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East Midlands

I’ve seen a few woman on here say they are not bothered if you’re attached or not? What’s everybody’s thoughts and the pros and cons of both

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
5 weeks ago

Inverness

Don’t entertain anyone if they are here without partners consent

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By *othwaysnudeMan
5 weeks ago

chesterfield

Totally agree, I’m attached and don’t mind if others are but no one deserves to be cheated on - just leave them if your not happy if fairest to all

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By *endalshaggersCouple
5 weeks ago

Kendal

One of those moral grey areas. Down to personal preference, if you genuinely don't mind then we're all adults, nothing stopping you.

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By *ogerroger69Man
5 weeks ago

West Yorks

Married guys are more discrete x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

Attached with full knowledge of their partner or not?

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
5 weeks ago

Stoke

No chance with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I think a lot of women are naive to think they have never been with an attached man. People lie because they know women have strong views on this subject, so does it really make a difference if you never truly know? Probably not. I wouldn't set out to harm anyone but my play partners private life is none of my business unless we have established something more than just sex.

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By *tagvixen89Couple
5 weeks ago

Reading

Married men are usually more reliable and not looking for anything more than sex. Which suits us

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By *heonlycunnilinguyMan
5 weeks ago

Yeovil

Surely it is a preference and to be respected.

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By *rmrsp999Couple
5 weeks ago

glasgowish

It's down to personal preference, but we could do without the drama if someone's fucking round behind their partners back and get found out

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
5 weeks ago

Cambs

Cheating is never a good idea.

We have found meeting separately can be exciting for both of us, we have different things we enjoy so sometimes it's good to meet on our own.

The only thing we insist on is knowing the other is safe.

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
5 weeks ago

London

"Married men are usually more reliable and not looking for anything more than sex. Which suits us"

This is exactly our thoughts too. We've had much more drama and horrible situations from single guys continuing to harass than we've ever had from a wife who's found out.

Sorry if that makes us sound bad but as far as I'm concerned the morals and reasons sit with the people doing the cheating not us.

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

If their partner knows then all well and good but I would never help facilitate a cheater.

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By *exanthemMan
5 weeks ago

North

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By *herrybakewellCouple
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

So i will only meet married men if their partner is aware. We aren't into cheating.

I do always prefer to meet married men, from my experience they just seem more reliable and treat me correctly.

Mrs.

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By *exanthemMan
5 weeks ago

North

Humans do what we are naturally wired to do - all this marriage and relationship are man mad thing to consolidate the wealth or find someone who can do your laundry for free/basically run your house for free. Love is the utmost thing, and it comes to you naturally so is sex so is hunger - who are we to judge what is right or wrong when it comes to natural desires…your love fades away over the period or time…your desire to have sex fades away and hunger too…so time kills everything over the period…so if you hold everything throughout your life….what is left towards the end…a life led with so many compromises that made you suffer more than enjoying the life….you only have 227,840 hrs (80yrs, 8 hrs/day) in this life to really taste the life in this life….now calculate how much are left in your life..and remove first and last 16 yrs of life..a Buddhist monk told me when I asked the same question to him…btw his wife left him because he fell in love with…..Buddha…

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

To me there aren't any pros to be honest.

I wouldn't knowingly meet anyone here behind someone's back, because people find things out & I'd hate it done to me.

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
5 weeks ago

Chislehurst

I understand most peoples personal life is completely separate from their swinger life and o respect that boundary, their personal life has nothing to do with me

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By *illy IdolMan
5 weeks ago

Midlands

"No chance with us. "

How do you vet this at swingers clubs?

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By *exanthemMan
5 weeks ago

North

"No chance with us.

How do you vet this at swingers clubs?"

And dark room

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
5 weeks ago

Stoke

We've been there and done that as we didn't know he was married. We then had the wife having a go at us on the phone as she found out about his profile on here.

Never again.

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By *heelz69Man
5 weeks ago

Manchester

I wouldn't go with anyone in a relationship unless there partner knew and was fine with it.

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By *ungWithStamina OP Man
5 weeks ago

East Midlands

"We've been there and done that as we didn't know he was married. We then had the wife having a go at us on the phone as she found out about his profile on here.

Never again. "

Here’s one reason not to go with an attached man without his wife knowing! The hassle and grief you don’t need haha

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By *ungWithStamina OP Man
5 weeks ago

East Midlands

"If their partner knows then all well and good but I would never help facilitate a cheater."

Say it louder for the people at the back!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

All I ask is that they don't involve me.

What other people do is their business and unless they directly ask me for their views on their private life I mind mine.

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

"We've been there and done that as we didn't know he was married. We then had the wife having a go at us on the phone as she found out about his profile on here.

Never again. "

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But the question remains unanswered: how do you discern or vet them? I'm sure there's an obvious answer; indulge me.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
5 weeks ago

Leeds

I assume that the majority of people on here have partners.

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By *wingerjay1987Man
5 weeks ago

Cumbria

I’d only play if the other half knew. I don’t need the drama in my life and no one deserves to be cheated on

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By *runette n JayCouple
5 weeks ago

bilston

No from me.

I'd instantly have zero trust in that person and that is paramount when the safety of my entire world is as stake.

Brunette knows every single detail of mine, the good the bad and the ugly... as well as I know hers. That's commitment in a nutshell, to hold someone's entirety in your hands requires a huge amount of trust from your partner, to shit on your best friend who accepts you for you (as they know it) is just heartless.

If you can lie to your everything like that you can lie about anything.

Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

When I was single on here I didn't want attached or married men ...

I found them highly unreliable and inconsistent... never available evenings and weekends .... and if they were it was a quick fuck n go.

I also didn't want the potential drama.

So having said that I did unknowingly meet 2 married men who lied until after we'd shagged and met 1 unknown guy for a social till I found out he was married.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
5 weeks ago

Ipswich

We won't meet attached and playing away. Not interested in short meets when they can escape, or the drama if they get found out.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
5 weeks ago

Stoke

"We've been there and done that as we didn't know he was married. We then had the wife having a go at us on the phone as she found out about his profile on here.

Never again.

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But the question remains unanswered: how do you discern or vet them? I'm sure there's an obvious answer; indulge me.

We only meet in clubs now so not many married guys would attend clubs we'd hope. All you can do is ask and hopefully get a true answer, honestly the abuse we got was off the scale as she had our mobile number from him.

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
5 weeks ago

Cannock

"Married men are usually more reliable and not looking for anything more than sex. Which suits us

This is exactly our thoughts too. We've had much more drama and horrible situations from single guys continuing to harass than we've ever had from a wife who's found out.

Sorry if that makes us sound bad but as far as I'm concerned the morals and reasons sit with the people doing the cheating not us.

Pretty much this for us.

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By *unning onCouple
5 weeks ago

leatherhead

Because I don't mind being tarred with the 'slut brush' on here I love fucking hing married guys! Who am I to judge!?

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By *arriedLookingMan
5 weeks ago

Dumfries

"Because I don't mind being tarred with the 'slut brush' on here I love fucking hing married guys! Who am I to judge!?"

Only way to be.

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By *andynecklaceWoman
5 weeks ago

Someplace

Couldn't care less. In fact it's better in a sense if they are attached, don't have to worry about them catching feelings

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By *andb69Couple
5 weeks ago

leeds

I enjoy anonymous sex with strangers in clubs. I'm not going to ask whether the guy (or woman) is married and/or has permission.

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By *WB85Man
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

You're relying on men, that likely aren't getting it at home to tell you the truth....when they're desperate to fuck.

It's a very difficult process, but we find that the truth always comes out.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
5 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I would say that most of the ladies I have had the pleasure of their company have been married/attached.

Of them, I would say the vast majority advertise themselves as single or certainly no mention of being attached.

I prefer it. They will not pester me to go to the cinema or take them out for a drink or meet their fucking nieces or nephews etc etc

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By *ony MannMan
5 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

Attached, they will not ask to marry you.

Unattached, not partner to repaint your car.

Take you pick

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By *impcuckMan
5 weeks ago

edge of taunton

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By *impcuckMan
5 weeks ago

edge of taunton

not here to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Had luck with married ladies playing here without their partner's consent. Not bothered. It's their choice and frankly speaking they know what they want.

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By *MattyMan
5 weeks ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

Might not be agreeable to most but as long as you both agree then it is what it is, sometimes there are all here for a reason and whilst its a choice we make freely its not ours to judge

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By *tanlee1512Man
5 weeks ago

Epsom

Each to their own

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By *onnie 90Woman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

"Totally agree, I’m attached and don’t mind if others are but no one deserves to be cheated on - just leave them if your not happy if fairest to all "

Surely you're criticising yourself with that comment. That's unless you have your partners consent of course?

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Couldn't care less. In fact it's better in a sense if they are attached, don't have to worry about them catching feelings "

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Sometimes, on Fab, catching feelings is as easy as catching butterflies with an invisible net, unless you're a lepidopterist. 🦋

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Central

Cheating can devastate others for life. I hope found some people are hard to arrange meetings with and I tend to get suspicious, if they aren't readily contactable or disappear a lot

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Couldn't care less. In fact it's better in a sense if they are attached, don't have to worry about them catching feelings "

I doubt a marriage certificate makes anyone immune from 'cstchinf feelings' I don't think it's something anyone can control really

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

^^ 'catching '

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By *andynecklaceWoman
5 weeks ago

Someplace

"Couldn't care less. In fact it's better in a sense if they are attached, don't have to worry about them catching feelings

I doubt a marriage certificate makes anyone immune from 'cstchinf feelings' I don't think it's something anyone can control really"

I should've worded it better. Yes, you're right anyone can catch feelings. I meant to say even if they get attached, I wouldn't have to worry about them wanting more as they are married and they're less likely to leave their partner

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Couldn't care less. In fact it's better in a sense if they are attached, don't have to worry about them catching feelings

I doubt a marriage certificate makes anyone immune from 'cstchinf feelings' I don't think it's something anyone can control really

😎 you're right

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By *andyh78Man
5 weeks ago

manchester

Somewhere up this thread is a comment about it being in a moral grey area. Everything in this website would be judged as morally wrong by the majority of the population that aren’t members of this site.

Let’s not judge one another in here, just have fun.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
5 weeks ago

Ashbourne

You never can be 100% sure because men will tell you they are single even if they’re not. We take interactions at face value and go with our gut feeling.

We do get messages from married men. They are usually happy in their circumstances on the whole but have a vanilla wife or there is other reasons why they use the site. They are only human and have desires like the rest of us. I imagine it must be frustrating to be in a marriage where the sex is mismatched.

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By *elboy1978Man
5 weeks ago

Fellgate

I am not Judging anyone each to there own

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