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"Gang bangs. I get mmmmf (not sure that qualifies as a GB) but anymore is just going to hurt? " If you're dealing with capable adult males it's blissful and pain free but yeah finding that many intelligent dual headed men is rare. | |||
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"Cuckholding for me if it is a fetish I just can’t get my head around it full stop " Same. C. | |||
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"Cuckholding for me if it is a fetish I just can’t get my head around it full stop " Agreed, and tbh we had a situation and it made me (Mrs) feel shit. We met a couple....the whole cuck thing was never mentioned. My Hubby tool the other lady to a room and I went with the other guy. The whole time, he was more interested in what the other two were doing than anything else. I just asked him to leave. | |||
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"kinks you cant get your head around without kink shaming what kinks can you not get your head around.... no kink shaming me ... feet i just cant get my head around this i hate my feet being touched and strangers feet nope not gonna happen" Yeah I don't like my own can't imagine why anyone else would like them and certainly don't want to be close to anyone else's | |||
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"Can’t understand the sticking a long steel rod in your cock" Wait what???? | |||
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"Breeding, blows the mind why!! " This is another mental one. There's a tiny part of us that slightly understands the 'kink' from the woman's perspective, but the wider repercussions farrrrrr outweigh it being just a 'kink' | |||
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"Cuckholding for me if it is a fetish I just can’t get my head around it full stop " This and Furries | |||
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"Breeding, blows the mind why!! " Oh this 🤢 | |||
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"Loads " I posted earlier, but on reading all the posts, yeah there are loads. People are strange, not always in a good way. | |||
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"Breath play. I can see the kink but it’s just too bloody dangerous. " I had to look this up & very dangerous indeed | |||
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"Gang bangs. I get mmmmf (not sure that qualifies as a GB) but anymore is just going to hurt? If you're dealing with capable adult males it's blissful and pain free but yeah finding that many intelligent dual headed men is rare. " "Dual headed", I love that! Lol. I struggle to get my head round watersports, particularly the "drinking right from the source" bit. My ex very much struggled (can't use the word to describe exactly what happened as the word is prohibited) to take it when we tried (he was a massive fan, and I was very unsure) and that was the end for me. He broke up with me over that, eventually, but I guess we should have never been together in the first place. Also, all the humiliation/degradation stuff, starting with name calling. Nope, thanks. You want to call me degrading names when we have sex? You can shut up and be mindful the door does not hit you in the arse on your swift way out. And no, I'm not going to do that to you, either. | |||
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"Breath play. I can see the kink but it’s just too bloody dangerous. I had to look this up & very dangerous indeed " As did I. Certainly not for us. C | |||
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"kinks you cant get your head around without kink shaming what kinks can you not get your head around.... no kink shaming me ... feet i just cant get my head around this i hate my feet being touched and strangers feet nope not gonna happen" Or more commonly know as limits Scat Age play Permanently marking (knife play cutting) Water boarding | |||
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"Sounding. The thought of anything going down that hole makes me cringe with dread and fear!" Some of us have to for medical reasons Many should who do not realise that they have the condition | |||
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"The adult baby stuff... I don't even want to understand. " Yep, me too. | |||
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"Scat.....why? " Why not ? | |||
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"Hi OP I repect a lot of your comments on BDSM, and I am not derailing but providing tangential thoughts. I really find no need to get my head around other people's kinks. Provided it is adults involved, it's genuinely consensual parties, no lasting harm is caused, and people who are not interested are not exposed to it, I have no concern,no matter how taboo or how much it sets off the squeamish. I read an article years ago, about people getting their heads around things, is a way of making that behaviour acceptable and passable in the vanilla world. However, this has lead to gay pride marches in the States excluding BDSM and fetish wear as not being family friendly. At the end I believe most kinksters don't want acceptance or tolerance, or to be considered,they want to be left alone to do their thing. " This. If its not for you it's not for you, end of. Everyone is different and has different likes etc. No one has to get their head round anything. Let Everyone do their own thing. Their are things I'm not into but I don't need to try to understand them as it doesn't concern me. Live and let live. | |||
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"Watersports, I'd give almost anything a try once just not that" Even poo? | |||
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"Watersports, I'd give almost anything a try once just not that Even poo?" No poo either! | |||
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"Butt plugs !! " Ohh I love my tails | |||
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"Sounding. The thought of anything going down that hole makes me cringe with dread and fear!" I love it | |||
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"Hi OP I repect a lot of your comments on BDSM, and I am not derailing but providing tangential thoughts. I really find no need to get my head around other people's kinks. Provided it is adults involved, it's genuinely consensual parties, no lasting harm is caused, and people who are not interested are not exposed to it, I have no concern,no matter how taboo or how much it sets off the squeamish. I read an article years ago, about people getting their heads around things, is a way of making that behaviour acceptable and passable in the vanilla world. However, this has lead to gay pride marches in the States excluding BDSM and fetish wear as not being family friendly. At the end I believe most kinksters don't want acceptance or tolerance, or to be considered,they want to be left alone to do their thing. This. If its not for you it's not for you, end of. Everyone is different and has different likes etc. No one has to get their head round anything. Let Everyone do their own thing. Their are things I'm not into but I don't need to try to understand them as it doesn't concern me. Live and let live. " just to be clear i have nothing against other kinks jeeze ive enought my self this is not a attack post its just a what does nothing for you post kink wise see this is how people roll ..your at a club all chatting away one says something and then someone goes oh no never understood it and they dont fall out its just talking there no shaming there no nastiness just open chat to likes dislikes kink wise nothing more nothing less .. i dont get feet some dont get cuckolding its just chat .. poo is deffo another we know a gay gay whos into this massively hes a consultant surgery i think and he could sit all night and talk poo in a sexual way one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet and looks as if butter wont melt.. we have friends into many kinks in the swinging world we cant all like the same thing but also people will talk about these things likes /dislikes thats life | |||
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"This turned hard and fast into a kink shaming thread didn't it?! We believe all kinks are valid and awesome!! All you need is imagination and any kink can be hot! Booo to all the boring kink shamers!" One person's kink, another's perversion... | |||
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"All the daddy stuff when they start that in chat it gives me the creeps" Must say I find that difficult | |||
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"Someone messaged me this morning with a balloon kink " I see a professional Mistress and she tells me a few clients have a balloon fetish,mostly naked and restrained and she either hits them with balloons makes them screech or holds them close as she bursts them. Each to their own | |||
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"Gang bangs. I get mmmmf (not sure that qualifies as a GB) but anymore is just going to hurt? " A gb is 3 men and 1 female. I'm more of an exstream gb girl. At least 20 plus is a gb in my book. And no, more dose not make it hurt. And no, it dose not become floppy, stretched out, or a wizard sleeve. No - we don't need offers by pm. | |||
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" mmmmf " By an amazing coincidence, that's the exact noise I make when I'm doing my kink.  | |||
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"Can’t understand the sticking a long steel rod in your cock" Noooo! Me neither | |||
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"Mine is being tied to a bed, dressed up and the person or couple just take pictures and videos, and then leave leaving me there and may not knowing what they’re going to do with what they’ve taken … I find this arousing, but very worrying for some reason and I can’t get it out of my head "Thank you xx and i don’t know why? | |||
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"Some interesting comments on this - especially the ones that suggest we don’t need to understand, or get our heads around a kink as it makes it more acceptable. We have a slightly different take on this. There are certain kinks we have no desire to be involved in (our personal preferences, they do nothing for us and are therefore not for us), but there are some which we would like to understand what people do get from it, how it works for them - because if we don’t understand it, how can we rule them in or out? So you could say that by educating ourselves, we can make an informed decision on whether something is or is not for us. " I would entirely agree that getting educated on other people's kinks from a genuine, personal position, and not from a smug superior position is brilliant. With honest human contact most people will open up, and if they can explain why they enjoy it they would. I don't consider what I enjoy as kinks, more as dark hobbies because they are not for sexual purposes. If someone asks me about them and is genuine, I would happily talk to them for hours on the topics. But this thread does not create understanding. | |||
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"Ball busting too What’s that about ?! " I'm a tall lad, tattood viking beard type who does stuff thay hurts from time to time as a hobby. The kind of bloke who takes a picture of his broken arm / lacerations / burns and sends it to his mates before seeking medical attention and will watch and ask the doc what all the purple wobbly bits sticking out are while they are patching me up. But a well aimed tap at my plums would have me curled up on the floor sobbing like a kicked puppy. I cannot imagine how those fellas stand up to that kind of punishment! kudos to them!! But it would have me out of action for weeks and mentally scarred! Braver men than I!! | |||
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"Shitting on someone's face " Getting shitfaced on gin, however... That's a game I can get into! | |||
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"Shitting on someone's face " Definitely not on my list or anywhere near it | |||
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"Been asked by younger ladies a couple of time if we play the Mummy and Daddy role. Very strange "Naah I find that quite hot | |||
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"Breath play. I can see the kink but it’s just too bloody dangerous. I had to look this up & very dangerous indeed " I love breath play it's so much a turn on xx | |||
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