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By *cotlad178 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

falkirk

Hey not spotted anyone showing like myself so is there anyone else here not experienced sexually?

Another question has any couples thought about having an inexperienced guy to meet with to teach them in all the ways they like pleasured? Or is it just a straight turn off?

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By *otguy555Man
6 weeks ago

Bristol

Me and my wife have had a guy over who was inexperienced and we have taught him plenty.

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By *oxy jWoman
6 weeks ago

taunton somerset

no im here for fun ...i work silly hours in a tuff job so my play time is prime time and im not going to waste that so experience is key man or woman ... sorry that seems blunt but its the truth ... i say most swinger work hard play hard..

but thats not to say someone else wont meet you but i bet its a very limited crowd ..good luck tho

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By *cotlad178 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

falkirk

Thanks for replys so far, I know it's a niche side but I am trying to get better but not getting the chance yet

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By *runette n JayCouple
6 weeks ago

bilston

Would have to be experienced for us as it's about the conficence and flow. I'd think it would be really awkward else.

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6 weeks ago

First time meeting a couple was a bit awkward for half hour but then after that it was great, couple were really relaxed and made it flow

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By *atureandhornyCouple
6 weeks ago

Liverpool

I don't mind an inexperienced guy I like directing and helping him please her.

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By *he return of meMan
6 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm very inexperienced, but I talk myself out of meets because I know I'm not gonna be as good as they expect from a meet. So I don't know how I can get more experience if I keep putting myself off

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By *runette n JayCouple
6 weeks ago

bilston


"I'm very inexperienced, but I talk myself out of meets because I know I'm not gonna be as good as they expect from a meet. So I don't know how I can get more experience if I keep putting myself off"

How do you know what they are expecting? Break that habit 😉

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By *ony MannMan
6 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

Experience matters less than a will to please, yes you will improve because you grow less worried about the what if thought and more confident. Let it happen and see what happens but remember no means no.

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By *he return of meMan
6 weeks ago

Leeds


"I'm very inexperienced, but I talk myself out of meets because I know I'm not gonna be as good as they expect from a meet. So I don't know how I can get more experience if I keep putting myself off

How do you know what they are expecting? Break that habit 😉"

Bevause most people on here will be quite experienced. And maybe not expect, but definitely hope for. I don't want to be a disappointment

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By *aughty_desires88Man
6 weeks ago

North Wales

Just go for meets where people are open to being inexperienced or are also inexperienced themselves

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By *cotlad178 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

falkirk


"I don't mind an inexperienced guy I like directing and helping him please her."
that's what I'd like to happen ideally, as long as I get the couple to orgasm/cum my own isn't important as I'd be pleased there happy

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By *cotlad178 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

falkirk


"I'm very inexperienced, but I talk myself out of meets because I know I'm not gonna be as good as they expect from a meet. So I don't know how I can get more experience if I keep putting myself off"
Just have to bite the bullet and go for it, if you don't take the chances more won't allways be forthcoming. Please take the chances.

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By *abonTedCouple
6 weeks ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

Shouldn’t be concerned about an orgasm, keep it authentic fun and sensual. Remember three times as slow twice as soft and just enjoy

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By *cotlad178 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

falkirk


"Just go for meets where people are open to being inexperienced or are also inexperienced themselves"
I've been looking, being patient. Waiting on an opertunity to go to a club for the first time

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By *cotlad178 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

falkirk


"Shouldn’t be concerned about an orgasm, keep it authentic fun and sensual. Remember three times as slow twice as soft and just enjoy "
as a younger guy though the Internet has brainwashed that no orgasm or cum means no satisfaction for the female/ person your being intimate with.

Think that's hard coding not easy to brake

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By *runette n JayCouple
6 weeks ago

bilston


"Shouldn’t be concerned about an orgasm, keep it authentic fun and sensual. Remember three times as slow twice as soft and just enjoy as a younger guy though the Internet has brainwashed that no orgasm or cum means no satisfaction for the female/ person your being intimate with.

Think that's hard coding not easy to brake "

Brunette may whip me out randomly and suck my cock for a few minutes, obviously I'm not gonna pop but you think I'd say no to that few minutes?

It's not a race with a clear finish line.

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By *cotlad178 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

falkirk


"Shouldn’t be concerned about an orgasm, keep it authentic fun and sensual. Remember three times as slow twice as soft and just enjoy as a younger guy though the Internet has brainwashed that no orgasm or cum means no satisfaction for the female/ person your being intimate with.

Think that's hard coding not easy to brake

Brunette may whip me out randomly and suck my cock for a few minutes, obviously I'm not gonna pop but you think I'd say no to that few minutes?

It's not a race with a clear finish line.

"
As I said trying to break out of that mindset as I'd like there to be a good chance of repeat meetings. Know to not push it or put pressure

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By *aughty_desires88Man
5 weeks ago

North Wales


"Shouldn’t be concerned about an orgasm, keep it authentic fun and sensual. Remember three times as slow twice as soft and just enjoy as a younger guy though the Internet has brainwashed that no orgasm or cum means no satisfaction for the female/ person your being intimate with.

Think that's hard coding not easy to brake

Brunette may whip me out randomly and suck my cock for a few minutes, obviously I'm not gonna pop but you think I'd say no to that few minutes?

It's not a race with a clear finish line.

"

You lucky man!

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By *cotlad178 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

falkirk


"Shouldn’t be concerned about an orgasm, keep it authentic fun and sensual. Remember three times as slow twice as soft and just enjoy as a younger guy though the Internet has brainwashed that no orgasm or cum means no satisfaction for the female/ person your being intimate with.

Think that's hard coding not easy to brake

Brunette may whip me out randomly and suck my cock for a few minutes, obviously I'm not gonna pop but you think I'd say no to that few minutes?

It's not a race with a clear finish line.

You lucky man!"
agreed!!!

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