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By *hloe n tim OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

birmingham

trying get hubby to fit what would be the beat methods to learn to start to be able to take one !!! 😂😂 tried but plugs still getting no where

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By *ecky and justCouple
6 weeks ago

Godalming

Douche, fingers and lube, plugs gently, then try gently with cock.

Try pushing ‘out’ gently as if you’re having a poo, your bum will open and relax and he’ll slip in.

Now, first time especially, it’s likely to sting for the first minute or two but ensure he stays still and lets you relax into it. Then proceed gently.

Did I say lube? Use lots.

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By *winfrozrMan
6 weeks ago

Carnoustie


"Douche, fingers and lube, plugs gently, then try gently with cock.

Try pushing ‘out’ gently as if you’re having a poo, your bum will open and relax and he’ll slip in.

Now, first time especially, it’s likely to sting for the first minute or two but ensure he stays still and lets you relax into it. Then proceed gently.

Did I say lube? Use lots. "

All of this … especially about the lube. Use more than you think you’ll need and make sure to use water based stuff, oh and try to relax

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By *hloe n tim OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

birmingham

I think it just need a good shove myself 😂

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By *ew_to_this_indians_ukCouple
6 weeks ago

Manchester

Took me 5 years to finally get into my wife's arse.... can't get enough of it now lol

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
6 weeks ago

Ipswich

Lube. Plenty of lube and relaxation. Start small and shallow and work up. O find that the real think is easier to take than an inanimate object also

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By *fun500Man
6 weeks ago

Sandy

😂😘

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By *om501Man
6 weeks ago

batley


"Took me 5 years to finally get into my wife's arse.... can't get enough of it now lol "

And what a nice arse it is

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By *ig1gaz1Man
6 weeks ago

bradford


"trying get hubby to fit what would be the beat methods to learn to start to be able to take one !!! 😂😂 tried but plugs still getting no where "

you dont say which one of you is getting or or giving it.

go slow

go on all 4s you open up better

lube be gentle

stop and wait until they adjust listen to them

practice also helps

oh and if the females getting it why not the male as well

the female gets the real thing whilst the male gets the but plug

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Bristol

Lube, never enough lube.

Getting clean is a total worry for me but I've found if you can finger yourself ok, then you're normally good.

Lube pre-meet can help with this as it'll make you go.

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By *asterfulsoulMan
6 weeks ago

Manchester


"I think it just need a good shove myself 😂"

You got it 😏

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By *ecky and justCouple
6 weeks ago

Godalming


"I think it just need a good shove myself 😂"

Yeah… it’s all about the run-up..!

That’ll not get you invited back for a second chance..! 😂

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By *ddfellowMan
6 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

work your way up to it start small fingers etc and you can never have enough lube

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By *ootyfruityCouple
6 weeks ago

andover

Start with fingers, if you think you have enough lube USE MORE

Also try to relax, talk to each other and make sure you know each others cues and responses.

It took a while training wifey, I think a lot of that was her own anxiety around anal (she was never pressured by me)

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By *ady and the cockCouple
6 weeks ago

North East/Anywhere

We’re 2 years trying and still at the fingers stage. We love the idea of being able to do it as and when we like. Hopefully we can progress in the near future but we’re patient.

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By *tanlee1512Man
6 weeks ago

Epsom

Slow, steady and plenty of lube!!!

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By *hambamNIMan
6 weeks ago

city centre

Lube lube and more lube

Lots of patience

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By *adeiteWoman
6 weeks ago

Stafford

Honestly for first time try spooning for anal. Ok your side you're very relaxed and eventually once comfy, you can sorta turn slightly, lift your left closest to his body, he can skooch under more and get deeper and okay with your pussy or use toys too. Win win!

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By *rKinksMan
6 weeks ago

Alton


"trying get hubby to fit what would be the beat methods to learn to start to be able to take one !!! 😂😂 tried but plugs still getting no where "

A lot already covered above but also use a dildo in your prep. (With a flared end!!) Don't want it getting pulled up.

Found a big difference in a butt plug that pops in Vs a dildo that keeps you umm ready

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Farnborough

All has been said… but the 2 key ‘ingredients’ are relax …. and time!!

You need to be relaxed not tense….

Give yourself all the time you need to work up from a single digit, to 2, to 3 …. and so on … and remain relaxed.

It is a wonderful feeling …. both ways!

R xx

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By *ick1111Man
6 weeks ago

Near Spalding

Most things have been said, but being very relaxed and comfortable with the idea goes a long way.

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By *bione_1Man
6 weeks ago

Broxbourne

I'm keen to try taking with a couple but tried twice and was too tight .it fekking hurt my bum xx

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
6 weeks ago

Ipswich


"I'm keen to try taking with a couple but tried twice and was too tight .it fekking hurt my bum xx "

You need lube, lots of lube and a gentle build up. Once things start entry, there is a point of stretching and once the head is through the pleasure begins

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
6 weeks ago

near you...


"I'm keen to try taking with a couple but tried twice and was too tight .it fekking hurt my bum xx

You need lube, lots of lube and a gentle build up. Once things start entry, there is a point of stretching and once the head is through the pleasure begins"

And don't be scared to stop, pause and start over. Xx

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By *iceGeezerMan
6 weeks ago

Birmingham


"trying get hubby to fit what would be the beat methods to learn to start to be able to take one !!! 😂😂 tried but plugs still getting no where "

I think lots of licking your bum hole and keeping the clit stumulated helps alot. Taking it slow and making sure its nice and wet are the one too

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By *wabathMan
6 weeks ago

Bath

Is cock much different to strap on ??

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By *otguy555Man
6 weeks ago

Bristol

We had this problem with my wife. She really wanted to take my cock in her ass but I was to big. We started with me playing with her ass hole and gently opening it a little bit at the time. I got to the stage where I had 2 fingers in her sometimes 3.we kept going and using plenty of lube and we got to 4 fingers and I was able to get 4 in every time. After about a week of working on it she said she was ready. And boom I fitted in

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