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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago

Hi all,

Been on for a while now, still trying to get first meet/social wondered if anyone had any advice. It would be welcome . Or some help on writing a better profile

Keep safe everyone

Regards R

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By *inochioMan
5 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Tbh you could randomly hit keys and write utter gibberish. It feels like no one reads profiles and its a lottery as to whether your messages get read let alone responded to. Better odds to win the Euro millions jackpot three times in a row.

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By *uzzleMan
5 weeks ago

Hastings


"Tbh you could randomly hit keys and write utter gibberish. It feels like no one reads profiles and its a lottery as to whether your messages get read let alone responded to. Better odds to win the Euro millions jackpot three times in a row. "

Completely agree with the above.

Best way to get a meet is to be female - end of!

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
5 weeks ago

Scarborogh

Check the forums for large socials in your area. Like a private function, they are usually held in private rooms above bars. Chance to have a drink and mingle, introducing yourself to several people to see who you click with. Not everyone will be for everyone so this is a great way to see who you’d like to chat with further. Be prepared to sign up fast, single male places book up swiftly. A social in-person connection will help you to message to make a smaller 1:1 or 1:2 more likely. Alternatively, attend a club to do the above. We have all got to start somewhere. Go along with no expectations and aim to introduce yourself to a few people. It’s scary but fun and you never know where it will lead……

Mrs SW

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By *aydar99Man
5 weeks ago

Rochester


"Tbh you could randomly hit keys and write utter gibberish. It feels like no one reads profiles and its a lottery as to whether your messages get read let alone responded to. Better odds to win the Euro millions jackpot three times in a row.

Completely agree with the above.

Best way to get a meet is to be female - end of!"

Totally agree , or best join plenty of fish ,or match .com . This site isn't worth the hassel

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
5 weeks ago

Norwichish

Go to socials/munches and clubs that accept single gents.

Also your profile is a little vague…..take out the “guess” be confident with expressing exactly what you want.

If a genuine couple/lady looks at your profile and can’t tell what you are looking for then they will not want to spend time finding that out through lots of messages.

Much easier for them to read profile see what you want and know whether they are compatible with you.

I understand guys think that casting the net wide by being vague gives more chance of meet but I think you’d be better served being specific.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago

Ok fair one thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago

Thank you I’ll have another rewrite thanks for the advice

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By *waamzMan
5 weeks ago

Highams Park


"Tbh you could randomly hit keys and write utter gibberish. It feels like no one reads profiles and its a lottery as to whether your messages get read let alone responded to. Better odds to win the Euro millions jackpot three times in a row. "

I totally agree, with the above.Your best bet - assuming that you're a single male, who's yet to dip his toe into the club/event scene - is to get yourself along to a social and seek to make platonic connections, with no expectations.

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