FabSwingers.com forum: New or shy couples meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

We are thinking about embarking on our first couples experience. Possibly with plans for next week to have a weekend away.

We are particularly keen to hear from couples who are also excited about the thought of this lifestyle but yet to venture in.

Even males who are trying to encourage their partner to dip their toe….sometimes conversations are had in the bedroom but making those fantasies reality can be challenging so we are keen to hear from all.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

We talked about it for about 10 years before we actually made it happen. We tried everything after.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

Communication is key.

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By *abonTedCouple
7 weeks ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

We’ve been to clubs, been to resorts and even played with single guys but not with couples. We’re off to libs next Saturday and have already arranged to meet a couple. A little nervous but really looking forward to it

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By *avid 50Man
7 weeks ago

kendal

if the lady is a little apprehensive perhaps your first meeting should just be inviting a guy or a couple to watch you having sex to see if you enjoy the experience, done this with two couples one of them the lady said she didn't like the experience of being on display and she couldn't orgasm, and soon afterwards their profile disappeared the other couple I did meet several times and they are now well into verifications it is a good way to see you enjoy the situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

"We’ve been to clubs, been to resorts and even played with single guys but not with couples. We’re off to libs next Saturday and have already arranged to meet a couple. A little nervous but really looking forward to it "

Arhhh so very similar to us. We have played with another guy. But not met with another couple yet. Hope the couple you have arranged to meet don’t let you down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

I think we have maybe not explained ourselves. We want to find a similarly apprehensive couple. As opposed to an already experienced/established couple within the scene.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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7 weeks ago

East Sussex

We'd never get involved with males who are trying to encourage their partner. If either partner needs 'encouragement' then we walk away and have done a couple of times.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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7 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I think we have maybe not explained ourselves. We want to find a similarly apprehensive couple. As opposed to an already experienced/established couple within the scene. "

Are you both apprehensive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

Apprehensive but not in a negative way. An excited way. What our intentions are is to find a similar couple in a similar stage of their journey that we can meet, talk to, get a bit flirty with, talk to some more about normal stuff and then go our separate ways with our respective partners. Might seem a bit lame and boring to some but for us it’s the first stage of the excitement and then we can have a whole night talking about the what could have happened. Of we enjoy it then maybe re connect with said couple.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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7 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Apprehensive but not in a negative way. An excited way. What our intentions are is to find a similar couple in a similar stage of their journey that we can meet, talk to, get a bit flirty with, talk to some more about normal stuff and then go our separate ways with our respective partners. Might seem a bit lame and boring to some but for us it’s the first stage of the excitement and then we can have a whole night talking about the what could have happened. Of we enjoy it then maybe re connect with said couple. "

I don't think that's lame or boring at all. In fact it's something I think a lot of people would enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
7 weeks ago

Fingers crossed we will find a suitable couple.

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By *abonTedCouple
7 weeks ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

"Fingers crossed we will find a suitable couple. "

Us too! Ultimately be great to make the connection where food drinks and laughter almost makes you forget that everyone might wanna dim the lights, have a snog and get naked.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
7 weeks ago

Coventry

It's funny sometimes the ingredients can be a bit illusive. You sometimes see shy couples with shy couples having difficulty taking the next step. Even when frustratingly the chemistry is there and they both desperately want to take it to the bedroom. Experience has taught us it sometimes take a couple who are a little more comfortable and forward (not in an aggressive way) to direct things on a little down the path.

So what I would say is you can't always rely other to make the first move. Especially if it's another couple at the same stag of the journey who maybe a bit shy. So I would encourage a bit of bravery from yourselves. If you both agree the chemistry is there and want to take it futher don't rely on them making the first move. Remember it is OK to just be frank and say shall we go to a room or take it upstairs or something that makes clear you intension in a polite way. If you've read it right chances are they've been desperate for you to ask them that all night.

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