FabSwingers.com forum: Sex for pay discussion

By *accolyte OP Man
6 weeks ago

Macclesfield

They're expensive but it saves a lot of hassle of people messing around and not committing.

Anyone been tempted to use one (or more) to help fulfil their sexual fantasies?

Personally, I'm busy and don't have tonnes of time to trawl through sites and chat to people who are non-committal.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Been to Amsterdam 38 times

Also been to loads of Manchester parlours

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By *accolyte OP Man
6 weeks ago

Macclesfield

Yep it's tempting now. More out of convenience.

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By *accolyte OP Man
6 weeks ago

Macclesfield

I'm taking it as you keep doing it, that it's well worth it!!

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By *ouble gerraldMan
6 weeks ago

hull

I haven't used to pay for it for a while in my 20's I was shy with women so I tried out the paying route, you look for the services you want and get them, no chit chat or wasted talk to be shot down, im all for them

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"I'm taking it as you keep doing it, that it's well worth it!!"

Tbh I haven't punted for a while, calmed down a bit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

It’s wrong

You should never force a woman to do your bidding against her will.All the money in the world won’t change that

I hope for the day the whole industry collapses and justice is served

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Also it can be 'hit and miss' but if you strike gold with a certain lady, then yes, well worth it...

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By *parkle1974Woman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it!

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By *accolyte OP Man
6 weeks ago

Macclesfield

"No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it! "

Suppose with this option though you can basically get any fantasy fulfilled to order. Yno? So if it's roleplay or a certain kink or, well, whatever you're into.. money can make it happen with no hassle.

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By *accolyte OP Man
6 weeks ago

Macclesfield

"It’s wrong

You should never force a woman to do your bidding against her will.All the money in the world won’t change that

I hope for the day the whole industry collapses and justice is served"

Appreciate the feedback/ your opinion on this.

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By *parkle1974Woman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

"No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it!

I can fulfil all that still without needing to pay for it...

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By *accolyte OP Man
6 weeks ago

Macclesfield

"I haven't used to pay for it for a while in my 20's I was shy with women so I tried out the paying route, you look for the services you want and get them, no chit chat or wasted talk to be shot down, im all for them"

This is it. Seems to straightforward. Simple!

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By *accolyte OP Man
6 weeks ago

Macclesfield

"No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it!

I can fulfil all that still without needing to pay for it..."

Amazing stuff. Maybe it is different for me looking to fulfil my fantasies, and find people who want to be involved.

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By *parkle1974Woman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

"No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it!

I can fulfil all that still without needing to pay for it...

Amazing stuff. Maybe it is different for me looking to fulfil my fantasies, and find people who want to be involved."

It can be hard for a couple tbh

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By *accolyte OP Man
6 weeks ago

Macclesfield

It can be hard for a couple tbh"

Yeah going to pack it in and maybe stay here solo from now on

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By *AYENCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

To us it's an awful thought of having sex with someone who doesn't freely choose to have sex with us. K.

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By *accolyte OP Man
6 weeks ago

Macclesfield

"To us it's an awful thought of having sex with someone who doesn't freely choose to have sex with us. K."

This is the reason why so far I've never done it...

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By *r M Gray88Man
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"To us it's an awful thought of having sex with someone who doesn't freely choose to have sex with us. K."

Thankfully, I'm not a puritan

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By *uri00620Woman
6 weeks ago

Croydon

"To us it's an awful thought of having sex with someone who doesn't freely choose to have sex with us. K.

This is the reason why so far I've never done it... "

I think many people offering ARE choosy about who they meet. Lots can afford to be since those seeking such services aren't exactly few and far between.

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By *elboy1978Man
6 weeks ago

Fellgate

I have been to a massage parlour a couple of times

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By *cottyl1983Man
6 weeks ago

Tyne and Wear

I've used a few and they have all been lovely girls and not too expensive you'd pay more taking someone out on here for a social to be honest

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By *end1Man
6 weeks ago

southend on sea

Let's be honest most guys pay for it one way or another. You take a woman out maybe a meal drinks etc n if your lucky you get get a leg over.....still paying for it😂

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By *runette n JayCouple
6 weeks ago

bilston

I was bought up by just my Mother and was brought up up to respect women = clear no from me.

Jay

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By *ingerie lover1TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

I have as it's hard to find a woman whos interested in the things I like.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
6 weeks ago

wonderland.

"They're expensive but it saves a lot of hassle of people messing around and not committing.

Anyone been tempted to use one (or more) to help fulfil their sexual fantasies?

Personally, I'm busy and don't have tonnes of time to trawl through sites and chat to people who are non-committal."
i have in the past booked someone rather than try to look for someone specific and hope all the diaries matched and chemistry etc.

Cali

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
6 weeks ago

wonderland.

"I was bought up by just my Mother and was brought up up to respect women = clear no from me.

Jay"

I am curious as to why you feel it's disrespectful?? Genuinely curious

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By *runette n JayCouple
6 weeks ago

bilston

"I was bought up by just my Mother and was brought up up to respect women = clear no from me.

Jay

Anyone charging does it for the money surely. I get some may enjoy it but to me money being the primary focus is wrong.

If someone wanted to fuck us first and foremost they ain't gonna charge us right?

I am curious as to why you feel it's disrespectful?? Genuinely curious "

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
6 weeks ago

wonderland.

Anyone charging does it for the money surely. I get some may enjoy it but to me money being the primary focus is wrong.

If someone wanted to fuck us first and foremost they ain't gonna charge us right?

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many do it because they enjoy it but also making money from it. I've had some throughly good times booking a lady for an hour.

I get that you want them to want you.. so maybe paying isn't right for you but I don't see where the disrespect side comes in...

I feel it's very easy to find someone that does it as a job that they enjoy as to because they have too x

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Bedford

I have two friends who were working ladies, they are are the the most sound people I've ever met.

They worked for themselves and paid their taxes.

As long as no one is being hurt without their consent it's ok.

I also know a guy who's wife is not able to have sex so he uses the paid option.

It's a ways to a means for some so it's not all bad.

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By *ouble gerraldMan
6 weeks ago

hull

I've been on this site for over a year, I've messaged a few women, had a handful of replies at most,but never met anyone,the women are also looking for what they want to do with the guy, so if the man isn't what the woman is looking for then there's no meet, women have all the supposed power on this site and others like it, when it comes to paying for it it is the woman's choice to see the man but the man gets what he wants

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By *ingerie lover1TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

I feel safer telling someone who I am paying my wants and desires rather than a meet from here

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By *uckurcumMan
6 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

I've never had a bad experience...it's a business arrangement...simple as ...

...this way guarantees the end result ...

Met some great guys along the way ..only one that wasn't ok. ...

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By *omCoyoteMan
6 weeks ago

Northern England

As others have said; it IS a business arrangement.

I'm definitely not being judgemental here, but I want my partner to want ME, not what I have in my wallet.

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By *ingerie lover1TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

As I have said I can open up more to a professional

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By *aughtyTwosomeCouple
6 weeks ago

Kent

Don't judge anyone for doing this but a massive no from me 👎 I need people who desire me as much as I desire them or its just too planned and clinical for me to enjoy it 🤷‍♂️ If I had to pay for it I know she was just there for money and any action would be like playing snooker with a piece of rope 🤣

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By *omCoyoteMan
6 weeks ago

Northern England

"Don't judge anyone for doing this but a massive no from me 👎 I need people who desire me as much as I desire them or its just too planned and clinical for me to enjoy it 🤷‍♂️ If I had to pay for it I know she was just there for money and any action would be like playing snooker with a piece of rope 🤣"

Yep. My thoughts exactly. I love the snooker analogy by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

We’ve not paid for it but been offered money and other things before xx

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By *urvybeautyandthebeastCouple
6 weeks ago

narborough

"No-one is THAT good that I'd be willing to pay for it!

I can fulfil all that still without needing to pay for it...

Amazing stuff. Maybe it is different for me looking to fulfil my fantasies, and find people who want to be involved."

I’m intrigued as to what these fantasies entail now

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By *oung GunnerMan
6 weeks ago

Cleckheaton

I have a friend who is a really lovely person , she messages me every so often to ask how iam and to make sure i’m ok , and if I need to talk she is happy to listen and shes very understanding that I wear medical things every day .

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By *AYENCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Anyone charging does it for the money surely. I get some may enjoy it but to me money being the primary focus is wrong.

If someone wanted to fuck us first and foremost they ain't gonna charge us right?

many do it because they enjoy it but also making money from it. I've had some throughly good times booking a lady for an hour.

I get that you want them to want you.. so maybe paying isn't right for you but I don't see where the disrespect side comes in...

I feel it's very easy to find someone that does it as a job that they enjoy as to because they have too x "

Although it's not for either of us, I don't think there's anything immoral or disrespectful in it, for either party, but I'm not into casual sex and always have to have a connection. K.

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By *ark_SalfordMan
6 weeks ago

salford

Ive been ro a few thai massage palours and live 10 mins from red light area, used them before, its easy if i just need some releif

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"It’s wrong

You should never force a woman to do your bidding against her will.All the money in the world won’t change that

I hope for the day the whole industry collapses and justice is served"

Some people do it because they enjoy it. Nothing like against their will.

If a woman enjoys sex and is happy to do the transactional no fuss no silly dancing around then more power to them.

Sex workers I know choose their clients. If they're not attracted to someone they simply don't accept the job. Absolutely there are trafficking issues and people who are forced or coerced into it, and that needs to be stopped. But the sex industry for genuinely willing participants is a great place 💜

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By *hemainintainMan
6 weeks ago

govan

Quite often use AW for meets if at a loose end. There's a lot of organised manipulation but I've also met a lot of fun, independent girls who enjoy themselves and get paid for it. Win win

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By *crknkyfckrMan
6 weeks ago

Bolton

There's fucking shedloads of MCR h *&kers of all descriptions on here. Live and let live, etc. Not doing any harm.

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