FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies of fabs etiquette advice

By *alentedf OP Man
12 weeks ago

Near Newbury

What would the ladies of fab advice be for the following situation.

You are at the gym and are 99% sure you recognise a lovely lady from fab.

Do you say hello?

Message on here first (don't want it to sound stalker ish)

Your genuine advice please.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
12 weeks ago

London

General advice on both counts:

Never approach women in the gym

Never approach fab contacts in the street

Combine and you've got a definite no.

If you really want to approach her then do it through fab so she has the opportunity to block you or tell you it's not her if she's not interested

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Personal and fab life are completely separate. If you recognise anyone, respect their privacy and keep it moving.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alentedf OP Man
12 weeks ago

Near Newbury

"General advice on both counts:

Never approach women in the gym

Never approach fab contacts in the street

Combine and you've got a definite no.

If you really want to approach her then do it through fab so she has the opportunity to block you or tell you it's not her if she's not interested "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Silver FuxMan
12 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Leave her alone. If you’re a dick then she’ll have to cancel membership and change gyms to avoid you.

Don’t even message her on Fab to say you’ve seen her at the gym, it rarely comes across as anything but stalker ish / creepy. If she isn’t attracted to you then she knows you are at the gym - she’ll have to cancel and change gyms.

Just don’t.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entlemanPMan
12 weeks ago

Grantham

"Personal and fab life are completely separate. If you recognise anyone, respect their privacy and keep it moving."

This is an absolute... They don't cross over. Simple

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alentedf OP Man
12 weeks ago

Near Newbury

All good advice.

Nice just to have your thoughts.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lice AgainTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Bristol

"Personal and fab life are completely separate. If you recognise anyone, respect their privacy and keep it moving."

Totally this.

Even in the fetish club I regularly attend I've had a guy come up to me and say 'hey, are you... from fab'?

No, no I am not. Go away.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ixie888Woman
12 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

I concur. Had some guy on here message me to say he'd seen me in the local aldi. I was with my teenage daughter.

Instant block and spine shudder.

Avoid or certainly proceed with caution x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex

If anyone does feel it necessary to message someone and say they've seen them somewhere and I would very strongly advise against it, for goodness sake send a clear face picture, say who you are, where you've seen them and assure them you will never approach them in public.

However I cannot stress enough that unless they have made it very clear that it's acceptable that this is an extremely bad idea.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Don't approach, vanilla and fab are very separate and id find it creepy.

If you want to message her then do so but without mentioning you've seen her around.

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andPextraCouple
12 weeks ago

North West

"Don't approach, vanilla and fab are very separate and id find it creepy.

If you want to message her then do so but without mentioning you've seen her around.

Mrs "

This.

If you approached me via what youd suggested.

Id run a mile and probably change gyms.

Ive only ever bumped into anyone once that I recognised from. Club and vice versa (in Lidl of all places.) We completely blanked each other.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread