FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok not your normal kissing post but interested to know peoples views on this

You've been talking to a man/woman, seen pics, find them attractive, get on with them and arrange a meet, meet them and you are just as attracted to them in the flesh and get on like a house on fire, now part if the conversation is kissing and you have both expressed how much you love kissing and how important kissing is to you when having sex

Great, attractive, great personality and on the same wavelength sexually, everythings going great

Then while on the meet, your not in anyones home or in a hotel at this point, though you hopeing within the next hour you will be

you have that all important first kiss

And OMG what the hell was that!! the way they kiss is not your idea of a good snog at all, and while kissing them you actually have to pull away and stop because its just does not feel nice at all and you cant carry on

would this be a deal breaker for you? would you turn down the offer of getting a room and make your excuses knowing they love kissing and will probably be do this all night, would you tell them you like them but don't want to kiss them or would you just put up with the fact you don't like the way they kiss at all in order to get a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is big thing f9r me. Having said that, I once met this chick at a sex party, fancied her, took her upstairs, started kissing and it wasnt for me. Her mouth moved at 100mph.. . . Still had sex though so no, it isnt a deal breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if everything else is on track then it's fair to say you dont like that type of kissing....Ive had tongue shoved down my throat (yuk) and simply said i didnt like it so he didn't do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I was put off by a bad kiss, but I would be disappointed - some people just don't know how to build to a natural rhythm with their lips and tongues, and they just go through the motions, leaving you feeling like you're trying to chase their mouth with yours or just end up kissing a hole.

A great kiss should feel more like a dance - albeit one with lots of saliva and smacking sounds.

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Happened to me with two guys and I just said the kissing isn't working shall we carry on without it or stop now? with one we had a giggle and carried on and saved our mouths for other things, the other decided to call it quits no harm done in either situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I do like to kiss but some Ladies I have kissed have tried to devour my mouth LoL not nice well at least not right away maybe in the throws or Orgasm but not right from the get go.

One I remember many years ago when I was a mere stripling she was older than me at that time attacked me pinning me down almost took my tonsils out with her tong

I had to slow her right down LoL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would carry on but not kiss....its a major turn off if someone kisses like a fish or worse lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit I do like to kiss but some Ladies I have kissed have tried to devour my mouth LoL not nice well at least not right away maybe in the throws or Orgasm but not right from the get go.

One I remember many years ago when I was a mere stripling she was older than me at that time attacked me pinning me down almost took my tonsils out with her tong

oh yuk lol poor you!

I had to slow her right down LoL"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and yes it's a deal breaker for me

Best kisser was my husband and I slept with him on the 1st night

I had goosebumps from his kisses and I don't think that will ever happen again

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

If I can't get into the kiss I can't get pint the sex. I just lay there hoping it I'll end soon lol

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By *dam_derbysMan
over a year ago

chesterfield

It's a real disappointment if they can't kiss well - for me, it's a massive part of the whole turn-on and anticipation of what's to come. Having said that, not sure it'd be a deal-breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deal breaker for me, however I may say something before totally calling it off, however if the kissing is out of kilter usually means everything else will be too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me kissing is a major part..without a kiss i wont be enjoying the meet.

And i hate being teased for a kiss..just kiss me already!!

I dont mess around when it comes to kisses. Thats what gets me going..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tho I love kissing to play with someone and not kiss wouldn't be out the question, its when you get people who don't kiss to your liking but insist on keep trying and no matter how many times you turn your head away they keep chasing your lips round the bed, that's a major turns me off and would put a stop to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely enjoy kissing. Only been compatible with a handful of guys on here. Most of the ones I've met kiss like washing machines or just shove a tongue down your throat. Gross!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im into kissing in a big way. Its a part of the fun for me. Havent had any disasters so far, hope the guys ive met feel the same way. Love mingling tongues together, and little smacky kisses on the lips. Shutting up now else will wax lyrical about how much I love it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I love kissing. It's not a deal breaker if the lady doesn't want to though.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing, it certainly starts the chain reaction for me, only had one woman who didn't start the ball rolling that way .... Each kiss was a very quick and individual one, not my idea of a great snog. Moved on to more interesting things to do with my tongue and hers ?? Wouldn't break the deal tho.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Massively important to me... A good kiss is the perfect warm up, if the chemistry isn't there at the kissing stage it makes me reluctant to get down to the fun stuff...

Luckily my boy is an amazing kisser lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what constitutes a good kiss? isnt evryone different? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love kissing and yes it's a deal breaker for me

Best kisser was my husband and I slept with him on the 1st night

I had goosebumps from his kisses and I don't think that will ever happen again "

Exact same with me and 11 years later hubby can still get me tingly with just his kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what constitutes a good kiss? isnt evryone different? xx"

Its hard to explain about a perfect kiss everyone is different x

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

i agree everyone is different and it's what works for you!

For me, it's someone who has a sense of pressure/urgency... who uses the tongue teasingly rather than shoves it in!

Oh and don't get me started on what i wish the hands were doing at the same time!

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

Have to say I'm really really into kissing ... and have even been known not to take a meet any further on the basis of disappointing kissing .... it really does say sooooo much .... it is soooooo important ... although recently have to say did encounter a rubbish kisser with almost faultless oral and dexterous skills .... so maybe I could be wrong ..... nah !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to say I'm really really into kissing ... and have even been known not to take a meet any further on the basis of disappointing kissing .... it really does say sooooo much .... it is soooooo important ... although recently have to say did encounter a rubbish kisser with almost faultless oral and dexterous skills .... so maybe I could be wrong ..... nah !!!!"

I do this with social meets, if we kiss at the end and it's crap it goes no further. if I have agreed to meet and the kiss is crap I just move on but in my experience, the best kissers for me are the best at oral by a long way. I plainly like to be kissed the same way as I like my oral. slow, teasing and deliberate I would say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"what constitutes a good kiss? isnt evryone different? xx"

Yeah that's why I have tried to phrase it as not kissing to your liking in my posts

It's just what's comparable to your way of kissing and If they arnt then to you they're a bad kisser

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