FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive nasty people

By (user no longer on site) OP
13 weeks ago

My wife and I have just returned from having a baby to the lifestyle and were in contact with a couple who, when we asked who would be at the group meeting turned abusive and nasty to us. A literal switch up. The couple, from Newmarket then blocked us.

It’s this sort of behaviour that makes us want to ditch this whole lifestyle.

We have reported them but don’t hold out much hope of anything happening.

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By *ylonlickMan
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

What a shame this happened to you guys.

Sadly not everyone has respect and good manners anymore.

Well looking at your pics and profile I’m sure you won’t have any problems meeting a genuine couple and the fun will start again soon x

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By *andPextraCouple
13 weeks ago

North West

Man sent me four messages. Didnt reply. On the 5th one said “no thank you”

Sent a sixth.

Asked which part of “ no thank you” was he struggling with.

Got an absolute tirade back (ugly slag, wouldnt touch me with a barge pole etc); funny seeing as he was so keen…..

Moral of this story.

Some people on this site are absolute twunts.

Try not to let the, bother you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
13 weeks ago

They can be v nasty - we wanted to get back into the lifestyle after having a baby and it’s really knocked my wife’s confidence

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By *uperSalopian7Man
13 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Sounds like you dodged a bullet

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By *aizyWoman
13 weeks ago

west midlands

It's not nice receiving nasty msgs OP, but the way I look at it is, I would rather know what they are really like on here rather than finding out when meeting them. Don't let them put you off.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
13 weeks ago

the moon

"They can be v nasty - we wanted to get back into the lifestyle after having a baby and it’s really knocked my wife’s confidence "

Don’t let no one shade your light …..

forget and move on ….. every cloud has silver lining and all that …

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By *octor ProdMan
13 weeks ago

working Overseas

"They can be v nasty - we wanted to get back into the lifestyle after having a baby and it’s really knocked my wife’s confidence "

There are an awful lot of total arseholes and fakes on Fab, but there are also a lot of genuine, nice and normal people on here too. Sadly you had contact with the former, next time it will be the latter and you will meet some genuine people

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By *ike14162236Man
13 weeks ago

Cambridge

I guess it’s like all life. Most people are nice but there are some real shits out there.

Sadly the internet allows them to be vocal behind a wall on anonymity.

I agree with the question of how many fake profiles there are on here though. More than I expected when I joined.

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
13 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

So, as a newcomer to the modern bad attitudes.

Is this abuse a new thing, if so, why?

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By *hole Nuts n ChillCouple
13 weeks ago

B’stoke

"Man sent me four messages. Didnt reply. On the 5th one said “no thank you”

Sent a sixth.

Asked which part of “ no thank you” was he struggling with.

Got an absolute tirade back (ugly slag, wouldnt touch me with a barge pole etc); funny seeing as he was so keen…..

Moral of this story.

Some people on this site are absolute twunts.

Try not to let the, bother you. "

Would touch you with our wand and pole 😇🤣

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
13 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

That is some seriously good eloquence, right? "wouldn't touch you with a barge pole" The sheer need to angrily rattle out low grade insults shows exactly what one may deal with.

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