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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have put a meet up for tonight and unblocked single guys. I cant believe how many single guys have BB pics on their profile. We find this a massive turn off and a total no no. I know what some might say about the pics being from a regular partner/ex. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've pointed that out to some in the past, and yes your right, the only answer you will get if questioned, is they are of an ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not? "

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

if people want to do bare back then that's up to them.. if its not your thing then just move on .. cant see what the problem is really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not? "

It was more of a "selling point" really you would think that guys would want to show that they practiced "safe" sex

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We have put a meet up for tonight and unblocked single guys. I cant believe how many single guys have BB pics on their profile. We find this a massive turn off and a total no no. I know what some might say about the pics being from a regular partner/ex. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought?"

well if it part of your selection process... you know how to remove some then...

think about it... you are basically telling people how to get round your own rules.......is that really wise?

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

You won't find any on mine

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not? "

Bang on, I'd imagine you'll find virtually everyone on here has had bare sex at some point, those with kids have by definition!

Whether its with a wife, previous partner etc is a variance of a point

The absence of photos showing it shouldn't reassure you, use a condom and protect yourself and don't assume anything

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By *ekyllandHydeCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not?

It was more of a "selling point" really you would think that guys would want to show that they practiced "safe" sex"
totally agree with you. Had some really hot guys get in touch but they do bare back puts me straight off them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm. Many say that single men prefer bareback but i have had many messages from verified women and couples asking for bareback sex...to me, thats a bit of a shock. I dont even know them and this would be their first mesaage to me..weird!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if man is doing lady bareback, does that not make the lady just as bad as the man?

takes two to bareback!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not?

It was more of a "selling point" really you would think that guys would want to show that they practiced "safe" sex"

No one I know practices "safe" sex on here that's a misconception lol I've asked before about how many people use dental dams ( a lot of people didn't even know what it is) and your find most men probably don't even notice if the pics have a condom in or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this bare back talk is turning me on xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"if man is doing lady bareback, does that not make the lady just as bad as the man?

takes two to bareback!!"

absolutely... as someone says... i think you have to take the cycnical view that everyone does it... and then the one person who is going to protect you is you...

you have to take measures into your own hands to protect your health the best you can...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm. Many say that single men prefer bareback but i have had many messages from verified women and couples asking for bareback sex...to me, thats a bit of a shock. I dont even know them and this would be their first mesaage to me..weird!"

EVERYBODY prefers bareback lol,,just not in the swinging casual sex context

yet to find someone who thinks condoms are great,dental dams are sexy etc etc lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't mind whether or not someone has bb pics, and I rarely check out sex pics anyway. As long as they know that when they're with me they'll be using condoms and that I have plenty if they forget their own, it's all good.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not? "

Could not agree more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

said very niceley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i would insist on using something with them so it wouldn't bother me too much unless there were lots of bb gangbang pics or lots and lots of pics with obviously lots of different women all bb.

But if it was the same woman id assume they had an arrangement with that lady and carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not?

Bang on, I'd imagine you'll find virtually everyone on here has had bare sex at some point, those with kids have by definition!

Whether its with a wife, previous partner etc is a variance of a point

The absence of photos showing it shouldn't reassure you, use a condom and protect yourself and don't assume anything "

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"We have put a meet up for tonight and unblocked single guys. I cant believe how many single guys have BB pics on their profile. We find this a massive turn off and a total no no. I know what some might say about the pics being from a regular partner/ex. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought?"

whilst there is a bigger chance you may catch someone who really only does go bare, the likelyhood of catching something anyway is risky, pics or not.

I wouldnt trust guys who dont show pics anymore than guys that do.. So long as you play safe - its your choice what goes on

And I would totally message you - though im buggered

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Hmm. Many say that single men prefer bareback but i have had many messages from verified women and couples asking for bareback sex...to me, thats a bit of a shock. I dont even know them and this would be their first mesaage to me..weird!

EVERYBODY prefers bareback lol,,just not in the swinging casual sex context

yet to find someone who thinks condoms are great,dental dams are sexy etc etc lol"

lol there is a guy who posts pics of him and his doll though lol but couldnt agree more

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Being in this scene means you should ignore photos and accept the chance that you are having sex with someone who isn't being safe all the time. That said, we've played safe, but have photo's of Dave bare, but we've been together for 8 years! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always question this .. its questionable and I would hope on here they would use pictures showing condom use if they have to show ' action shots'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being in this scene means you should ignore photos and accept the chance that you are having sex with someone who isn't being safe all the time. That said, we've played safe, but have photo's of Dave bare, but we've been together for 8 years! :D"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not? "

100% this! ^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have put a meet up for tonight and unblocked single guys. I cant believe how many single guys have BB pics on their profile. We find this a massive turn off and a total no no. I know what some might say about the pics being from a regular partner/ex. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought?"

I have bb pics but they are from a regular partner not a fb.. I'm always health conscious and you should way up each prof on its merits x

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"if man is doing lady bareback, does that not make the lady just as bad as the man?

takes two to bareback!!

absolutely... as someone says... i think you have to take the cycnical view that everyone does it... and then the one person who is going to protect you is you...

you have to take measures into your own hands to protect your health the best you can..."

very well said... Couldn't have put it better myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if people want to do bare back then that's up to them.. if its not your thing then just move on .. cant see what the problem is really "

Agreed. I don't do bareback, but if some like it, then that is up to them. Would the OP be unhappy with oral sex pics if no condom/dam was used? While less risky, there is still an element of potential danger involved and the possiblity of contracting something nasty.

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

There is always a percentage of people who believe that putting a welly on for penetration only makes them safe as houses. Some of these people also believe that it makes them immune from the need to have check-ups. THIS is a problem and I wish I had a penny for every time I have had to spell out to such a person how important check-ups are.

I rest my case, M'lud.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that you can only protect yourself and ensure condoms are used if safe sex is important, just because someone states they always play safe isn't a guarantee they actually do.

But if you see bareback pics, even if you ensure they will use a condom with you, it would be in my head and I would be constantly checking the condom was in place and I wouldn't be able to completely switch off from that. So in that instance I don't think it's worth it when there are other mice guys around who don't make me feel uneasy about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree that you can only protect yourself and ensure condoms are used if safe sex is important, just because someone states they always play safe isn't a guarantee they actually do.

But if you see bareback pics, even if you ensure they will use a condom with you, it would be in my head and I would be constantly checking the condom was in place and I wouldn't be able to completely switch off from that. So in that instance I don't think it's worth it when there are other mice guys around who don't make me feel uneasy about it. "

and hung like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you really want to stay safe, stop swinging.

No? Well then concentrate on your own sexual practices and don't get so hung up on other peoples. As long as you're practising safe sex, then what others do is not an issue.

and if it is, you really need to stop having sex with randoms you meet online!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

How many of these BB pics belong to those guys????

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"If you really want to stay safe, stop swinging.

No? Well then concentrate on your own sexual practices and don't get so hung up on other peoples. As long as you're practising safe sex, then what others do is not an issue.

and if it is, you really need to stop having sex with randoms you meet online!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know where your coming from op..

No condom is 100% and sometimes accidents happen (rarely) and I think you would like to think if it did then you wouldn't be at a massise risk cos the person ur with has done bb.

It is a sub concious thing that makes that person more of a risk.. How many people would sleep with someone knowing they had hiv even tho they said to use every precaution going for example

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Dont care if its a regular partner or not....

If im looking at a "single" profile I dont want to see anyone else there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will BB my partner but we have been together years and have children however single males that join us cannot penetrate Louise unless they were a condom. You can't mess about with your health.

Safe swinging everybody

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"If you really want to stay safe, stop swinging.

No? Well then concentrate on your own sexual practices and don't get so hung up on other peoples. As long as you're practising safe sex, then what others do is not an issue.

and if it is, you really need to stop having sex with randoms you meet online!

"

Seconded

It is self denial to thing anyone you meet on here, and I mean anyone, has only ever in their entire life never had sex without a condom

You sleep with someone knowing they have, that there's a risk, and you use a condom to minimise, no remove, minimise that risk

Anything else is just delusional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have put a meet up for tonight and unblocked single guys. I cant believe how many single guys have BB pics on their profile. We find this a massive turn off and a total no no. I know what some might say about the pics being from a regular partner/ex. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought?"

Cannot agree more and the stock line when questioned is always, that was my girlfriend. Really really offputting. I love pics with condoms on. I even like porn with condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All because someone does have condoms on on their pics that does not mean they don't do bareback, they just to clever to show bareback pics

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"If you really want to stay safe, stop swinging.

No? Well then concentrate on your own sexual practices and don't get so hung up on other peoples. As long as you're practising safe sex, then what others do is not an issue.

and if it is, you really need to stop having sex with randoms you meet online!

"

*standing ovation*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not?

It was more of a "selling point" really you would think that guys would want to show that they practiced "safe" sex"

Oh so a couple of pics of them wearing a condom proves they are clean ??? Like a previous person say, pics are pics and other than finding out about a persons looks and body etc, they say nothing else. Thats down to you to keep safe and you are in control....either way, you enjoy and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See this decides opinion in our house lol

I don't mind if previous meets have done bareback as long as don't do it with me as in the past we have all been there

Dave doesn't feel comfy playing with anyone who hasn't played safe I can see his point but also mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing for me is just because a meet has photos with them wearing a condom doesn't mean they always do.

As when I've played bare.. it's always been with profiles that say safe sex only.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of BB pics are men with their wives/long term partners.......and the odd mad heads that just like risk......

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"if people want to do bare back then that's up to them.. if its not your thing then just move on .. cant see what the problem is really "

I agree.

I just don't understand people with a holyier than thou attitude being on a swinging site. There are people that do things that I wouldn't do, but I would never criticize or judge anyone as what other people do is their own business.

It seems to me that some people have to hide their own guilty feelings by making other people look bad and that is nothing less than bullying.

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"If you really want to stay safe, stop swinging.

No? Well then concentrate on your own sexual practices and don't get so hung up on other peoples. As long as you're practising safe sex, then what others do is not an issue.

and if it is, you really need to stop having sex with randoms you meet online!

"

Couldn't agree more. Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you really want to stay safe, stop swinging.

No? Well then concentrate on your own sexual practices and don't get so hung up on other peoples. As long as you're practising safe sex, then what others do is not an issue.

and if it is, you really need to stop having sex with randoms you meet online!

Couldn't agree more. Well said."

Here here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if people want to do bare back then that's up to them.. if its not your thing then just move on .. cant see what the problem is really

I agree.

I just don't understand people with a holyier than thou attitude being on a swinging site. There are people that do things that I wouldn't do, but I would never criticize or judge anyone as what other people do is their own business.

It seems to me that some people have to hide their own guilty feelings by making other people look bad and that is nothing less than bullying."

Holier than tho? Bullying? A tad extreme.. You could say that about anyones personal poreference if that was the case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not? "

agree 100% with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing with your health so no BB for us, just between the two of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms are not the most comfortable or nice smelling for that matter.... but probably better to wear yer wellies when going wading!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have put a meet up for tonight and unblocked single guys. I cant believe how many single guys have BB pics on their profile. We find this a massive turn off and a total no no. I know what some might say about the pics being from a regular partner/ex. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought?"

You find bb pics a massive turn off and a total no no. You have bareback pics on your profile.... Just saying

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull


"Doesn't matter if the guy/couple/woman has bb pics or not you have to treat everybody as though they have always played bare , the only person who can keep you safe is you why worry if their pics show it or not?

agree 100% with this "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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You find bb pics a massive turn off and a total no no. You have bareback pics on your profile.... Just saying "

Yes we do but we are a couple. The OP was refering to "single guy" profiles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have put a meet up for tonight and unblocked single guys. I cant believe how many single guys have BB pics on their profile. We find this a massive turn off and a total no no. I know what some might say about the pics being from a regular partner/ex. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought?"
each to there own ..not the place to be trying to establish a moral superiority

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I.wanst and ever habe done I just wanted so see other peoples oppinions

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"We have put a meet up for tonight and unblocked single guys. I cant believe how many single guys have BB pics on their profile. We find this a massive turn off and a total no no. I know what some might say about the pics being from a regular partner/ex. Just wanted to see what everyone else thought?"

You have pics on your profile of you Bareback !!!

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