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"Sounds more like an affair than a hot wife, tbh… " Not the type I would suggest she would cheat with. I am not saying she instigated it in any way. The male was either quite d*unk or on a high with something. Not really her type. | |||
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"You could ask her in a way that suggests you thought it fun and sexy that another man showed interest in her and you weren’t upset and see pif that opens her up to talk on the general subject. It may take her a few days to think it over once she realises it’s not a big deal and you see the fun side - but go gently and maybe no pushing/appearing over eager especially if you don’t know where her head is at. Just a thought but of course it’s scenario specific and not knowing the parties it’s only an idea. " Fair and sensible approach. | |||
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"My wife and I were out a few saturdays ago at a friends 40th party. One of our friends husbands, whilst I was flagging a taxi, almost certainly grabbed my wife's arse when I was up the street, but I caught him doing this from afar. They both seemed a bit sheepish when I returned. When I did ask her about it she seemed to be in denial. Now my wife has not yet dabbled with others, as far as I know, but the drive is there in my opinion. So, any views on what happened and the behaviours?" Erm I would say that’s kinda inappropriate tbh Like, he is married to one of your friends who is unaware of what he did and he also overstepped the boundaries of your own relationship. Assuming he doesn’t know you swing that could cause a lot of upset between you as a couple Just my point of view but I am a hotwife | |||
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"My wife and I were out a few saturdays ago at a friends 40th party. One of our friends husbands, whilst I was flagging a taxi, almost certainly grabbed my wife's arse when I was up the street, but I caught him doing this from afar. They both seemed a bit sheepish when I returned. When I did ask her about it she seemed to be in denial. Now my wife has not yet dabbled with others, as far as I know, but the drive is there in my opinion. So, any views on what happened and the behaviours? Erm I would say that’s kinda inappropriate tbh Like, he is married to one of your friends who is unaware of what he did and he also overstepped the boundaries of your own relationship. Assuming he doesn’t know you swing that could cause a lot of upset between you as a couple Just my point of view but I am a hotwife " A very hot, hot wife at that. | |||
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"My wife and I were out a few saturdays ago at a friends 40th party. One of our friends husbands, whilst I was flagging a taxi, almost certainly grabbed my wife's arse when I was up the street, but I caught him doing this from afar. They both seemed a bit sheepish when I returned. When I did ask her about it she seemed to be in denial. Now my wife has not yet dabbled with others, as far as I know, but the drive is there in my opinion. So, any views on what happened and the behaviours? Erm I would say that’s kinda inappropriate tbh Like, he is married to one of your friends who is unaware of what he did and he also overstepped the boundaries of your own relationship. Assuming he doesn’t know you swing that could cause a lot of upset between you as a couple Just my point of view but I am a hotwife " Yes, that was more my thinking. He likes to push different boundaries. In all fairness, my wife showed no further interest and actively stayed away from him. | |||
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"She may have an intrest and you're clearly OK with it. However the problem here is her denial and lack of openness if you're right. It can't work unless she is completely comfortable being open with you about her desires and what she wants. Which I get is hard for many to do, especially when new to the lifestyle and/or in a long vanilla relationship that you don't want to risk. But this doesn't work unless you have complete openness, great honest communication and trust. So until you establish those foundations don't start HW'ing. So this is where you try to create the right environment and conversations to let her feel at ease and safe with you to express with you a desire to be with other men. Let her know its ok to have intrest in other people, thats shes safe to express her desires with you without risking the relationship and that you won't be hurt. And of course let her know your support is from a point of love not transaction. Because sometimes women fear your intrest in them seeing others is more about seeking permission for you to be with others when they may not be OK or ready with that. Hopefully (assuming you're right about her desires) she will with the right conversations feel free enough to openly chase her desires knowing she has your full support and love. However if she can't/won't openly express her desires then this a poor foundation for HW'ing or any form of swing or monogamish dynamic (assuming you're right about her desires). So it's time you talk. Mr " Interesting points. Many truths. | |||
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