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I'd love to know how they came to this conclusion but we were blocked before had chance to respond | |||
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"Their loss. Personally I'd just dump it in the 'dodged bullet' file and move on. I suspect they've read "Shade's" a few times and now consider themselves expert in something they know fuck all about. They will stay in their fantasy world while you move on and live out your fantasies "Thank you. Perhaps you're right and great advice  | |||
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"Their loss. Personally I'd just dump it in the 'dodged bullet' file and move on.... ..." No, it's not their loss. Such a cursory remark! They lost nothing whatsoever and they made an informed decision, but perhaps their response was ungraciously executed. I'm sorry to hear this OP. People have preferences and people change their minds. At least your time wasn't wasted on some protracted conversation. Move on and look forward to your next exciting chapter! ❤️ | |||
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"There is no sliding scale of "subness" - just do your thing and find someone compatible with what you do and are looking for. Great pics btw x" Thank you  | |||
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"Not sub enough always makes me laugh. I know some incredibly submissive people. They're all more than capable of standing their ground with idiots they don't have a dynamic with 💜" Exactly thank you
Just because someone may be submissive, it doesn't mean they automatically get on there knees saying thank you Sir the second someone messages "Hi" | |||
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"Their loss. Personally I'd just dump it in the 'dodged bullet' file and move on.... ... No, it's not their loss. Such a cursory remark! They lost nothing whatsoever and they made an informed decision, but perhaps their response was ungraciously executed. I'm sorry to hear this OP. People have preferences and people change their minds. At least your time wasn't wasted on some protracted conversation. Move on and look forward to your next exciting chapter! ❤️" I totally get people have preferences and are more than willing to change their mind, before, during or after. But you can't make an informed decision on how submissive someone may or may not be after 2 messages, one of which was simply "Hi". As you say, least didn't waste endless amounts of time and messages etc and can look ahead, it was just very frustrating in the moment | |||
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"We've had some very random messages in our time here but after 2 messages (none of which asked any questions about bdsm or mentioned been submissive) to get a reply of "Sorry not sub enough" I think takes the prize
I'd love to know how they came to this conclusion but we were blocked before had chance to respond "You're clearly just another on fab who's missed out, your loss 
We can't all match the expectations of such awesome people. No doubt the source of their struggles is nothing to do with them or their personalities and everything to do with the volume of people who are just not sub enough | |||
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"Their loss. Personally I'd just dump it in the 'dodged bullet' file and move on.... ... No, it's not their loss. Such a cursory remark! They lost nothing whatsoever and they made an informed decision, but perhaps their response was ungraciously executed. I'm sorry to hear this OP. People have preferences and people change their minds. At least your time wasn't wasted on some protracted conversation. Move on and look forward to your next exciting chapter! ❤️ I totally get people have preferences and are more than willing to change their mind, before, during or after. But you can't make an informed decision on how submissive someone may or may not be after 2 messages, one of which was simply "Hi". As you say, least didn't waste endless amounts of time and messages etc and can look ahead, it was just very frustrating in the moment " We all make assumptions, some quicker than others and some of those assumptions are far greater than others may make. Fist appearances for some people are huge in the assumptions they make. I would not take anything from this interaction especially as no details were passed between you. As for blocking without reply, this is childish and from what I can see on here happens a lot. Do not let the mind spend anymore time on this matter. Move on to someone who is far more compatible for you. Well that’s my advice if it’s worth anything lol. | |||
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"Not sub enough always makes me laugh. I know some incredibly submissive people. They're all more than capable of standing their ground with idiots they don't have a dynamic with 💜" Some idiots think sub means door mat. | |||
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"We've had some very random messages in our time here but after 2 messages (none of which asked any questions about bdsm or mentioned been submissive) to get a reply of "Sorry not sub enough" I think takes the prize
I'd love to know how they came to this conclusion but we were blocked before had chance to respond "Why does it take the prize? They decided you weren't for them and told you, simples. You got told no and made a sulking thread about it ..that's what takes the prize... | |||
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