FabSwingers.com forum: Loosening up the wife

By *erv1991 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Sheffield

Hey all, after a bit of advice.

I've always been a bit of a horny, dirty fucker but the wife is a bit vanilla and I was wondering if anyone else had any ideas on how to approach her about being more adventurous sexually please?

Usually we have sex at the end of the day, in bed, missionary, then her legs up to her chest, sometimes doggy. No real build up other than a bit of tit play and mutual masturbation.

The other day we were on the sofa and I just grabbed her and started kissing her, she kissed me back and before long I'd undone her top, pulled her tits out of her bra and was playing with her. I stimulated her nipples, fingered her and kissed her neck while telling her about how hard and deep I wanted to fuck her. She came pretty loudly so think there's at least something there I can go on? It was honestly just so hot to even do something so minor but also out of the ordinary with her.

When I mentioned wanting to be more adventurous today she said it was a bit embarrassing and she feels shy talking about it. Any advice on bringing her out of her shell?

Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Yep.

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
6 weeks ago

Worcestershire

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By *oxy jWoman
6 weeks ago

taunton somerset

shes your wife you know her best we are all strangers we dont know you both we dont know how your wife feels ... she most likely will be one of those one man women after all they are the majority ..

talk and talk is all you can do but force the issue and crack will appear you have to think that why are there so few couples on the scene compared to vanilla life well most women want vanilla life ... im not saying some wont as alot of swingers start in there late forties onwards but its still so few compared to the mast majority of vanilla couples ..... good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

She said she feels shy and a bit embarrassed. Help her to talk about stuff by being loving and encouraging. Ask her how you can help, would it be easier if she wrote it down, Google mojo upgrade, ask her if she'll fill that in (you will have to as well).

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

And for goodness sake never talk about 'loosening up the wife' again.

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By *enelope2UWoman
6 weeks ago

Fife

Please her in other ways...a woman properly pleased cared for respected will not be sheltered..she doesn't fully trust you with her words thoughts or actions...

You've labelled her vanilla and yourself experienced have you even considered she might be vanilla ONLY with you because you couldn't handle her at her primal?...

Probably not..

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