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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been Swinging for XX years and I dont give a fig what we men think but its WOMEN who run swinging.

We think we do but when they say no they mean no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree.......nothing more to add than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been Swinging for XX years and I dont give a fig what we men think but its WOMEN who run swinging.

We think we do but when they say no they mean no. "

Bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when anyone says no it should mean no

Men and woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you have been swinging for years and you have only just figured this out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when anyone says no it should mean no

Men and woman "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been Swinging for XX years and I dont give a fig what we men think but its WOMEN who run swinging.

We think we do but when they say no they mean no. "

Do you mean women have all the power on here?? I am a bit confused by your last sentence!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in our relationship if one of us says no it means no and does not happen. We will never do anything that makes one of us uncomfortable.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex


"I have been Swinging for XX years and I dont give a fig what we men think but its WOMEN who run swinging.

We think we do but when they say no they mean no. "

To an extent it has to work both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say we run it but inevitably we have the final say and if a guy doesn't like it there is another 10 waiting to take over.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"when anyone says no it should mean no

Men and woman "

True and it works that way in our relationship however we have met enough couples to know that teh dynamic is differnet in a lot of cases.

We have met peole where it is obvious that the woman is doing it from loyalty or coercion and couples where it is obvious that the man is doing it for similar reasons. I also notice a trend for both sexes to say that they like certain things not because they actually do but because they think its expected of them. I'd say no one is running the whole thing and too many people are doing stuff because they feel they have to.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"when anyone says no it should mean no

Men and woman "

This. Nothing else needs to be said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when anyone says no it should mean no

Men and woman "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you have been swinging for years and you have only just figured this out ? "

Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"when anyone says no it should mean no

Men and woman "

However we have seen too many threads stated along the lines of "How do I get my reluctant wife to swing" to know that this sometimes isn't how things work sadly.

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