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By *aughtyYoungGent OP   Man
7 weeks ago

Hampshire

So I thought I would put a post up cause generally what to know what people think, now anyone can type here including males.

But do people my age belong on sites like this, cause don’t get me wrong you have the people that don’t care about age but then a lot of people mostly have kids that are of similar age as me which puts them off from anything.

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By *avid 50Man
7 weeks ago

kendal

as a young guy I'm sure you'll have lots of fun with the more mature couples, but as a more mature guy my meetings with young couples have not been great

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By *punk n gushCouple
7 weeks ago

deal

Everyone has a right to be here if they want as for people meeting younger guys I guess there are some happy to do so our age range is really because I wouldn't want to meet men my young adults age or close to it just wouldn't seem right to me

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yes you belong here.

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By *ongandharderMan
7 weeks ago

Rotherham

As a young ISH man myself I haven't felt like I don't belong people have preferences thats no problem

I find the ones who are interested have fun , chat and just enjoy it here

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
7 weeks ago

wonderland.


"So I thought I would put a post up cause generally what to know what people think, now anyone can type here including males.

But do people my age belong on sites like this, cause don’t get me wrong you have the people that don’t care about age but then a lot of people mostly have kids that are of similar age as me which puts them off from anything."
I have been swinging 30 years this next week... so I started when I was 19.. I remember being way to young for many and sort after by others... I wanted people similar age or a few years older but it was quite unusually back then...

I personally think there is a place for all... but wouldn't personally meet someone as young as yourself now I'm almost 50.

Cali

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By *ackformore100Man
7 weeks ago

Tin town


"So I thought I would put a post up cause generally what to know what people think, now anyone can type here including males.

But do people my age belong on sites like this, cause don’t get me wrong you have the people that don’t care about age but then a lot of people mostly have kids that are of similar age as me which puts them off from anything."

Probably best not to confuse a handful of folks on here for being representative of how others feel. It's an opinion but don't give it too much weight.

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By *irst timersCoolCouple
7 weeks ago

Newcastle under lyme

Ann loves to seduce and tease younger men

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By *ohnjones3210Man
7 weeks ago

Chester

I was on here when I was young also. It was poo. Someone was always moaning about my age.

I get far more attention now. That being said, I'm a lot richer now, us elderly have houses, more stability, more experience and so on. We're not quite as wild sexually either, and are generally a lot more smooth with the ladies.

I suppose that as you get older, you start to possess qualities that women like, also, they are often put-off by overly sexual men. As a younger guy, I was a sex-pest (in a way).

Anyway, double check your age, make absolutely 100% sure it's right and carry on!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

You can always just use the advanced search function and tick the box saying you're the age they're looking for. 🤷‍♂️

That would identify those you may suit and eliminate those you won't.

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By *runette n JayCouple
7 weeks ago

bilston

If you are closer to our kids age than me it's gonna feel kinda weird.

Jay

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By *runette n JayCouple
7 weeks ago

bilston


"I was on here when I was young also. It was poo. Someone was always moaning about my age.

I get far more attention now. That being said, I'm a lot richer now, us elderly have houses, more stability, more experience and so on. We're not quite as wild sexually either, and are generally a lot more smooth with the ladies.

I suppose that as you get older, you start to possess qualities that women like, also, they are often put-off by overly sexual men. As a younger guy, I was a sex-pest (in a way).

Anyway, double check your age, make absolutely 100% sure it's right and carry on! "

Elderly?!

Cheers!!!

Jay

🤣

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By *ohnjones3210Man
7 weeks ago

Chester


"I was on here when I was young also. It was poo. Someone was always moaning about my age.

I get far more attention now. That being said, I'm a lot richer now, us elderly have houses, more stability, more experience and so on. We're not quite as wild sexually either, and are generally a lot more smooth with the ladies.

I suppose that as you get older, you start to possess qualities that women like, also, they are often put-off by overly sexual men. As a younger guy, I was a sex-pest (in a way).

Anyway, double check your age, make absolutely 100% sure it's right and carry on!

Elderly?!

Cheers!!!

Jay

🤣 "

You're welcome uncle Jay.

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By *uzzleMan
7 weeks ago

Hastings

I wouldn't worry about being 21! Like others have said, you can put an age limit on what you're looking for etc.

Those who want someone younger will seek you out.

More of an issue is the 100's of other single males you're competing with for the one female.....

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
7 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yes you have the right to be here

You won't be for all, but you will be for some.

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By *iman2100Man
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

OP you are most welcome but will find yourself swimming against the tide. It would appear most women do not want sex with men younger than thier own sons. So at 21 you will be limited.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
7 weeks ago

London


"So I thought I would put a post up cause generally what to know what people think, now anyone can type here including males.

But do people my age belong on sites like this, cause don’t get me wrong you have the people that don’t care about age but then a lot of people mostly have kids that are of similar age as me which puts them off from anything."

No, you belong in the coal mines with the other children.

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By *tticusukMan
7 weeks ago

Liverpool


"So I thought I would put a post up cause generally what to know what people think, now anyone can type here including males.

But do people my age belong on sites like this, cause don’t get me wrong you have the people that don’t care about age but then a lot of people mostly have kids that are of similar age as me which puts them off from anything."

Thanks for your permission to type

Lots of people like different things. Younger men tend to get tarred with the inexperienced brush but quite often when you’re young, you don’t know what you don’t know.

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By *usyBusyElfWoman
7 weeks ago

Brum

My rule is older than my eldest child. Saying that I am particularly partial to a younger man 😘

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By *revaunanceCouple
7 weeks ago

Exeter

Of course you belong here, provided you want to be here.

Of course, there will be some people that don't want to meet you because of your age, but that happens to us too and we still belong here.

There's nothing you can do about your age, so embrace it and focus your attention on those who would meet with a young man of your age.

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By *ichardHereMan
3 weeks ago

London


"So I thought I would put a post up cause generally what to know what people think, now anyone can type here including males.

But do people my age belong on sites like this, cause don’t get me wrong you have the people that don’t care about age but then a lot of people mostly have kids that are of similar age as me which puts them off from anything."

Being young (30) is definitely more of a negative than a positive in swinging. Always best to be closer to the average so you can appeal to old and young. However, some few couple like one above have preference for young guy, but they are few and far between... Just got deal wih it and focus on things you can change: weight/body, profile text and pics, etc.

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By *tticusukMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool


"So I thought I would put a post up cause generally what to know what people think, now anyone can type here including males.

But do people my age belong on sites like this, cause don’t get me wrong you have the people that don’t care about age but then a lot of people mostly have kids that are of similar age as me which puts them off from anything.

Being young (30) is definitely more of a negative than a positive in swinging. Always best to be closer to the average so you can appeal to old and young. However, some few couple like one above have preference for young guy, but they are few and far between... Just got deal wih it and focus on things you can change: weight/body, profile text and pics, etc."

Imagine thinking 30 is young when it comes to swinging. I had my best swinging years in my late 20s

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By *TWboyMan
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"My rule is older than my eldest child. Saying that I am particularly partial to a younger man 😘"

Same rule……+5 years

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By *TWboyMan
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"So I thought I would put a post up cause generally what to know what people think, now anyone can type here including males.

But do people my age belong on sites like this, cause don’t get me wrong you have the people that don’t care about age but then a lot of people mostly have kids that are of similar age as me which puts them off from anything.

Being young (30) is definitely more of a negative than a positive in swinging. Always best to be closer to the average so you can appeal to old and young. However, some few couple like one above have preference for young guy, but they are few and far between... Just got deal wih it and focus on things you can change: weight/body, profile text and pics, etc."

Wait until you are over 55 when most people seem to think you either are dead from the neck down or should be………

Being over 55 and searching for couples to play with is a nightmare……..

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By *ndisMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Youth is wasted on the young!

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By *andb69Couple
3 weeks ago

leeds

Although I probably wouldn't arrange a meeting with you through Fab, I'd probably play with you in a club. In clubs I don't bother too much about age (young or old) as long as there's a mutual attraction.

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By *tu.xMan
3 weeks ago

around

Of course I'm pretty sure there's someone for everyone young an older we all have type well most of us

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By *TWboyMan
3 weeks ago

Norwich


"Although I probably wouldn't arrange a meeting with you through Fab, I'd probably play with you in a club. In clubs I don't bother too much about age (young or old) as long as there's a mutual attraction. "

Nice open minded attitude…….

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By *attooedlad445Couple
3 weeks ago

london

Might not have met the right young couple

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