FabSwingers.com forum: tv/ts advice

By *an and wifey OP Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

We recently went to a social and met a couple of tv.s for the first time. Were a little shy but not homophobic or tv aphobic so joined a friend in conversation with both tv.s i ended up talking 2 both on my own for a while. Asked if the 2 ladies were having fun at the social. Not sure if i offended or not calling them ladies as was not intentional . What you tv/ts .s like to be classed as this is all new to us and we definitely don't want to offend any body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's etiquette to refer to tvs as female when they're a la mode as a tv friend from here put it!

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By *an and wifey OP Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

that is what i thought, but was not sure if i offended as they left not long after,

new to us so not really sure so thought i would ask as we are planning a couple of other socials and don't want to put our foot in it so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im happy to be referred to as lady, tgirl , trannie but thats me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always refer to a cd/tv as a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its polite to address them as women when there dressed met many and thats how i see them when dressed

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I guess it depends on the way it was said. It's hard to put inflection in writing but:

"Are you ladies enjoying youselves?"

Is very different from:

"Are you 'ladies' enjoying yorselves?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind how people address me, as long as its with respect, we are human too, some people seem to forget that at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady(ies) is fine with me, girls also. You didnt faux pas so don't worry!

It's annoying when you get people who are clearly anti-tv and make a point of calling you "mate" to show what they consider you to be. I usually end up calling them something more choice.

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By *an and wifey OP Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

we definitely dont go out to disrespect any body no matter who they are, we go out for a few drinks a giggle and a craick, if we meet new people and get on great if not move on, and if by the end of the night if were dancing even better, as long as we don't upset any 1 . that is what we dont go out to do

thanks for your info guys and gals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lady(ies) is fine with me, girls also. You didnt faux pas so don't worry!

It's annoying when you get people who are clearly anti-tv and make a point of calling you "mate" to show what they consider you to be. I usually end up calling them something more choice. "

I (male half) once slipped up on a night out at a t girl bar in the gay village and called a friend mate whilst she was dressed, completely unintended and I was mortified, we have loads t girl friends and socialise in the bar all the time. Luckily it was laughed off at my evident distress lol x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I prefer to be called something feminine when dressed.

The other week I was dogging and bumped into a guy who was determined to call me mate, but then in the dusk he hadn't realised I was a TV till I spoke and had seemed quite keen.....

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