FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think?

By *tes2010 OP Man
17 weeks ago

Near you

A mate of mine (who is married) has told me his wife wants to play out a little fantasy. Apparently, she’s never mentioned this before and they’ve been married some time.

She wants them both to have a date night, but for them to meet at a bar as if they’re having an affair.

They’re not involved in the swinger world in any way, shape or form. Before someone even mentions it, she isn’t having an affair, that’s not the question.

The question is, has anyone ever played this fantasy out? Is it a common thing? Maybe a step closer to the swinger world?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
17 weeks ago

in Lancashire

Not done it ourselves but it sounds great fun, a good idea and hope it all pans out well for them..

Can certainly see the appeal..

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
17 weeks ago

sw London

It is a common role play for couples to do. We have done it. Plus others

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
17 weeks ago

Bedford

What if they have a fight on the first night.

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By *outhern77Man
17 weeks ago

Birmingham

Did it years ago.. Was a great evening

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By *tes2010 OP Man
17 weeks ago

Near you

Just want to make it clear that I have no intention of getting involved in my mates marriage, I’m just curious about this

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By *icecouple561Couple
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17 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's got nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with her wanting them to behave like a lovers not husband and wife. She's making an effort to inject romance in to their sex life .

Don't confuse her wanting this with her being interested in swinging

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By *inky grandadMan
17 weeks ago

Spain

Did it with my ex wife and it was fantastic and we did it once a month.

She has no interest in swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"It's got nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with her wanting them to behave like a lovers not husband and wife. She's making an effort to inject romance in to their sex life .

Don't confuse her wanting this with her being interested in swinging "

Think this is spot on !

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By *lik and PaulCouple
17 weeks ago

cahoots

Whatever the scenario, as life tends to be busy date nights are important.

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By *tes2010 OP Man
17 weeks ago

Near you

"It's got nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with her wanting them to behave like a lovers not husband and wife. She's making an effort to inject romance in to their sex life .

Don't confuse her wanting this with her being interested in swinging "

Yeah, ok… I can see that.

I think, for me, I would be uncomfortable in an affair situation so maybe I’ve read into it too much?

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By *essiCouple
17 weeks ago

suffolk

Had neighbours that did this years ago..it worked for them..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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17 weeks ago

East Sussex

"It's got nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with her wanting them to behave like a lovers not husband and wife. She's making an effort to inject romance in to their sex life .

Don't confuse her wanting this with her being interested in swinging

Yeah, ok… I can see that.

I think, for me, I would be uncomfortable in an affair situation so maybe I’ve read into it too much?"

Yes, I think you have. A lot of people do this to add a little spice, it's role play nothing more. They're a married couple having fun.

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