FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting guys as a bicurious man?

By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

Have any other guys out there struggled with this? I’m reasonably straight but also do enjoy playing with guys. The trouble is I’ve been put off with some weird men in the past and I don’t feel as comfortable meeting with guys since I’m not attracted to them in quite the same way as women.

I really want to suck a guy again but I guess I’m a bit scared for lack of a better word.

Any other bi guys struggle with this?

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By *oxy jWoman
7 weeks ago

somerset

all you can do is look for the right person ... hubs is fully bi and has been since first sexually active but he is so selective on who he meets he has a type he sticks too ..

alot of bi guys will quite literally fuck anything anywhere almost like they are not bi but more desperate for sex..

if your bi or bi curious then at least you like the male form just be honest with that rather than the i dont fancy them because you must fancy a little to get excited to want to suck a guy ..and the bi guys you need to help you along are the real bi guys not the desperate ones ... good luck

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By *ibblepilotMan
7 weeks ago

Preston

Somewhere like Northwich sauna on the monthly bi-day could be good for you if you'd venture into a (brilliant] club. Facilities are great and a good mix of people.

Been good for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

"all you can do is look for the right person ... hubs is fully bi and has been since first sexually active but he is so selective on who he meets he has a type he sticks too ..

alot of bi guys will quite literally fuck anything anywhere almost like they are not bi but more desperate for sex..

Thank you that’s great advice!

I’m definitely not just desperate and I’m really picky with guys, but I think I just need to be patient and find one I really like.

I get nervous at the best of times but with guys that happens way before we even arrange anything haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

"Somewhere like Northwich sauna on the monthly bi-day could be good for you if you'd venture into a (brilliant] club. Facilities are great and a good mix of people.

Been good for me "

Sadly I’ve got very little like that around, but up in London I’ll have to see what I can find!

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By *ongAndThick123Man
7 weeks ago

Leeds

"Have any other guys out there struggled with this? I’m reasonably straight but also do enjoy playing with guys. The trouble is I’ve been put off with some weird men in the past and I don’t feel as comfortable meeting with guys since I’m not attracted to them in quite the same way as women.

I really want to suck a guy again but I guess I’m a bit scared for lack of a better word.

Any other bi guys struggle with this?"

The first thing would be to understand what you’re scared of. Once you’ve figured that out then you can avoid people who cause you to feel that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I'm similar to you. I don't fancy guys but sometimes like the idea of mutual cock play. And like you, I'm very unsure what page other guys are on so tend to avoid giving it a go.

I might venture to a bi event at a club one day. Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

Yeah you’re right, thank you.

Think I’ve just never actually been with a guy who’s actually my type, so it’s always put me off. And they also don’t like to talk much before you meet so that never helps

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"Yeah you’re right, thank you.

Think I’ve just never actually been with a guy who’s actually my type, so it’s always put me off. And they also don’t like to talk much before you meet so that never helps "

No guys are my type. I don't look at a guy and feel attracted to him. I just sometimes like the idea, when horny, of sucking or wanking another cock.

A feminine trans girl might be what I'm looking for, or an mmf 3-some.

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By *ilentrunningMan
7 weeks ago

Cardiff/Reading/Liverpool &more

alot of bi guys will quite literally fuck anything anywhere almost like they are not bi but more desperate for sex.. "

You’re not wrong there, some initial curiosity led me to briefly joining Fabguys —- it’s frickin feral in there

I genuinely haven’t any interest in meeting a guy on his own, but very comfortable with the idea of a little bi play in mmf situations

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By *ackandviolet96Couple
7 weeks ago

Gateshead

Hey op! Jack here.

I am the same, I'm not romanticly interested in men in any way. But I enjoy playing with a guy in both a bi mmf setting and solo MM play. I too get really nervous whenever I meet anyone and I'd say that's probably normal and I don't think that will ever change for me. I find that it helps to talk with guys and get to know people abit and have something in common you can chat about and biuld a little trust beforehand. Main thing is no presure, iv met people in the past who have been real pushy and just wasn't a good experience but at the same time I took the lessons from that and helped me understand what I'm looking for and not looking for. Just find people you connect with and always remember you don't owe anyone take things at your pace. Happy if you want to DM to chat some too or anyone in in regards to this subject.

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By *rKinksMan
7 weeks ago

Alton

Jack definitely agree more bi sexual hetro romantic.

My taste for guys is definitely more narrow

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By *ongAndThick123Man
7 weeks ago

Leeds

alot of bi guys will quite literally fuck anything anywhere almost like they are not bi but more desperate for sex..

You’re not wrong there, some initial curiosity led me to briefly joining Fabguys —- it’s frickin feral in there

I genuinely haven’t any interest in meeting a guy on his own, but very comfortable with the idea of a little bi play in mmf situations "

Haha. I briefly joined and then left that site. It was intense.

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