FabSwingers.com forum: Why does nobody read messages

By *orthwestswinger888 OP Man
14 weeks ago

wigan

Hard to get a reply

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
14 weeks ago

Scarborogh

We often respond to messages with ‘Not sure you have read our profile’!! Mrs SW

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
14 weeks ago

Sheffield

On my single profile, I would delete your message instantly because you have no profile pic, we know lots use the same filter and rightly so.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

It's worse when they message you first and you reply they just leave you on read. Then send the exact same message they sent first, a few months later. And people say if they don't reply it means they're not interested. But interested enough to message first a couple times

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
14 weeks ago

london

"We often respond to messages with ‘Not sure you have read our profile’!! Mrs SW"

Same.

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By *orthwestswinger888 OP Man
14 weeks ago

wigan

I had 1 on god knows why it's gone off. But thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I would love to get a message off someone lol.

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By *olds CoupleCouple
14 weeks ago

Louth

We say on our profile "Single guys we will message you" but we still get messages, it's pretty obvious they don't read the profile.

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By *r99mr99Man
14 weeks ago

Ealing

Why do people think they deserve a reply

Firstly you don't.

Secondly You can see the first couple of lines of the message and quite often it's clear it's not for Mez they haven't ready my profiles or it's a copy and paste message.

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By *londebiguyMan
14 weeks ago

Southport

"Hard to get a reply "

It could just be that some people on here are rude.

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By *r-Mrs BackagainCouple
14 weeks ago

scotland

Unfortunately in a lot of cases people just look at the pictures and dive straight into the messages without reading the profile first . If they did they would see that they aren’t of interest and as nice as it is to be polite there can be a lot of them so easier to ignore .

If people can’t be bothered to read the profile then they deserve to be ignored too .

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By *oxy jWoman
14 weeks ago

somerset

i always check profile before opening message no profile is delete and block

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By *avidbanksMan
14 weeks ago

leeds

Hard for single men on here but just be respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

At least you have age on your side!

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By *ovinglife!40Man
14 weeks ago

Hinckley

"Hard to get a reply "

Read the FAQs, no reply means no thanks.

Quite simply it is usually because they do not want to meet you, but sadly couples know that the single guy will usually start either whining and asking why, or will start throwing abuse through rejection.

Just accept it and move in.

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By *orthwestswinger888 OP Man
14 weeks ago

wigan

I read profiles before sending a message. Messages just don't get read when u send them that's all. Feel like wasting my time sometimes

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By *arysueCouple
14 weeks ago

West Wales

it depends on the message , you free now/fancy a fuck ones get binned

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By *uncouple153Couple
14 weeks ago

Abergavenny

Read this a noddy red massages ..

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
14 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

If I don't open/read a message, it's usually because I've checked your profile first and it is absolutely obvious that you are the opposite what I'm looking for and either have not read my profile at all or have read it and clearly chosen to ignore my preferences. x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
14 weeks ago

Leeds

On my singles profile & this, the 1st thing I do when I get a message is read the profile, if they sound good I'll reply if not I won't.

I personally wouldn't reply to yours there isn't much there.

Mrs

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By *uncouple153Couple
14 weeks ago

Abergavenny

You can read the first sentence without opening the message. Don't waste that sentence!

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