FabSwingers.com forum: Dry spell

By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

When on a dry spell 26 months and here for but nothing cones of it even just chatting, is it bad to end up turning to professional as few friend have said its that bad its the only way now.

Am i really that unappealing!!?

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By *oulou22Woman
5 weeks ago

Sutton

Seems like a sensible solution

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By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

So unattractive and unappealing is a yes then,

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By *oulou22Woman
5 weeks ago

Sutton

That's not what I said

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By *impcuckMan
5 weeks ago

edge of taunton

people will only meet if they want to meet you and few post lately about paying for sex if its just sex you need then carry on but dont confuse seeing a pro with swinging because swinging it aint

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By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

Alright, just dont think turning to a paid option is the best bet surely. Not what i wana be doing if honest

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

"...is it bad to end up turning to professional..."

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A professional what?

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By *ucka39Man
5 weeks ago

Newcastle

"...is it bad to end up turning to professional...

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A professional what?"

I think the alternative option E s c o r

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By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

That be the one, appare tly if i cant sort it myself a few mates getting one to sort it out for feb as its birthday then

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

Have you tried attending a group social, OP? It's a brilliant way to meet new people and imbibe?

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By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

I dont drive, and at moment just got back on track, and kinda nervous to go to one on own if honest

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Central

Only a tiny percentage of people are mutually compatible. It's not about unattractive, when there's not mutually compatibility, it's purely just that there's not a match.

If you can find people outside of a website, then it spreads your likelihood of being viewed in the better environment for you. Certainly look at all options that are open to you keep faith in yourself and stay away from Fab, if it knocks you.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I'm over the moon there's a place in Sheffield again as it's opened up a totally different side of being on here for me .

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By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

Fair 1, and where i am seems dead haha

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"Fair 1, and where i am seems dead haha"
I've fell really lucky tbf that this one has just started up . I suppose it depends on if you can travel a bit

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By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

Unless its on public transport not really as no car right now

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By *mpressionable12Man
5 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd rather go through a dry spell, no matter how long, than have to resort to paying

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By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

Thats my point dont really want to but its soul reaping lol

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"Unless its on public transport not really as no car right now"
I would consider Leeds and Derby by train for myself , the hotel is a bit trickier at the moment

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By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

Yer costs that i cant manage right this second

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By *WANDTGCouple
5 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

So you've not had a playdate in 2 years, why not venture on dating apps then. Find someone on there, who knows , they may have similar interests .

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By *ukeM8519Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin

Man just go get yourself a sensual Thai massage or something like that, Uk is full of them. Be nice to treat yourself, have a

Nice lady oil you up and you will feel good afterwards with out the guilt of paying for a ‘working lady’.

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By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

Haha if only that did out for me, hate idea of them if honest

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By *uzzleMan
5 weeks ago

Hastings

Wow, 'just' 48 months!

I am 48 and haven't had sex in my 40's atall!

I've been on and off here for 3 or 4 years and not a sniff of a meet.

I admit I don't put any effort in and have only messaged one woman who asked for a face pic and didn't reply. However, I had anticipated a no response as this is what happens in real life. There are far better options out there and I just accept that. If you're a Ford Mondeo and you want to be a Ferrari, no amount of clothes, personaility or a big cock (which in the real world people neither see or anticipate), is going to make a difference!

What has surprised me though is after a couple of years, I just accepted it. If I never had sex in my life again it would be no big deal.

I don't think anyone would hold an e s c o r t against you, some people can't do without company or the human touch. Having said that I'd be very nervous about doing so.

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, press Reply+Quote - that way we'll know to whom you're replying.

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By *orny-Shadow OP Man
5 weeks ago

burnley

"OP, press Reply+Quote - that way we'll know to whom you're replying."

Didnt know that haha thanks

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I'm over the moon there's a place in Sheffield again as it's opened up a totally different side of being on here for me . "

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What "place" in Sheffield? A group social?

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"I'm over the moon there's a place in Sheffield again as it's opened up a totally different side of being on here for me .

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What "place" in Sheffield? A group social?"
new la chambre mate I'll DM the link if you want

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I'm over the moon there's a place in Sheffield again as it's opened up a totally different side of being on here for me .

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What "place" in Sheffield? A group social?new la chambre mate I'll DM the link if you want "

If you're talking about a Fab organised group social (often held in gastropubs, cocktail bars etc) then yes. If you're referring to a house of ill repute then as you were.

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