FabSwingers.com forum: ladies are you visual of yourself during sex

By *oxy j OP Woman
9 weeks ago

somerset

ladies are you visual of yourself during sex ...

im very visual during sex i like to see whats happening often via the mirror wall but was told by a guy that its a mans thing to watch and most women apparently just shut there eyes ... i said rubbish ...am i wrong

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

I mostly shut my eyes.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
9 weeks ago

Chester

"ladies are you visual of yourself during sex ...

My experience is that most women are usually "diminished" sexually. They generally don't want to see their bodies and all that. They generally just want to take a "back seat".

However, occasionally, you do get the odd ones who act like absolute, sex-obsessed slu*s, and that's very much appreciated.

I generally agree with your friend.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Ryde

I was so nervous and self-conscious during the first year of seeing guys that I wore a blindfold.

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By *runette n JayCouple
9 weeks ago

bilston

Ooooo we both love watching! One of the reasons we want to watch each other with others!

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By *parkle1974Woman
9 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't shut my eyes but I hate the whole mirror thing x

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By *ussraneCouple
9 weeks ago

Romford

Eyes shut, makes the touches heightened

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By *hawslut_redemptionCouple
9 weeks ago

Minehead

I have to admit I do like a blindfold, but when it's off I also like watching the action taking place

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By *oneyBee200Woman
9 weeks ago

Kent

I do like to shut my eyes and enjoy what is going on but occasionally there is that urge to see what they are doing that feels so damn good. Depending on who I'm with it turns then on more when I'm watching

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By *enelope2UWoman
9 weeks ago

Fife

Yes.. only close my eyes if they start to roll because they hurt when they roll, otherwise I'm focusing on him as he's focusing on me and we are focussing on each otherm

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
9 weeks ago

Paignton

More concentrated on the pleasure than what I look like. Don’t think anyone loved the porn orgasm look 🤣

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I like the visual. Mirror occasionally but I'm generally more interested in watching their body and reactions 💜

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By *andynecklaceWoman
9 weeks ago

Someplace

Very. It's so hot watching yourself

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
9 weeks ago

wonderland.

I love watching when it's mr and I.... but don't like watching myself other than that

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
9 weeks ago

Scarborogh

Love to have my eyes closed. Just helps to make everything feel more intense.

Mrs SW

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By *andPextraCouple
9 weeks ago

North West

Our play room has mirrors on three sides. Love it.

Adds so much to my enjoyment

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By *orphia2003Woman
9 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I sometimes enjoy watching myself. Depends on my mood.

I particularly like it if I'm using my strap-ons on someone

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
9 weeks ago

Wolvo

As others have said not keen on the mirror thing but i do watch them more so. I kinda forget I'm participating in the whole thing lol.

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By *oxy j OP Woman
9 weeks ago

somerset

"Eyes shut, makes the touches heightened "

i must be wired wrong lol as watching just makes me super horny just watching the guy/guys wow

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By *oxy j OP Woman
9 weeks ago

somerset

"Our play room has mirrors on three sides. Love it.

Adds so much to my enjoyment

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By *oxy j OP Woman
9 weeks ago

somerset

"More concentrated on the pleasure than what I look like. Don’t think anyone loved the porn orgasm look 🤣"

or worse those those who try to copy the howls of cows and other animals sounds trying to copy porn orgasms makes me laugh so fake..

im happy with my body is it perfect no but im not going to waste time worrying about it and the watching is about the guys and what they are doing super super hot and as far away from porn as you can get

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By *ippingDeeplyMan
9 weeks ago

Bath

Ive always found it a turn on when she enjoys eyecontact and looking at whats happening, accompanied with a bit of a pained pleasure in her eyes. Appreciate that having their eyes closed may help some enjoy sex, but personally it feels quite distant and disengaged, a turn off.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
9 weeks ago

Wirral

I don't want to watch myself but I do want to watch whoever I'm with.

I find a mirror a bit distracting as I then get caught up in the weird faces I'm making and the state of my hair rather than staying in the moment with my partner.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
9 weeks ago

caledonian

"Very. It's so hot watching yourself "

I believe that

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
9 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

Locking eyes during pleasure...

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By *oxy j OP Woman
9 weeks ago

somerset

"Ive always found it a turn on when she enjoys eyecontact and looking at whats happening, accompanied with a bit of a pained pleasure in her eyes. Appreciate that having their eyes closed may help some enjoy sex, but personally it feels quite distant and disengaged, a turn off."

and this is what guys tell me they find it a turn on that im interested in them

ive always been visual with sex no matter whom im with couple women guys and who ever else just so horny

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By *irebrand 1263Man
9 weeks ago

near you

I love a lady to watch

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