are on here and partnered without their knowledge....have a word with yourself! This is not from a moral standpoint, your relationship is your business, but good grief. Do not make arrangements if you can't honour them. For all the "single bi guys" on here who would like to meet a couple, well, we have given a few of you a chance, but it turns out you "can't get away". So, clubs and parties it is from now, no more offers to host at ours. Anyone else had experience of this? usually means there married, " They are. Or, they’re | |||
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"Oh my - you are gorgeous. Unbelievable you get let down x Aww Thank-you " You are all gorgeous. | |||
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"So...three "single guys" in a row have let us down on the day now. We had made firm arrangements to meet in advance, and on the day, we text to confirm they were still coming. We host in our child free house, just to make things easier. Turns out that "they could not get away" so the feckers are partnered or married....For Christ's sake guys, if you are on here and partnered without their knowledge....have a word with yourself! This is not from a moral standpoint, your relationship is your business, but good grief. Do not make arrangements if you can't honour them. For all the "single bi guys" on here who would like to meet a couple, well, we have given a few of you a chance, but it turns out you "can't get away". So, clubs and parties it is from now, no more offers to host at ours. Anyone else had experience of this? " Sorry to read this and sadly, I’m reading it more and more frequently There are clearly a huge group of singles (or not) whom are giving the genuine guys a bad rep - not all of us suffer from a massive Ambition Vs Ability imbalance……………. I’m not Bi, but hope you guys start to experience better results and you achieve what it is you seek on your journey Take care both | |||
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"So OP says 3 single guys have let them down yet state on their profile not looking for single guys!🤔🤔🤔" We look for select single bi guys when we wish... | |||
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"So...three "single guys" in a row have let us down on the day now. We had made firm arrangements to meet in advance, and on the day, we text to confirm they were still coming. We host in our child free house, just to make things easier. Turns out that "they could not get away" so the feckers are partnered or married....For Christ's sake guys, if you are on here and partnered without their knowledge....have a word with yourself! This is not from a moral standpoint, your relationship is your business, but good grief. Do not make arrangements if you can't honour them. For all the "single bi guys" on here who would like to meet a couple, well, we have given a few of you a chance, but it turns out you "can't get away". So, clubs and parties it is from now, no more offers to host at ours. Anyone else had experience of this? 5 letdowns in a row. Swear they get off on it or something. Baffles me " Definitely their loss!! X | |||
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"So...three "single guys" in a row have let us down on the day now. We had made firm arrangements to meet in advance, and on the day, we text to confirm they were still coming. We host in our child free house, just to make things easier. Turns out that "they could not get away" so the feckers are partnered or married....For Christ's sake guys, if you are on here and partnered without their knowledge....have a word with yourself! This is not from a moral standpoint, your relationship is your business, but good grief. Do not make arrangements if you can't honour them. For all the "single bi guys" on here who would like to meet a couple, well, we have given a few of you a chance, but it turns out you "can't get away". So, clubs and parties it is from now, no more offers to host at ours. Anyone else had experience of this? " I say this all the time and I truly believe that anyone that has been let down would never do it to anyone else as I don’t think people realise how not just annoying it is but the mental side of it and how it makes you feel. It’s not just single men I’ve had the same with single women. It’s still the same thing though regardless. I feel your frustration 100% | |||
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"It's why we stick to clubs...it's so much easier." Same here, at least if they are a no show I can usually have fun at the club | |||
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"So...three "single guys" in a row have let us down on the day now. We had made firm arrangements to meet in advance, and on the day, we text to confirm they were still coming. We host in our child free house, just to make things easier. Turns out that "they could not get away" so the feckers are partnered or married....For Christ's sake guys, if you are on here and partnered without their knowledge....have a word with yourself! This is not from a moral standpoint, your relationship is your business, but good grief. Do not make arrangements if you can't honour them. For all the "single bi guys" on here who would like to meet a couple, well, we have given a few of you a chance, but it turns out you "can't get away". So, clubs and parties it is from now, no more offers to host at ours. Anyone else had experience of this? " Had one last night. Messaging right up to the point they said they were setting off then vanished. Clearly had no intention of meeting. That or his wife/partner arrived home unexpectedly (these single guys eh). It's almost as if, for whatever their reason, they're hellbent on stopping you having a meet so leave it to the last minute before ghosting you. Pathetic really. | |||
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"Shame this isn't like eBay, where you can leave negative feedback ! " Theoretically you could leave negative feedback. The recipient just wouldn't make it public. It would, however, make it look as if they've had a positive review (I'm sure many of us are guilty of believing that if someone's left them a veri it must be positive - right?) | |||
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"OP, whilst this isn't my demographic or my type of sexual persuasion, do you meet these single guys beforehand? As in, in a bar or pub to break the ice over a social or a coffee, before taking things further, either on the same day or at a later date? That would be an ideal litmus test to see if they can commit to a coffee then there's a higher chance of them being authentic and earnest in their desires to meet you for the next stage? Or is this all planned over the ether and on the back of frivolous chatting and messaging?" All 3 had a social meet beforehand. We do our due diligence...we've been at this a long time... Every now and again, we decide to branch out from our usual club/party meets... | |||
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"If I got three strikes in a row then I would most certainly start to question how I validate whether someone is likely to meet or not. In my view this is an OP issue as much as the guys they are trying to hook up with." Yep...you're probably right...it's why it isn't our usual MO and won't be again... | |||
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"If I got three strikes in a row then I would most certainly start to question how I validate whether someone is likely to meet or not. In my view this is an OP issue as much as the guys they are trying to hook up with. Yep...you're probably right...it's why it isn't our usual MO and won't be again..." And all these males will be complaining in their statuses that they can't get any meets. Poor them 😆 | |||
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"There are to many men on this site that ruin it for others. There should be a way of getting rid of the time wasters." · The number of men on this site has little or no relevance to ruining things for people. | |||
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"There are to many men on this site that ruin it for others. There should be a way of getting rid of the time wasters. · The number of men on this site has little or no relevance to ruining things for people." Yeah, it's just shit luck that's all. Can't be helped. Best thing is to develop thicker skin and stop caring quite so much. That's how I roll these days and it works great. | |||
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"So...three "single guys" in a row have let us down on the day now. We had made firm arrangements to meet in advance, and on the day, we text to confirm they were still coming. We host in our child free house, just to make things easier. Turns out that "they could not get away" so the feckers are partnered or married....For Christ's sake guys, if you are on here and partnered without their knowledge....have a word with yourself! This is not from a moral standpoint, your relationship is your business, but good grief. Do not make arrangements if you can't honour them. For all the "single bi guys" on here who would like to meet a couple, well, we have given a few of you a chance, but it turns out you "can't get away". So, clubs and parties it is from now, no more offers to host at ours. Anyone else had experience of this? " It happens more on here now, clubs are the answer. You can see who attracts you and have a chat. See if there any chemistry. | |||
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"Clearly they want their bumps feeling if they’re turning down Brunette n Jay or Wacky Racers but, for perspective, when we were organising the bi bukkake/bi group meets a few months ago it was mainly the ladies that let us down both times. The majority of single guys turned up. Unfortunately, there are just rude people who have no respect for your time, but there should be a reporting/feedback option which could ultimately increase safety etc as well. " That won't stop people from making new profiles as some do on a daily basis according to my feed. It's why I think a premium section would be a good idea and an option to be fully vetted by the site. Members could have badges awarded to distinguished who is verified, vetted and trusted. If you don't wish to be subject to it then you don't. But those who do, can. | |||
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