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Men who can perform in front of others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago

I find it still strange when meeting couples and groups, how many men say they can perform byt cant in front of others. Maybe good to share experiences and have a list of men who can.

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By *hefabtrioCouple
5 weeks ago

Carlisle

Our friend away performed very well and loved me watching him wife my wife 😀

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Northampton

I think men have an inbuilt ‘anti cheat’ device which inhibits performance with new partners / lifestyle scenes. Takes a few times to build a new neurological pathway.

We’ve met a few in 4 way scenarios and have all still had plenty of fun.

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By *aulnextMan
5 weeks ago

Hoar Cross Staffordshire

I love being watched fucking a man’s wife. Even better if being filmed!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Central

Is it fostered by fewer people getting naked publicly?

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By *eviant TogMan
5 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

I absolutely love fucking in front of an audience, especially if the watcher/watchers is wanking getting more turned on by the sight.

But understandably these things kill the cock of many guys!

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By *ee1967Man
5 weeks ago

watford

I can

Being watched turns me on

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By *alsaman15Man
5 weeks ago

Market Drayton

Never been a problem yet

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By *ack1971Man
4 weeks ago

Cork


"I find it still strange when meeting couples and groups, how many men say they can perform byt cant in front of others. Maybe good to share experiences and have a list of men who can."

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Do you mean generally? Or scenario specific?

I find it interesting because I'm supposed to be the stag/cuck but since swinging since 1991 with several partners, I have come across non performers a lot, unless I leave the room...which defeats the purpose that meet was set up for.

Other times alcohol was involved before a person was going to meet us, and we cancelled when we smelled it. Fuck that, if you need alcohol or anything else to perform...forget it.

A lot of guys say they are up for MFM but only one managed it in all those years, and these days guys can't even hold a conversation!

There's a lot of low ball effort out there.

To the guy who do actually make it, well done! You're a dying breed

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By *imber373Man
4 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

It really turns me on fucking in front of an audience, equally enjoy watching others play

never had a problem holding an erection with men watching

Being bi helps 😁

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By *enelope2UWoman
4 weeks ago

Fife


"I think men have an inbuilt ‘anti cheat’ device which inhibits performance with new partners / lifestyle scenes. Takes a few times to build a new neurological pathway.

We’ve met a few in 4 way scenarios and have all still had plenty of fun. "

😂 Men and anti cheat filter ... Guess there's always a first to see on fab

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
4 weeks ago

Leicester/Ipswich

We met one previously as part of a couple (since left fab) who tried to make us feel bad that he couldn't get hard because he had to wear a condom... Safe to say we did not back down!

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By *HUSH-Man
4 weeks ago

London

I did it in my first meet and had an MFM (that wasn’t planned) I got to know them both over the course of a month. Messaging social with them both playtime.

The vast majority of couples I’ve dealt with don’t put much effort into making the guy feel comfortable.

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By *ed386Man
4 weeks ago

close by

Love to be watched/ encouraged and no problem with lots of people either! I definitely have a preference for mum scenario's and it is my absolute favourite!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago

Good on you safe sex is so important x if he could not get hard definatley not your fault x

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By *opman121Man
4 weeks ago

stoke on trent

Must had mit it is a turn on being watched guess your trying harder in your head to put a good performance in so u get a repeat meet

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By *iddyandherCouple
4 weeks ago

Benidorm

Female, I also find this happens when we organise meets. My hubby is a big boy and this makes some men droop when they see him. If I smell or suspect alcohol I will always cancel the meet if you need drugs or brink then your not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago


"Female, I also find this happens when we organise meets. My hubby is a big boy and this makes some men droop when they see him. If I smell or suspect alcohol I will always cancel the meet if you need drugs or brink then your not for me."
a big hubby is great as long as i can go first lol achahol and drugs major no

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