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Ladies - How should a gent dress for a meet?

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By *.T. OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

To deliver parity, what do you ladies like to see your next meet wearing?

I favour jacket and shirt as a minimum, sometimes known to go full suit if a lady likes that kinda thing.

What do you prefer?

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By *rSircumsizedMan
7 weeks ago

Risca

Wouldn't it depend on what the first meet involved?

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By *.T. OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

I would assume the nakedness would arrive later, you need to meet up dressed first?

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

A guy I knew turned up at a club I was at in a tight fitting Fred Perry polo shirt with braces attached to his skinny fit Levis and had a pair of ox blood dm boots. Rocking that skinhead look but with a peaky blinders hair cut. He knew that I wouldn't be able to resist him like that. Turns out he'd asked one of my friends what im into. Sometimes it's worth doing the research.

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
7 weeks ago

Sheffield

Smart, clean and smelling good. The clothes would be somewhat a personal choice but avoid tracksuits, footy shirts, big chavy labels, trainers, that sort of thing. Basically as if you were going out to a classy restaurant or bar.

Well that's for us anyways, if you can't take care in your appearance we presume you don't take care in any aspect of your life, including sex.

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By *ABflirtyWoman
7 weeks ago

Norwich

I like Ralf Lauren Shirt - Black- Blue- pink with lovely jeans and smelling lovely xxx will do for me xx

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By *entlealanMan
7 weeks ago

Burton Joyce


"Smart, clean and smelling good. The clothes would be somewhat a personal choice but avoid tracksuits, footy shirts, big chavy labels, trainers, that sort of thing. Basically as if you were going out to a classy restaurant or bar.

Well that's for us anyways, if you can't take care in your appearance we presume you don't take care in any aspect of your life, including sex. "

I'm with you, surely if you're meeting someone you present yourself smartly but I am amazed how often people show up at my place without any effort.

The ultimate was a time I booked an expensive hotel with a double bath, room service, the whole thing, I waited for her in the reception of this posh place with jacket, creased chinos, polished shoes and gently scented as befitted the place. She turned up in tracksuit bottoms,scuffed trainers and some crappy waterproof.

I went through the subsequent proceedings with no enthusiasm, was glad to get out of there.

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By *tephanie63Woman
7 weeks ago

BRIDGWATER

I would like to shag a man in a suit and tie ..

But to a social they should come as themselves ..

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By *avexxMan
7 weeks ago

cheshire

tbh you should make an effort to be smart casual clean and smelling nice,, it comes natural to me

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Whatever they feel comfortable in.

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By *enelope2UWoman
7 weeks ago

Fife

Dress for the occasion.. I prefer they wear what makes them feel confident comfortable.

I like to dress up so if a meet is somewhere boring I just rather they meet a boring person and not me...

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By *herrybakewellCouple
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Dress as you feel appropriate.

It's actually a really good first impression of what somebody is like.

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By *he return of meMan
7 weeks ago

Leeds


"Dress for the occasion.. I prefer they wear what makes them feel confident comfortable.

I like to dress up so if a meet is somewhere boring I just rather they meet a boring person and not me..."

What makes me comfortable is concealing as much skin as possible. That means hoody on with it up long sleeves baggy clothes. People should assess the situation, the location of the meet, the kind of meet, and look their best for such occasions

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
7 weeks ago

City Centre

Something that shows their style and personality. I think if you feel comfortable and confident in how you present yourself, clothes wise, then that's what really matters. Because I'm a little bit contradictory, I'm not a fan of jogging bottoms. 🙂

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By *iss DevilWoman
7 weeks ago

Bedford


"Smart, clean and smelling good. The clothes would be somewhat a personal choice but avoid tracksuits, footy shirts, big chavy labels, trainers, that sort of thing. Basically as if you were going out to a classy restaurant or bar.

Well that's for us anyways, if you can't take care in your appearance we presume you don't take care in any aspect of your life, including sex. "

This. I do like the person to be quite relaxed with me but also I like to see they have made a little bit of effort. I don't currently meet 1:1 though, only in clubs. But even there, I am definitely a fan of something a little bit more than if you've just come from a gym. I am also partial to some funky underwear.

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