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"being compared to someone is only a good thing if it's a flattering comparison..." Is this lady still your friend ?? And I was being sarcastic ... Im 3 times the size of her | |||
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"being compared to someone is only a good thing if it's a flattering comparison... Is this lady still your friend ?? And I was being sarcastic ... Im 3 times the size of her " I was wondering about the friend bit too | |||
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"yes, she's still my friend, and I love her to bits, but being told u look like someone who's 7 years older and a fair bit bigger and just completely different isn't overly flattering...." not sure Im understanding why people think your her if your that much better/younger/slimmer? | |||
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"I think that's rubbish, there's nothing wrong with thinking someone's great without wanting to be just like them! I think my point has been totally misunderstood!" now then if you had stuck with your initial OP, I would have been with you on this comment but it is this comment you made in a later post that made me think twice 'being compared to someone is only a good thing if it's a flattering comparison' to me, the intimation there is that she is older and fatter which, in your eyes, can never be flattering maybe not to you, but for some people older and fatter could be a definite plus we all have opinions of our friends and i understand that you probably do love her to bits, but when it comes down to it some things are better off just left internalised | |||
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"WOW! Women with low self esteem because of their size really are a turn off! No matter how you felt about the "so called" comparisons you should not make such comments about a "friend"" | |||
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"the only similarity is that we're both big ladies, I'm a size 18, she's a 24/26, im a 38g, she's a 42d, she's 5ft 10, im 5ft5, she has very short hair and not much of an ass, my hairs really long and my ass has its own postcode! We couldn't be mire different personality wise and we like different things, it's just annoying when people expect you to be something you're not!" Any chance of that postcode for my satnav lol? | |||
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"tell me about it! I don't think I'd mind so much if after I said no, I'm not her, they wouldn't just assume that I'm either lying (why would I?) or just like her anyway!" Just block them after you reply if you don't intend meeting them. That ends the conversation so they can't keep annoying you. | |||
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"I'm not sure I know any women who would like to be told they look nearly 7 years older and about 6 stone heavier....she agrees! she wouldn't wanna be told she looks like me tho, I'm a short arse (her words) with a fat arse and boobs that are far to big in her opinion...." lol great friends very honest | |||
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"are they messaging you because they know who you are from your profile and that you were freinds? I know I'm being a bit thick but I wouldn't recognise even my closest friend from your pictures so I don't know how they know who you are . That aside I would say ignore it, they are doing it because they think that if they know her and have had a meet with her that you will think that they're ok and meet them too. It isn't nice to be compared with anyone favourably or not we're all individuals, maybe tell them that and let them know they'll be blocked if they do it again." am glad someone seems to understand my point, she had similar pics when she was in here and a lot of members knew we were friends, I met a lot of her meets as we live together... | |||
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"I think dangerouslycurvy was trying to say it's annoying when men expect her to behave and react in the same way as her friend who is totally different in looks and experience on fab. I think. " basically yes, it wasn't a personal slur on my friend, but she knows that so it's all good | |||
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"Maybe the tits look the same " with several sizes difference and me having a tattoo on mine? | |||
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"Maybe the tits look the same with several sizes difference and me having a tattoo on mine? " Wouldn't Know as I've not stalked your profile or hers but if my friend said that about me I'd be pissed sorry | |||
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"as a big girl myself I'd be a bit of a hypocrite Irving was saying it in that way, she's gorgeous! much prettier than me! I really think you're missing my point! I just don't wanna be compared to ANYONE! I'd rather people just take me as they find me, not expect me to be like someone im not!" Set up a male profile and see the way you get compared and dismissed. Then put a face pic on your profile. This will enable you to understand comparrisons and stop incorrect identification. | |||
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"Maybe the tits look the same with several sizes difference and me having a tattoo on mine? Wouldn't Know as I've not stalked your profile or hers but if my friend said that about me I'd be pissed sorry " that's your opinion, she's not offended by anything I've said, and that's all that matters to me | |||
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"are they messaging you because they know who you are from your profile and that you were freinds? I know I'm being a bit thick but I wouldn't recognise even my closest friend from your pictures so I don't know how they know who you are . That aside I would say ignore it, they are doing it because they think that if they know her and have had a meet with her that you will think that they're ok and meet them too. It isn't nice to be compared with anyone favourably or not we're all individuals, maybe tell them that and let them know they'll be blocked if they do it again. am glad someone seems to understand my point, she had similar pics when she was in here and a lot of members knew we were friends, I met a lot of her meets as we live together..." I see, then these are people who imagine that all women are the same especially those who use sites like this. Shocking I know but these relics from 1642 do still exist. At least you know who they are and can avoid them. | |||
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"Maybe the tits look the same with several sizes difference and me having a tattoo on mine? Wouldn't Know as I've not stalked your profile or hers but if my friend said that about me I'd be pissed sorry that's your opinion, she's not offended by anything I've said, and that's all that matters to me" That's my opinion and a lot of people on here too If your getting harassed just block males simples | |||
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"Maybe block all males contacting you if your not playing " Agreed, then you can mail anybody you want with our being hassled, have you ever made the first move on here?? | |||
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"Maybe block all males contacting you if your not playing Agreed, then you can mail anybody you want with our being hassled, have you ever made the first move on here??" | |||
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"it's not ALL males that do it...." Doesn't matter, it obviously bothers you, just block us all and chat to the ones you want to, by emailing them first, | |||
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"I think maybe you have chosen an unfortunate way to express yourself then because to me it comes across as you slating her for being old, fat and will go with anything .....not saying thats how you meant it but if i were your pal and read this its how id take it....maybe show her your post and ask her how she takes it?" Can't say I think much of this 'friendship'. | |||
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"What I would like to know is how all these people know you are friends with this ex member to be mailing you asking about her? " struggling to understand that as well | |||
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"haha look at me!!! you couldn't be more wrong, just was having a rant, same as a good chunk of the people who post on here....people get so nasty on here lately! " But when you have a rant your supposed to pith the obligatory 'rant over' quote at the end, once you do that you can get away with anything!! | |||
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"haha look at me!!! you couldn't be more wrong, just was having a rant, same as a good chunk of the people who post on here....people get so nasty on here lately! But when you have a rant your supposed to pith the obligatory 'rant over' quote at the end, once you do that you can get away with anything!! " will defo use this technique next time! | |||
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"even more so seeing as the only pics are of your boobs and arse, how do they know you look like her? " | |||
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"haha look at me!!! you couldn't be more wrong, just was having a rant, same as a good chunk of the people who post on here....people get so nasty on here lately! But when you have a rant your supposed to pith the obligatory 'rant over' quote at the end, once you do that you can get away with anything!! will defo use this technique next time!" My apologies , I have re read your OP and you did write 'rant over' | |||
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"haha look at me!!! you couldn't be more wrong, just was having a rant, same as a good chunk of the people who post on here....people get so nasty on here lately! But when you have a rant your supposed to pith the obligatory 'rant over' quote at the end, once you do that you can get away with anything!! will defo use this technique next time! My apologies , I have re read your OP and you did write 'rant over' " well bugger me! see! I followed the rules and everything! I'm past caring now though tbh | |||
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"even more so seeing as the only pics are of your boobs and arse, how do they know you look like her? " They probably were meeting as an FF duo at some point. I dunno, none of it makes much sense. | |||
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