FabSwingers.com forum: Wife swinging to keep hubby happy?

By *enandjerry OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Dumfries

Probably been asked before but how many guys feel their wives are in the lifestyle with them and genuinely enjoy it but would never even think about it if you didn’t enjoy swinging yourself??

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By *ellhungvweMan
15 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Coming from the other side - I often ask the couples I meet how they started and I would say that almost universally the wives are clearly enjoying themselves but they were rarely the ones to initiate it. Once it was brought up they eagerly embraced it.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Aurelia enjoys it and is often the one who initiated some play but rarely likes to talk about it after which does make me wonder sometimes.

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By *enandjerry OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Dumfries

"Aurelia enjoys it and is often the one who initiated some play but rarely likes to talk about it after which does make me wonder sometimes."

We are kinda the same, when we are home it is back to normal life but that completely changes when we are away from home.

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By *rInked_MrsRabbitCouple
15 weeks ago

nuneaton

I wouldnt even entertain it the first time Mr mentioned it. He left it a few months then asked me again. Didn't let the opportunity to fuck other ppl(men and women) slip me by again haha

Why I said no the first time I'll never know

(Mrs)

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Chichester

There is totally plenty of women swinging to keep

Their other half happy and satisfied

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By *enandjerry OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Dumfries

"There is totally plenty of women swinging to keep

Their other half happy and satisfied "

As long as they are enjoying it and not feeling they “have” to do it! Hate to think that some are not that interested in general.

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By *esparate danMan
15 weeks ago

glasgow

"I wouldnt even entertain it the first time Mr mentioned it. He left it a few months then asked me again. Didn't let the opportunity to fuck other ppl(men and women) slip me by again haha

Why I said no the first time I'll never know

(Mrs)"

You must remember why it was you did say no

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
15 weeks ago

Scarborogh

As I ask SW I can’t answer for her, but will get her to answer. I’ll keep my fingers crossed 🤣

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
15 weeks ago

doncaster

We’ve met plenty of couples who you can tell the female half isnt really into it or worse they are doing it to try and save a relationship if your doing this to save a relationship the relationship is already over

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By *oupleLookingToExploreCouple
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

YOLO. Both in this together. Until one or both want out then we wouldn't do it anymore x

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By *enandjerry OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Dumfries

"We’ve met plenty of couples who you can tell the female half isnt really into it or worse they are doing it to try and save a relationship if your doing this to save a relationship the relationship is already over "

Yeah, Completely agree on this one!

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By *rInked_MrsRabbitCouple
15 weeks ago

nuneaton

"I wouldnt even entertain it the first time Mr mentioned it. He left it a few months then asked me again. Didn't let the opportunity to fuck other ppl(men and women) slip me by again haha

Why I said no the first time I'll never know

(Mrs)

You must remember why it was you did say no "

That's a good question.

I lived a sheltered life. Lol.

I though swinging was seedy and disgusting dark and dinghy stuff. From stuff you hear off other ppl.

(How wrong was i)

He knew I was bi but never acted on it. That was what changed my mind the 2nd time it was mentioned. Being able to feel free to explore without any judgement.

Our boundaries were in place for just myself and other women. That worked for the first meet then I realised something was super suppressed and I felt weirdly free. The rest is history

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
15 weeks ago

Scarborogh

"As I ask SW I can’t answer for her, but will get her to answer. I’ll keep my fingers crossed 🤣"

This has opened up whole new social and sexual avenues beyond the vanilla world and brought extra fun and togetherness. I sometimes have to focus on the balance of family/work/rest/swinging so have to manage expectations and limit activities for time for self care. Our involvement will always fluctuate with the demands of the vanilla world but has brought lots of fun for us both.

Mr NH you can uncross your fingers now 🤣🤣

Mrs SW

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By *icecouple561Couple
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15 weeks ago

East Sussex

We've met more couples where the guy was doing it to keep the woman happy

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By *neeyedwillieMan
15 weeks ago

Darlington

Been with my wife 28 years (have a couples account also).

She started this whole thing 27 years ago by having me sleep with her mate.

Does she play as much as me? No but she does play with other women at the club with or without me.

Does.she actively encourage me to meet other women. All the time.

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By *wing2023Couple
15 weeks ago

london

It’s rather presumptuous ..

Gals have equal needs eh .. it’s a two way street

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By *otguy555Man
15 weeks ago

Bristol

My wife has always been in love with the lifestyle and I would never make her do something she didn't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

How you would feel if she said I can fuck with others if you like but it doesn't do much for me

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By *enandjerry OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Dumfries

"How you would feel if she said I can fuck with others if you like but it doesn't do much for me"

Would definitely be the end of swinging as it has to be enjoyable for both, not just a chore for one half

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By *runette n JayCouple
15 weeks ago

bilston

She brought it up about 8 years ago!

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By *inky duo 100Couple
15 weeks ago

Lancaster

I've always been very shy so when David wanted me to have a threesome with him he forced it on me really ,but once done that made us join fab . Must admit I did it to please him and he always picked the guys . But looking back it gave me confidence in my body and feeling like I was desired helped us carry on . We don't meet much these days simply because our sex drives have fallen through the floor. But I don't have any regrets

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By *oxy jWoman
15 weeks ago

somerset

there are more male led swinging couples than people think and alot of them are very controlled by the guy where the woman has very little interest or bullied in to it ... its the reason we avoid couples on fab most are male led and thats not whats wanted swinging couples should be 50/50

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By *drenaline rushMan
15 weeks ago

Burnley

Personally I think it becomes obvious to see and I then stop meeting them if your not there because you want to be please don’t be really off putting and shame on any man who can’t see or chooses not to see

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By *heNaughtyTwosomeCouple
15 weeks ago

Kent

I simply suggested we go to a local club and play just with eachother, as it would be an experience if nothing else, she agreed and its grown from that. She's always been the one in the drivers seat since that suggestion 😁

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