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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you people do it. Iv never meet a couple in a hotel but wouldn't give it a miss just curiouse how you go about booking an meeting there do you pay for 3 or just meet them outside lol how does it work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always just booked a double room.

If it asks for number of adults I'll tick 2.

Then met him/them downstairs or outside and walked up to the room.

It can be refreshing as it's not your home, so it's more relaxed and with a sense of naughtiness thrown in.

But I always treat the room with the utmost respect and leave it in a better condition then when I got there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do they ever question

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

We have met couples in travelodges etc. just booked double room on internet.

Usuallly meet them in pub for drink and get to know if we all click, then either all go to room, or give them a while then go up, never been questioned as most working in these places are more interested in chatting on mob or checking there status

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Did hotel ONCE....

Never again, was longest night of my life!!!

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Did hotel ONCE....

Never again, was longest night of my life!!!

"

Why was that?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Did hotel ONCE....

Never again, was longest night of my life!!!

Why was that?"

I just found it so hard being in one room with guy I had just met for so long.....

Put me right off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have met people many times in hotels, has always been fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they ever question"

Do the hotel staff ever question???

That I'm checking in alone? No

That I'm walking past with someone? No

I would imagine if I was flouncing around in a basque I 'might' get a look but mostly at night the staff are so uninterested in anything, Unless you stand at their counter, they really do not pay any attention..

Do staff come and count bodies in rooms during the night? No

Do the staff care? No

If you get complaints I guess someone might come a looking

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


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But I always treat the room with the utmost respect and leave it in a better condition then when I got there "

how do you leave it in a better condition ??

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

the likes of Travelodge, premier Inn, Ibis really don't care how many are in the room as you book by room rate rather than per person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we went away last week for night to visit family an we went to book into premier inn so we walked in me an oh with my stepson who is only couple years younger than me an i asked can i book a room for the night the woman looked at me an my oh an stepson an said onlyn2 adults to a room i actuly think she thought i was up for 3some did make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I find that hotel chains are the best eg. Premier Inn, Days Inn, Travelodge, etc as they're anonymous, have easy parking, good rooms, are cost-efficient, and are discreet for 121 and MMF meets. To avoid booking a room and ending up with a no-show (and that has happened too many times), I now always arrange to meet first, split the double bedded room cost, and book it online from the coffee shop. I used to always pay myself, but lots of no-shows and the recession has now re-educated me to cost sharing. Getting a double bedded room is a 50/50 split ... as a single guy, I'm giving the meet my all as a single, and the couple are giving theirs as a "couple" One last comment ... hotel meets are much more exciting than using my apartment or going to a couple's home ... in that its new territory for all involved, and all three are in the same bed/room. Hope this helps, and hey, just go for it.


"How do you people do it. Iv never meet a couple in a hotel but wouldn't give it a miss just curiouse how you go about booking an meeting there do you pay for 3 or just meet them outside lol how does it work"

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

How do you people do it. Iv never meet a couple in a hotel but wouldn't give it a miss just curiouse how you go about booking an meeting there do you pay for 3 or just meet them outside lol how does it work"

weve met loads of single fellas in hotel rooms .. its very straight forward .. you just pay for the room and then all go up to it .. no questions asked

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"I've always just booked a double room.

If it asks for number of adults I'll tick 2.

Then met him/them downstairs or outside and walked up to the room.

It can be refreshing as it's not your home, so it's more relaxed and with a sense of naughtiness thrown in.

But I always treat the room with the utmost respect and leave it in a better condition then when I got there "

you're happy to carry your Dyson around with you then..lol

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

The use of vacuum cleaners in sex is a totally different topic however

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"How do you people do it. Iv never meet a couple in a hotel but wouldn't give it a miss just curiouse how you go about booking an meeting there do you pay for 3 or just meet them outside lol how does it work"

I've met a few people in Hotels. They usually book the room and tell me the name of the hotel. When I arrive I usually text or call them and they tell me room number and I just go in and go to room. Never had any problems yet.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Agreed, met in hotels before and homes, travelodges etc are usually fine, clean and comfortable with no trouble from the staff

As has been said you pay for the room not the number of occupants in these sort of places

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Hotels are all we do atm. However we only book Hilton's now, though we did do the Travelodge but we really don't like them all that much, the beds are far too uncomfortable for me.

We met a guy at his hotel a couple of days ago (Holidly Inn, nice beds, ok decor, small Tele) and we've booked and arranged a hotel meet for next week. We like them for the ease of meeting, you can social at the bar or just give the room number or meet on neutral ground etc. Cheaper than a night out at a club, by arranging your meet you know what you're getting (unlike a club which can be hit or miss) and the beds are big enough for four

I can't believe we wasted so many years on clubs when we really didn't need to leave our room the whole time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed, met in hotels before and homes, travelodges etc are usually fine, clean and comfortable with no trouble from the staff

As has been said you pay for the room not the number of occupants in these sort of places"

Agreed. Never been asked yet by the staff where I was going when I walked past reception. Just try and look confident.

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By *ampopotwoCouple
over a year ago

southampton

We've used Premier Inns loads, they're great. No one's ever asked why we're staying in a hotel two miles from home when we've been to the local one! As we're staying the night we usually pay two thirds and our 'visitor' the other third.

There is/was a couples profile on here that expected any single guys to pay the full cost of the room and they wouldn't accept a 'cheap' Travel Lodge type place. Maybe it was Brad & Angelina?!

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"How do you people do it. Iv never meet a couple in a hotel but wouldn't give it a miss just curiouse how you go about booking an meeting there do you pay for 3 or just meet them outside lol how does it work"

I have to say this question made me chuckle. Being a football fan, I used to travel and stay over with a gang of mates at hotels especially premier inns all over the country.

We used to travel to games in 2 cars, 8 to 10 lads in total. Room costs booked in advance were normally about £20 to £25, 1 lad would book in while the other lads were moving in sleeping bags etc. 30 minutes later we were in the pub next door having a fun night and all would bed down at a cost of £2 per head. Never had a word said from any of the Premier Inns we stayed in.

Meeting in hotels for a swinger meet as a 3 some is a doddle by comparison. The only one I ever had a slight issue at was one at Manchester Airport. A couple had booked a room and had invited about 8 guys including me to arrive for the fun. Only problem was there was a security door to get up to their room for which you needed a key. I was told by the guy to say to hotel reception I had a meeting in room xxx and hey presto i was in, door slightly ajar to allow access....

I think people worry much more about meeting in a hotel than they need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did hotel ONCE....

Never again, was longest night of my life!!!

"

Oh what happened? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you people do it. Iv never meet a couple in a hotel but wouldn't give it a miss just curiouse how you go about booking an meeting there do you pay for 3 or just meet them outside lol how does it work

This is exactly what we do mate...when the guy is outside we tell him the room number then wait for the chat on the door

I've met a few people in Hotels. They usually book the room and tell me the name of the hotel. When I arrive I usually text or call them and they tell me room number and I just go in and go to room. Never had any problems yet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed, met in hotels before and homes, travelodges etc are usually fine, clean and comfortable with no trouble from the staff

As has been said you pay for the room not the number of occupants in these sort of places"

There are fire regulations though and if you make hotel staff aware there's more

than what should be in the room by being noisy or getting complaints from other guests then they can ask you to leave without refunding your stay

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"Agreed, met in hotels before and homes, travelodges etc are usually fine, clean and comfortable with no trouble from the staff

As has been said you pay for the room not the number of occupants in these sort of places

There are fire regulations though and if you make hotel staff aware there's more

than what should be in the room by being noisy or getting complaints from other guests then they can ask you to leave without refunding your stay "

Thats true, so you have to keep the noise to an acceptable level...the key being not to draw attention to yourself, so a lady can have a noisy orgasm, for sure, but just don't make it sound like a herd of elephants are tramping round a room...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to now I've never had a no show with arranged hotel meets. You may run the risk with an impromptu, quickly arranged meet.. However, if you've been chatting to the person/persons for a considerable amount of time and book a hotel in advance you stand more of a chance of the meet going ahead and being successful.. added to that you get cheaper discount rates if you book early..

Stay away from Travel Lodges as they are very basic and general cleanliness standards are not great..

Premier Inns meet most requirements and have quality beds and an all round better room and facilities..

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By *risbsMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've done a few hotel meets but the only one I've been at all worried about was in an Ibis hotel. Great bed, but no carpet. Had to be very careful not to sound like a herd of elephants and feeling on edge because of that was a bit off putting. Premier Inns much better.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Never had an issue in hotels... as many others have said most staff/receptionists don't really care, and generally I like a drink in the bar first to relax.

Did have one very memorable night where we got some "disapproving" looks and tutting from fellow guests at breakfast

Maybe the walls weren't that thick!

Great memories of that Holiday Inn! Lol.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Never had a problem with hotels, and have even done two night bookings so can stay and play all day.

Leave the room tidy, and do like places with a kettle and a good drink selection. Though always remember a bottle of water.

Even in London you can get some really good deals if you look around, I tend to use Best Westerns for the simple reason you get upgrades if a stay a lot.

If you are ever in the south west near Exeter I would recommend the Magdalen Chapter, lighting is brilliant if you want to do photos.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"Even in London you can get some really good deals if you look around"

We always use the lastminute to book London hotels, specifically Hiltons with lastminutes 'secret hotel' bookings. It didn't take long to remember the secret hotel descriptions for the Hiltons we like the best and those we don't know we use moneysavingexpert as they have a pretty comprehensive list.

We've got a hotel meet next week, had 2 last month and have paid less than £150 for 4 nights at a Hilton, not so bad we think

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

Last time I did hotel with couple we met in bar first. We then decided that I would go to room with lady first and text hubby to join us. After about fifteen minutes she sent a text asking him to wait another fifteen minutes....when he came up he said it was the horniest fifteen munutes he ever had.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's worth joining loyalty schemes, not necessarily for the points but for other benefits. You often get early check in and late check out - I've checked in at 11 and out at 2 of some hotels.

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

I have used travel lodge for afternoon and evening meets. The ones with the key card are best because you dont need to hand it in. Must admit to being a touch embarrassed last night as we walked out at 11 and handed the key back to 2 reception staff.

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