FabSwingers.com forum: Opening message

By *hesolution566 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Hull

Hi all. Just trying to find my feet in the swinging world. Obviously as a single guy I'm not getting many responses.

Couples and ladies what's a good opening message content. That isn't sleezy and makes a good impression ?

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Well most people don't reply to just hi

As no effort lol

Bot I would say

Just text something nice that would catch someone eye

Hope that helps

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By *hesolution566 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Hull

Thanks lucky lady. Every bit of feedback helps

Billericay are you on the shipman wagon or the Sutcliffe bus ?

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By *ocktowerMan
10 weeks ago

north Wales and Bulgaria.

It might also help if you get there name correct lol

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

A bit about yourself and a face pic ,doesnt have to be a long message and dont copy and paste

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By *ocktowerMan
10 weeks ago

north Wales and Bulgaria.

Do a short but concise message as the people your interested in probably have 100s of messages a day to wade through ( and with a nice photo ) not a penis pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Put some effort in and try and make it relatable to their profile. You don't have to go super in depth like, just something that shows you have made an effort to see that these folks are about.

Keep it respectful and there you go 😁

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
10 weeks ago

Leeds

As long as it's not a cock pic or one word I don't really care too much about the 1st message I don't expect an essay, I'll look at the profile and if I like it I'll reply if not I won't.

Mrs

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By *hesolution566 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Hull

"As long as it's not a cock pic or one word I don't really care too much about the 1st message I don't expect an essay, I'll look at the profile and if I like it I'll reply if not I won't.

Mrs "

Wow your profile is very impressive

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By *icecouple561Couple
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10 weeks ago

East Sussex

There isn't a magic formula or one type of message that guarantees an answer.

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By *uncouple153Couple
10 weeks ago

Abergavenny

You can read a sentence or 2 without opening the message. Don't waste those sentences x

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By *hesolution566 OP Man
10 weeks ago

Hull

"You can read a sentence or 2 without opening the message. Don't waste those sentences x"

Great tip thankyou

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