FabSwingers.com forum: Would you stop?

By *oroMale41 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

Question for swinger couples

If tomorrow your male half said enough is enough, and told you no more swinging.

Would you immediately stop or would you leave him and carry on?

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Northampton

There’s probably a few more options than the two presented

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By *issFussyWoman
9 weeks ago

hitchin

Surely if you play as a couple you have an agreed dynamic of things you’re happy to do and things you’re not. If this changes then communication is key to revisiting the dynamic for a rework

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
9 weeks ago

north of lincoln

We only meet to enhance our sex lives and to see each other enjoying themselves. We don’t meet just for sex so would be an easy decision to just stop.

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By *oroMale41 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

Yes but there can be any reason. Let's say the male have all of a sudden found god, and didn't want to sin anymore. For example. Could the female half become soo attached to other men that she can no longer stop and be solely with her bf/husband

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By *oroMale41 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

"We only meet to enhance our sex lives and to see each other enjoying themselves. We don’t meet just for sex so would be an easy decision to just stop. "

Good answer 👍

And btw... Was that really the delivery man?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
9 weeks ago

chichester

"Question for swinger couples

If tomorrow your male half said enough is enough, and told you no more swinging.

Would you immediately stop or would you leave him and carry on?"

Long time ago I had a girlfriend and we swing together after a while she just said we are done swinging. I was fine with that and we deleted it all

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By *uffnmuffCouple
9 weeks ago

London

"Question for swinger couples

If tomorrow your male half said enough is enough, and told you no more swinging.

Would you immediately stop or would you leave him and carry on?"
I would never leave him x

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By *oroMale41 OP Man
9 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

I guess it's about keeping it on a healthy nice level and not becoming too dependent on swinging

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By *lik and PaulCouple
9 weeks ago

cahoots

Unlikely we would carry on with swinging sex without each other but the there's more to swinging than sex and no, we wouldn't leave the relationship.

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
9 weeks ago

Lurgan

We’d stop in an instant, if the other half isn’t having fun it’s no fun to be honest

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By *asterfulsoulMan
9 weeks ago

Manchester

Why is this gendered?

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By *itygamesMan
9 weeks ago

i feel most women to it to please hubby..

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
9 weeks ago

Gloucester

Yes we’d stop in an instant no matter who had said it.

We are in this together and if either one of us decide it was no longer something they wanted to do then it stops

Kink (Mrs)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yes, no question

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
9 weeks ago

Stoke

Stop instantly, we're way more important than swinging.

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By *winging_couple300Couple
9 weeks ago

Doncaster

Instant stop, agreed the boundaries before we began the journey

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By *oxy jWoman
8 weeks ago

taunton somerset

100% yes we've been on this scene 30++ years the reason it works is ''us'' so if he was to say or me for that matter enough is enough then thats it we get on with normal life ..

however the chance of that happening is very very slim but if it did 100% yes ...

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
8 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Absolutely would work both ways for us if either of us were no longer interested in swinging anymore, we’ve enjoyed every part of our journey so far and done far more than we ever expected but we like to keep or vanilla life just as exciting

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By *oxy jWoman
8 weeks ago

taunton somerset

"i feel most women to it to please hubby.."

you feel wrong most real swinger couples do it because of them as a couple swinging couples are the strongest of relationships ...

one sided couples where one wants it more than the other dont last long and so easy to spot and avoid i wont meet male led couples online or clubs or other ways because of this too

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By *olds CoupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Louth

"We only meet to enhance our sex lives and to see each other enjoying themselves. We don’t meet just for sex so would be an easy decision to just stop. "

This, also we're a couple and decide as a couple.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
8 weeks ago

andover

In a heartbeat. Our marriage is more important than our swinging lifestyle

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By *oroMale41 OP Man
8 weeks ago

Stockton on tees

Good replys to this post.. however I guess you do get all types of People.

I have a friend who has been swinging as a couple with his wife for years, however recently he told his wife that he has had enough and would like to leave the swinging scene due to kids becoming adults and he would not ever want to let his kids discover what the oarents get upto.

The wife insists she wants to carry on the lifestyle as being a BBC lover, she could not live without being fucked by other men.

Now my friend is worried that the relationship shop may end if he insists she leaves the swing scene.

He is thinking about kids on one side... And saving his marriage on the other side.

I wonder if anyone else has been in This position.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'd want a serious conversation as to his reasons, would potentially suggest relationship counselling with a ENM positive counsellor.

If he really felt though, that this just wasn't the lifestyle for him, absolutely we'd stop. It's not worth ruining our marriage over

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By *herrybakewellCouple
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Yes absolutely.

We're in this together.

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By *enatton2Couple
8 weeks ago

West Midlands

Yep he’d let me carry on but I don’t have the need to, it’s more fun together

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