FabSwingers.com forum: How to persuade the wife

By *lidenride OP Man
10 weeks ago

chepstow

In a sexless marriage, I would love to involve her in meeting other couples, or singles, I don’t think she’s having sex with anyone else, any advice on how to approach her with the swinging lifestyle, we are both in good shape and considered good looking, we not had sex in years….. Help

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By *wingyDingDingCouple
10 weeks ago

Cheshire

Bribe her with new shoes

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
10 weeks ago

The Continental

Have a conversation about it. Ask if it would interest her.

She says yes……awesome

She says no……..you leave it at that

What you definitely do not do, is try to “persuade” her. She will either want to or not. You respect her wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

You sit down with her and you have a frank open discussion about it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Central

Get to improving your intimacy within the relationship, before inviting others in to it. At least increase your openness and ability to talk, share your feelings, worries and more. Put aside the goal of your having others for sexual engagement as it strikes me that you need to bolster what's left of your marriage

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By *oxy jWoman
10 weeks ago

somerset

your asking stranger how to approach your wife ??? if you dont know your own wife then you have zero chance ...your supose to be the closest person to her ????

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By *lidenride OP Man
10 weeks ago

chepstow

Makes complete sense, Thankyou

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By *lidenride OP Man
10 weeks ago

chepstow

Thankyou

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
10 weeks ago

Manchester

"your asking stranger how to approach your wife ??? if you dont know your own wife then you have zero chance ...your supose to be the closest person to her ???? "

Got to agree with that view.

I’ve been there and in the end the marriage broke up. We talked lots but in the end it became apparent that we couldn’t overcome the issue.

So it was a case of put up with it, fuck around behind her back. Or leave.

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By *iverstMan
10 weeks ago

Rossendale

Could you explain that you need intimacy and if she isn’t prepared to discuss it, or indeed does not want it, would at least agree to you seeking it yourself.

If she does not want intimacy with you, it may be stretching it to ask her to have a liaison with someone she doesn’t really know.

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By *lidenride OP Man
10 weeks ago

chepstow

Thankyou much appreciated

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
10 weeks ago

Gravesend

Maybe get some saucy games to play with her on a night in. Have a nice meal, a glass of wine and saucy snap, or strip poker, naked twister........... and see what happens.

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