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Couples only - is this weird

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By *arks2 OP   Couple
14 weeks ago

Warwickshire

So we've been here a while and finally decided on how we want to start. Have spoke to many couples but get the cold shoulder when explaining we want to meet a couple who lets the male part play with Mrs warks while the female part and Mr Warks watch/enjoy/encourage. Not into humiliation or cuckold necessarily

We seem to keep getting the cold shoulder. Is it weird what we're looking to do?

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By *issmorganWoman
14 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi, I'm half a couple and this wouldn't be for me tbh, but I wouldn't give the cold shoulder, just say sorry not for us.

If we meet a couple, we both want to be involved and that's probably the same for many couples op.

Why not put it on your profile though , so people can see what you're looking for and decide from that if they want to contact you or not.

Then nobody wastes time, only to find they're not compatible after a while.

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By *arks2 OP   Couple
14 weeks ago

Warwickshire

Fair advice. Thank you x

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By *issmorganWoman
14 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

BTW not weird, but the lady of the couple isn't gonna get much of it, unless a cuck queen.

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By *arks2 OP   Couple
14 weeks ago

Warwickshire

We've been approached by so many obscure single men that we just feel more comfortable meeting a couple, if that makes any logical sense

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By *issmorganWoman
14 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"We've been approached by so many obscure single men that we just feel more comfortable meeting a couple, if that makes any logical sense "

I see where you're coming from, I just think it would seem pretty one sided. It's pretty niche, a woman of a couple meeting as a couple, but just being asked to watch.

What about meeting the male of an established couple alone. Many meet seperately, my other half does with my blessing.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
14 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We've been approached by so many obscure single men that we just feel more comfortable meeting a couple, if that makes any logical sense

I see where you're coming from, I just think it would seem pretty one sided. It's pretty niche, a woman of a couple meeting as a couple, but just being asked to watch.

What about meeting the male of an established couple alone. Many meet seperately, my other half does with my blessing. "

This.

Or just find the right single guy, not an 'obscure' one. There are plenty around with experience in this scenario.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
14 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not something we'd be interested in but it's good you're honest about it. We've had meets where this didn't become obvious until play commenced and I was left on the sidelines wondering what was wrong with me.

You never know there might be some couples out there who'd enjoy this

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Me and my partner are into this! Check out our couples profile, - tinderswipers. You might be in luck if you’re interested x

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By *3xyCoupleCouple
14 weeks ago

swingers town

We are into this.

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By *atinocoupleCouple
14 weeks ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

We've done this before. Though it wasn't the only thing we did that night. But a distinct round, beautiful to watch

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By *olds CoupleCouple
14 weeks ago

Louth


"So we've been here a while and finally decided on how we want to start. Have spoke to many couples but get the cold shoulder when explaining we want to meet a couple who lets the male part play with Mrs warks while the female part and Mr Warks watch/enjoy/encourage. Not into humiliation or cuckold necessarily

We seem to keep getting the cold shoulder. Is it weird what we're looking to do?"

We'd hazzard a guess at there being more male voyeurs than female and that being the case your probably going to struggle to get a meet. Your best bet would be to look for a single guy who's into that type of scene, there are loads out there. You've no need whatsoever to go down the humiliation/cuckold road to be a voyeur. Good luck.

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By *tarting2exploreCouple
14 weeks ago

Biggleswade

Not weird, we are not too dissimilar, all, it's all about finding the right dynamic.. Great profile btw..xx

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By *yesgreenMan
14 weeks ago

north and south


"Not weird, we are not too dissimilar, all, it's all about finding the right dynamic.. Great profile btw..xx"
Nothing is weird if it’s what you enjoy and want to progress with your Fantasy

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
14 weeks ago

Coventry

Not weird at all. However some people don't play that way. Sometimes we both like to watch each other with others.

I wonder is the approach makes it a hard sell? We're mainly club swingers so the whole building a raport thing on line is a bit of a mystery. But I think it's something that would be an easier sell once everyone is comfortable with each other. Then a case of just saying hey this is what we fancy, would you guys be up for it? It's just easier to sell things to people who you've bonded with a bit.

I also think for a lot of couples there needs to be a sense that there will be the possibility of more involvement for all down the line. Yes that maybe fun to watch as the watcher but most of us also want a bit of involvement too. So if the game is two play, the other two watch and that's all I think for most that's a no. However if it's two play, two watch with the prospect of group play or a swap futher in that's a lot more appealing.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago


"So we've been here a while and finally decided on how we want to start. Have spoke to many couples but get the cold shoulder when explaining we want to meet a couple who lets the male part play with Mrs warks while the female part and Mr Warks watch/enjoy/encourage. Not into humiliation or cuckold necessarily

We would be ok with this and have done it before. All different scenarios add the spice to us.

We seem to keep getting the cold shoulder. Is it weird what we're looking to do?"

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

No problem for us

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By *ee And MikeCouple
14 weeks ago

Cannock


"So we've been here a while and finally decided on how we want to start. Have spoke to many couples but get the cold shoulder when explaining we want to meet a couple who lets the male part play with Mrs warks while the female part and Mr Warks watch/enjoy/encourage. Not into humiliation or cuckold necessarily

We seem to keep getting the cold shoulder. Is it weird what we're looking to do?"

Not weird, whatever works for you as a couple, just enjoy your fantasy !

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
14 weeks ago

Stoke


"So we've been here a while and finally decided on how we want to start. Have spoke to many couples but get the cold shoulder when explaining we want to meet a couple who lets the male part play with Mrs warks while the female part and Mr Warks watch/enjoy/encourage. Not into humiliation or cuckold necessarily

We seem to keep getting the cold shoulder. Is it weird what we're looking to do?"

We're definitely into this.

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