FabSwingers.com forum: What turned you to swinging

By *iguymature OP Man
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

When did you think about joining fab and what was your reason

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By *ickedwillyCouple
13 weeks ago

Bangor

To see her getting fucked.

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By *iss DevilWoman
13 weeks ago

Bedford

I joined Fab years ago, on recommendation from my former Master. I was considering having my first experience with a woman and he suggested I should be able to find it here.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
13 weeks ago

cardiff

A friend convinced me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Tina was experienced from her previous relationship. This one time when she was on top and was really enjoying herself she said she wants to see fuck a girl and then came so hard. I take that exact moment when the “mis-selling” happened

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By *ricd321Man
13 weeks ago

Carlisle

Been wanting to share my wife for years, she's not into the idea sadly. This is my "fix" I suppose...

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

My then gf and I watched a TV film called Touch and Go (just Googled it, my memory isn't that good) that had Martin Clunes in it.

After that we spoke about trying it and embarked on a swinging/open relationship.

That was back in the late 90's. Since then I've had one other gf willing to try it and went to a few parties but didn't like it. Every other gf hasn't been interested or I didn't mention it.

Now, back living in Singledom, I'm exploring the scene again.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
13 weeks ago

Cannock

A bull that we knew recommended it as a place to meet like minded people.

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By *luebell888Woman
13 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I had been going to a few swingers clubs as wanted to experience group sex. It was whilst there I found out about fab so joined 4 months later.

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By *ftGuy81Man
13 weeks ago

Selkirk

Sex…..???

It’s an amazing fun activity, why would anybody not like to enjoy something as awesome as much as possible!

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By *iniskirtCouple
13 weeks ago

Paisley

A very d*unken night brought us here x

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By *ashful_at_firstMan
13 weeks ago

Canterbury

My FB at the time had tried it, and Craigslist back then, for meets very successfully and suggested we put up a couples profile, that worked wonderfully - shame she moved away, we were on one meet a week for a while - sadly single male gets nothing like that!

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By *eachrunner1Man
13 weeks ago

Farnham

Probably about a decade ago. I had been to Kestrel near Heathrow initially just to do some nude sunbathing and became fascinated watching everyone there playing openly. After speaking to some people who were on here I had to check it out for myself and I just never left.

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By *oiluvfunMan
13 weeks ago

Penrith

An internet surfing session about swinging, and this was the only site (and still is) a single guy can read, and reply to messages completely free of charge

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
13 weeks ago

Near Agde

We'd been swinging for years when a friend suggested Fab.

Made a few friends over the years...

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By *eaSlutsCouple
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

We did the infamous online BDSM test and noticed we both scored highly for non-monogamy. That prompted us to have many conversations about what it meant to us/our relationship and if it was something we wanted to explore. When we decided to take the leap, A came across Fab so we signed up and here we are now

C x

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
13 weeks ago

bolton

My wife called me her x boyfriends name in bed telling me me how good and big he was compared to me and realised it turned me on so much that I would come in seconds her telling me how useless I was to his big cock , we decided it turned us both on so much, it was the start of our journey and both love it so much

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By *ynamicnatureMan
13 weeks ago

Doncaster

I was very fortunate to have met an open minded and very playful lady in her 40's when I was 19 back in Sydney.

And so began that chapter of my life,😉🫦

I often wonder if she is still around and if so , what is she getting up to?

I would love to have a catch-up with her

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By *pslad99Man
13 weeks ago

colchester

The people all are strangers but some feel like family.

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

23 years ago. Both Divorcees and we didn't want to cheat on each other so agreed to be completely open and agreed that we didn't fancy monogamy all over again as too restricting. Mrs N fancied some extra cock and obviously not prepared to put up with just mine for the duration.

Still doing it occasionally and quality rather than quantities is what we like nowadays with people we know and enjoy their company.

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By *OVE-PORNMan
13 weeks ago

las vegas

The feeling of meeting new people and chat about our sexual experiences

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By *enelope2UWoman
13 weeks ago

Fife

I've only been in the lifestyle.. I don't believe in traditional dating or relationships. I find them male centric and lack pleasure.

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By *runette n JayCouple
13 weeks ago

bilston

8 years ago.

Brunette was watching a documentary about swinging, rest is now history

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By *r SensualMan
13 weeks ago

London

A woman I used to meet up with told me about the site, this coming up what was nearly 5 years ago now. She showed me how NOT to navigate it as a (then) single man. Went to my first party alone a week later, met some more established swingers and other party hosts whose events I went to and it took off from there.

Didn’t think I’d still be here now but I am, still thoroughly enjoying every moment and experience that comes my way.

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By *oDramaSimpleFunMan
13 weeks ago

Preston

My ex’s friend was on it and suggested it to my ex. She told me about it and we joined as a couple to have some fun

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By *alsaman15Man
13 weeks ago

Market Drayton

When to charms with my FB release how much I enjoyed group fun

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By *ingeandTCouple
13 weeks ago

Peterborough

All of our friends thought we were swingers, was all they ever talked about so god knows what vibe we give off as we’re absolutely rubbish in the swinging world at swinging haha! we ended up playing with another couple who are our best friends and here we are…still play with the couple occasionally and can confirm we’re still best friends 😊

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By *orthsouth4957Couple
13 weeks ago

swords

Baby was bi curious and watched girl on girl porn all the time. John had some experience in 3 sums from before so we talked about the best way for baby to experience some bi fun. We picked a club in the UK to visit. Xtasia, it was a brilliant choice and baby is way past the curious part now and loves girl on girl fun. It was at Xtasia that people told us about fab and it was a good way to chat to couples we had met at clubs so we joined and never looked back. Love the lifestyle and social side as much as the fun

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By *lixir of lifeMan
13 weeks ago

knob Creek

Met a couple in a local pub, she flirted and he invited me back to theirs..

Was a great night and they both suggested i join here as I’d do very well, I’ve had great fun on here..

So thanks to them

That was my first bi experience too

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By *WANDTGCouple
13 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Both had experienced ill health in or around us, so the old adage "you only live once " came into play.

No good lying in your death bed thinking what if.

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By *orkshirecouple69 returnCouple
13 weeks ago

doncaster

It’s got to come from watching porn together and being able to tell each other our fantasies

Then agreeing to playing out

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By *rInked_MrsRabbitCouple
13 weeks ago

nuneaton

Inkeds mate mentioned it. First time I told him to get lost(wouldn't entertain the idea)

Second time telling me it's for my benefit cause I'm bi and had never experienced it(smooth)

That was the point where I was like yeah actually that sounds great. That was bk in 2019. Haven't looked back since, don't know why we hadn't done it sooner

(Mrs)

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By *oung at heartCouple
13 weeks ago

Birmingham

We were out on a Friday night. Dancing and having a laugh. A woman was all over me and R said bring her home. She ended up staying all weekend and we ended up on here.

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By *urreyGuy19792Man
13 weeks ago

Egham

I think I've mentioned this in a similar post but in case I haven't...

Many years ago I was in a long distance relationship and my then-gf admitted she's cheated on my a few times. I was surprised that I was turned on and not upset.

It went from there - some fantasising during sex to see if she was receptive, then our first threesome with a mutual friend. After that she had a couple regular guys we'd have threesomes with or she's see solo, and a local lady friend who would join us sometimes.

Fun times!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I just love being filthy and greedy lol

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
13 weeks ago

Scarborogh

"When did you think about joining fab and what was your reason "

Had always had an interest in it from 20’s, long before Fab was even thought off, and prior internet😬.

Had a chat with SW 5 years ago. And here we are still here.

So much easier with the internet and Fab works well😃

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By *rMrsFkCouple
13 weeks ago

teeside

We got one of those couple apps were you answer questions and you only see partners answer if it’s a match or maybe and swinging was one of them and we matched so looked about at sites and joined this x

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By *ebbie69Couple
13 weeks ago

milton keynes

"When did you think about joining fab and what was your reason "

To get the kind of hard raw sex that I don't get from hubby

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By *unmidwcoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

leicester

To explore fantasies x

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
13 weeks ago

Cheshire

All the other hobbies are pretty boring compared to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Way before fab contact mag from newsagents. My first wife aways enjoyed reading top shelf men's magazines commenting on pics ladies etc. Some had couples adds in used to talk fantasising

Watching porn I said idea turned me on of a much older lady she said turn on when seeing lady take 2 socks. Talked putting add our selves just to see if any replies.we did agreed meet a couple not sure if either of us new how far we would go or not go.

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By *einster-CoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Dublin

At 1 stage, the only place we could have sex was in a hotel or outdoors. We ended up loving doing it outdoors. There were times when people would watch us fuck in the car and that turned us on massively too. Over time it just kind of progressed from being watched, to dogging, to swinging

Mrs L-C

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By *ack1971Man
13 weeks ago

Cork

Swinging for me started off with being cheated on by my 1st girlfriend, long before the Internet. It went on for a long while with several guys, and then I found out.

I had a choice, choose anger, or try to understand what was happening. I swung between emotions but I couldn't change facts. She was also a bloody minx in bed, so she could wrap me around her finger. I was 21 so curiosity took over and we went full tilt into it.

Never looked back and introduced all my partners to it. We still chat to this day as friends.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
13 weeks ago

Scarborogh

"When did you think about joining fab and what was your reason

Had always had an interest in it from 20’s, long before Fab was even thought off, and prior internet😬.

Had a chat with SW 5 years ago. And here we are still here.

So much easier with the internet and Fab works well😃"

After being married 20+ years, Mr NH chatted to me about an idea he’d had whizzing round his head.

Was shocked initially.

Then Covid lockdowns occurred and there was time to chat it through and discuss ideas, boundaries etc.

Sometimes tricky to fit meets in around family, friends, work etc but totally worth it for the sense of fun and freedom it brings.

Mrs SW

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By *burns7Man
13 weeks ago

walsall

Me and ex

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Ryde

Wanting to try as many new things as possible before the metaphorical parade goes by.

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By *reddie DerbysMan
13 weeks ago

matlock

Sexless marriage and lots of things I’ve always wanted to try that I know I never will while living with a mate

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By *erICorknowCouple
13 weeks ago

cork

Herself had one before we met, it turns out we’re similar things and love that kind of thing!

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By *pringbok95Couple
13 weeks ago

Limavady

We wanted to find a single male to become part of our lifestyle

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
13 weeks ago

Birmingham/midlands

Broadly speaking, my lack of sex and deep love of boobs

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By *urlycatMan
13 weeks ago

Southampton

Natural progression really..

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By *etsbenaughty69Couple
13 weeks ago

somewhere

Hubby was into it when we met..

Mrs..

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By *B11Man
13 weeks ago

Burnley

We Saw a documentary while back while having a few drinks, turned her on then me when she said she would try it, still waiting for our first meet lol.

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
13 weeks ago

London

We were introduced to it by a couple who were desperate to get us to play

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By *emma200Woman
13 weeks ago

Warwickshire

My best friend told me told me about fab after my first threesome with her and her bf

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By *ags73Man
13 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

A few things happened, my life changed.

Tried dating and wasn’t particularly enjoying it or getting anywhere and had seen fab mentioned in a group I used to be in and thought I’d try.

Only been trying clubs and things from start of year and see how it goes.

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