FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Threesomes....

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there guys. We were just after a bit of advice. We're looking for a female 2 join us but we dont seem 2 be getting any messages etc. We always send a fun, upbeat friendly message but hardly ever get replies. Is it something we're doing wrong? Maybe our profile?? Advice would be very much appreciated! Thanks!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Single women are like gold dust I hear, that might be your only problem.

Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have heard the same 2! Didnt think finding someone would be so hard!! Thanks 4 the good luck hun, think im gonna need it!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have heard the same 2! Didnt think finding someone would be so hard!! Thanks 4 the good luck hun, think im gonna need it!! "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tew wendyCouple
over a year ago

selby

it is hard to find single women who actualy meet weve found, weve noticed that if and when they happen they come from the most unexpected areas, ie: friends, but we wish you the best of luck in your search.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

We've had hundreds of them but you REALLY can't find them on swinger sites ... you have to look elsewhere. This site has a few and we're still using it to find them (when we're doing things ... we're on a break from it now as we're too busy), but our girls have been found on 'dating' sites and in fact, mostly in real life. Girl friends, friends of friends etc. Our first girl was from MySpace! Ahhhh we've had some good fun. But yeah, you may find being more open to your hot girl friends (ALL of ours know, and many have taken the opportunity to ask if they can join in), about what you want to do... you may find some of them are freakier than you think. Luckily for us, all our girlie friends are 18 - 26 or so and gorgeous! :D

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys, our serch will continue!! lol x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples and single men vastly outnumber single ladies on here so you are fishing in a very small pond especially as you're looking for quite a narrow age range. Lots of single ladies here don't meet couples because of bad experiences and as a former single bi female some of.your profile text would put me off. You could think about trying clubs. Good luck ms

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see anything wrong with your profile.

Good luck and in your search. Have you tried going to a club?

I only do club meets, as a single girl I feel safer in a club environment.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shhhhhh single woman here

But it's a secret lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest maybe you should try social sites and dating sites you will be surprised what you could find

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single woman and I meet, but I'm only interested in single guys. I'm sure you will find a lovely playmate soon. Good luck. xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had hundreds of them but you REALLY can't find them on swinger sites ... you have to look elsewhere. This site has a few and we're still using it to find them (when we're doing things ... we're on a break from it now as we're too busy), but our girls have been found on 'dating' sites and in fact, mostly in real life. Girl friends, friends of friends etc. Our first girl was from MySpace! Ahhhh we've had some good fun. But yeah, you may find being more open to your hot girl friends (ALL of ours know, and many have taken the opportunity to ask if they can join in), about what you want to do... you may find some of them are freakier than you think. Luckily for us, all our girlie friends are 18 - 26 or so and gorgeous! :D"

I'd echo this, we've had a few thressomes and have a few friends that we have spoken about having one with. Without exception these are all people that we know from the kink scene and are friends with. We have one friend that gave up on swinging sites but still regularly has 3sums because she finds sites like this too much hassle.

OP, there are plenty of threads on this subject and it tendss to come back to numbers and the small amount of single bi females compared to those seeking them.

As for your profile, the single females we know all want to have a 3sum, where it is 3 people all enjoying each other. Your profile states that you are looking for a female to fulfil his fantasy - that's not oan overly attractive proposition for a female.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to crystal wheels and thats what I was referring to when I said part of your profile may be off putting to single ladies. The other bit I was referring to was the text about previous bad experiences.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had hundreds of them but you REALLY can't find them on swinger sites ... you have to look elsewhere. This site has a few and we're still using it to find them (when we're doing things ... we're on a break from it now as we're too busy), but our girls have been found on 'dating' sites and in fact, mostly in real life. Girl friends, friends of friends etc. Our first girl was from MySpace! Ahhhh we've had some good fun. But yeah, you may find being more open to your hot girl friends (ALL of ours know, and many have taken the opportunity to ask if they can join in), about what you want to do... you may find some of them are freakier than you think. Luckily for us, all our girlie friends are 18 - 26 or so and gorgeous! :D"

I found 2 girls on meet me when I had mine

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your 1st reason for wanting a 3 some will put lots of single bi fems off.... It's for my partner... I not only speak for myself but for Fab friends on here who are single bi fems. Good luck with it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at your 1st reason for wanting a 3 some will put lots of single bi fems off.... It's for my partner... I not only speak for myself but for Fab friends on here who are single bi fems. Good luck with it."

Totally agree with this. This to me is derogatory, a blow up doll could do this.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top