FabSwingers.com forum: Discreet

By *layfulGent OP Man
8 weeks ago

Doncaster South Yorkshire

I have a meet lined up and everything is going swell on the chat up to the point where the lady has advised she has a partner in a vanilla sex relationship and wants to keep this hush hush. She wishes to be treated rough and wants anal…now I’m all for doing this yet my morals have kicked in and now I’m thinking if I should go through with this, if the lady would not have mentioned anything about her relationship then I wouldn’t have this pondering thought of whether to say please go elsewhere or give what the lady requires

What’s your thoughts please ?

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Our thoughts are no, we wouldn't go through with it. If she wasn't up front at the start then lord knows what else she isn't being forthcoming about.

We don't vibe with cheating either, but that's us.

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By *hesubtlegentMan
8 weeks ago

surrey

If you don’t, someone else will. She told you in advance so just be discreet about it.

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By *avid 50Man
8 weeks ago

kendal

Not all relationships are perfect , She has gone to the effort of joining here you have chatted and she has told you before you met,

Why let her down

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By *heelerMan
8 weeks ago

Northants

It's probably why she is on Fab and she's the one risking her relationship so go ahead and give her what she wants

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By *ualityNotQuantityUKCouple
8 weeks ago

Leicester

"If you don’t, someone else will. She told you in advance so just be discreet about it. "

As this if you are happy with adultery, if it makes you uneasy then walk away. Chances are it's just a bloke with a fake profile so the meet will never actually happen so I wouldn't worry to much about it.

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By *nkedguy777Man
8 weeks ago

Manchester

Tricky one! But I think I would have to leave it,if she had been upfront from the Start then potentially I would meet her and give her what she wants

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex

If you wouldn't want it done to you don't do it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

East Sussex

Also if your morals have kicked in why are you ignoring them?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
8 weeks ago

chichester

"It's probably why she is on Fab and she's the one risking her relationship so go ahead and give her what she wants "

Just be prepared that the guy could break your jaw or something if he finds out and blames the guy. Usually they do

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By *layfulGent OP Man
8 weeks ago

Doncaster South Yorkshire

Ended up running late at work well I’m still at work explained running late and now blocked……pretty much solved the situation

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By *parkle1974Woman
8 weeks ago

Leeds

Guess you ignored your moral compass then!

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By *uger n Spice78Couple
8 weeks ago

South East Coast

Glad to see you have a moral compass. And bit of a red flag as well. I'd stay well clear x

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