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By *r.Xrated OP   Man
35 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York

Do you ever think about someone else during sex with your partner? If so who is it and do you tell your partner or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Do you ever think about someone else during sex with your partner? If so who is it and do you tell your partner or not?"

But why would anyone think of another person during sex? surely the person you should be and only thinking about is the one you're doing it with no?

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By *antywearer555Couple (MM)
35 weeks ago

ledbury

Of course I do sometimes, and I know he does too, I often think of him with other women

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

No one specific as such but we do let our minds go a lot and start dirty talking about fantasies and tell each other to imagine this and imagine that.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I think many people do as it can add it's to that moment

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Done it. When that happens it’s time to get on Fab and find a kinkier upgrade!

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By *r.Xrated OP   Man
35 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York


"Do you ever think about someone else during sex with your partner? If so who is it and do you tell your partner or not?

But why would anyone think of another person during sex? surely the person you should be and only thinking about is the one you're doing it with no? "

This is a website for swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I think of other men when I,m getting fucked sometimes. Like the OP says, it's a swingers

Site.

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By *r.Xrated OP   Man
35 weeks ago

Liverpool/New York


"I think of other men when I,m getting fucked sometimes. Like the OP says, it's a swingers

Site. "

Do you tell the person fucking you?

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
35 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

I love him telling me how he fucked other women and want him to fuck me the same. I get so wet and horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I think it's normal and common to let your mind go to the wank-bank on occasion. The idea that a simple thought, "dream cheating" for example, is or should be a problem is ridiculous to me.

In a previous relationship we were both happy to share where we went in our minds, it spiced things up and helped us explore our own sexual boundaries.

In my last relationship however, she was very closed off about her past and whilst we had a lot of fun, I felt I couldn't be completely honest with her. That wasn't the reason she is an ex but I do feel liberated that I don't have to watch what I say and if I meet someone else, openness is a key value.

As to where my mind went? Previous experiences as well as the spin-off fantasies of those experiences. And probably fun with people I shouldn't but hell, it's all just fantasy and make-believe. Would you vilify a crime writer who let his mind play out a murder or worse in their mind?

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
35 weeks ago

Stroud

In one relationship I often found it difficult to cum. The sex was good, but not great. So when I need to I used to imagine the time A former FB first asked me to fuck her ass. That always got me off.....

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By *enatton2Couple
35 weeks ago

West Midlands

Sometimes Ben tells me to close my eyes and picture someone I’d fucked before or would like to fuck, whilst he fucks me

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By *tsJustKateWoman
35 weeks ago

London

When I used to have sex with my husband, I always imagined it was someone else. Now I just have sex with the someone elses!

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

No I generally am pretty engrossed in who I am with

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