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"Is this even a thing? Most gay/bi people I know have known about their sexuality from a young age. " Not me, I was almost 40 before discovering it | |||
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"Is this even a thing? Most gay/bi people I know have known about their sexuality from a young age. " In a prison scenario men tend to turn to the 'dark side'. I've known a fair few guys whom I suspect started down the 'bi-road' because of lack of female interest. Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. | |||
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What about bi/gay women...does the unavailability of sex with other women turn them straight? | |||
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"I'm not sure it works like that
What about bi/gay women...does the unavailability of sex with other women turn them straight?"I don't know I've never experienced that side of it. But the other side I have experienced my entire life. I'd imagine so? | |||
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"If you are no attracted to the same sex I'm fairly sure you just can't change " It's not someone people will admit too, but if someone is desperate enough... They'd fuck a plug socket. | |||
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"I think my sexuality has changed a little I’m now fab bi as I get so much attention from men on here but not experienced anything in real life yet never been in a situation maybe a club might be a good test" What do you think brought it on? | |||
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"If you are no attracted to the same sex I'm fairly sure you just can't change It's not someone people will admit too, but if someone is desperate enough... They'd fuck a plug socket." if you are not attracted to someone sexually the odds of you getting hard aren't great | |||
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"Is this a thing? There does seem to be more bi males but is that because society is more accepting? " you could say the same for women | |||
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"If you are no attracted to the same sex I'm fairly sure you just can't change It's not someone people will admit too, but if someone is desperate enough... They'd fuck a plug socket.if you are not attracted to someone sexually the odds of you getting hard aren't great " So every guy who wanks himself off in bed at night is attracted to his own hand?  | |||
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"If you are no attracted to the same sex I'm fairly sure you just can't change It's not someone people will admit too, but if someone is desperate enough... They'd fuck a plug socket.if you are not attracted to someone sexually the odds of you getting hard aren't great So every guy who wanks himself off in bed at night is attracted to his own hand? "porn | |||
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"If you are no attracted to the same sex I'm fairly sure you just can't change It's not someone people will admit too, but if someone is desperate enough... They'd fuck a plug socket.if you are not attracted to someone sexually the odds of you getting hard aren't great So every guy who wanks himself off in bed at night is attracted to his own hand? porn "So guys cannot get hard just playing with themselves without porn? Ok...
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"If sex with women was as easy to obtain as sex with men do you think it would prevent a lot of men from turning bi/gay/tv (etc)..." I get way more offers of sex with women than men on here but it didn’t stop me becoming bi Beards  | |||
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"Some guys (a LOT of them) fuck (get hard) using inanimate objects like: 'fleshplugs' or whatever they're called. Some even fuck things that are like decaptitated bodyparts... big rubber tit things and big cold rubber bums... Guys can get hard at anything lol! Are you not a guy? You have no experience of this?!" why are you having a heart attack over this . Not every fella will want to have sex it a fella just like not ever woman will want sex with a woman. That's life. | |||
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"I get way more offers of sex with women than men on here" Lol! Ok... Is it a full moon tonight anyone? | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier." Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things | |||
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"why are you having a heart attack over this . Not every fella will want to have sex it a fella just like not ever woman will want sex with a woman. That's life. " Sorry ... what? Who said they did? Lol. | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things " Ok... I could go with that. Because i'm pickier too than the common rabble of (cave)men around... I get that. I agree with you. | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things " no we won't I will not fuck someone I don't find attractive. It's a sad state of affairs all fellas are painting with the one brush. | |||
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"If sex with women was as easy to obtain as sex with men do you think it would prevent a lot of men from turning bi/gay/tv (etc)..." Yes 100% | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things no we won't I will not fuck someone I don't find attractive. It's a sad state of affairs all fellas are painting with the one brush. " Yawn. Ok. No doubt all your sexscapades have been with supermodels.  | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things no we won't I will not fuck someone I don't find attractive. It's a sad state of affairs all fellas are painting with the one brush. Yawn. Ok. No doubt all your sexscapades have been with supermodels. "sorry but have you a problem with people who don't agree 100% with you. | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things no we won't I will not fuck someone I don't find attractive. It's a sad state of affairs all fellas are painting with the one brush. " I've been out with LOTS of people I did not find physically attractive, because I care about personality. Looks are just that... Looks. Big deal. - It's not going to stop a hard-on. | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things no we won't I will not fuck someone I don't find attractive. It's a sad state of affairs all fellas are painting with the one brush. Yawn. Ok. No doubt all your sexscapades have been with supermodels. sorry but have you a problem with people who don't agree 100% with you. "You don't make any sense. You claim (for one thing) that guys need porn to get hard. You just talk nonsense. | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things no we won't I will not fuck someone I don't find attractive. It's a sad state of affairs all fellas are painting with the one brush. Yawn. Ok. No doubt all your sexscapades have been with supermodels. sorry but have you a problem with people who don't agree 100% with you.
You don't make any sense. You claim (for one thing) that guys need porn to get hard. You just talk nonsense."you asked a stupid question about being attracted to our hands I said no we watch porn and for some reason you have a problem with that. | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things no we won't I will not fuck someone I don't find attractive. It's a sad state of affairs all fellas are painting with the one brush. Yawn. Ok. No doubt all your sexscapades have been with supermodels. sorry but have you a problem with people who don't agree 100% with you.
You don't make any sense. You claim (for one thing) that guys need porn to get hard. You just talk nonsense. you asked a stupid question about being attracted to our hands I said no we watch porn and for some reason you have a problem with that. "It's ok... Maybe you just don't have the mental capacity to understand what was being said. Don't worry about it. Take care. xx | |||
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"What a load of Cock'n'Bull" A lot of 'sexy butt pics' for a straight dude tbh. | |||
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"Is this even a thing? Most gay/bi people I know have known about their sexuality from a young age. In a prison scenario men tend to turn to the 'dark side'. I've known a fair few guys whom I suspect started down the 'bi-road' because of lack of female interest. Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier." In prison it’s almost always about power control not sex | |||
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"What a load of Cock'n'Bull" Hmmm smooth all over too... You lot are winding me up lol.  | |||
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"Men don't turn gay because they have a lack of attention from women. If anything I think most men are fed up with most women high and often unrealistic expectations of them that they happy to do their own thing " Ooo interesting comment. So guys just have enough of women and look elsewhere? - I've seen that happen... Guys getting cheated on, not being able to see their family etc and just giving up on women... | |||
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"Is this even a thing? Most gay/bi people I know have known about their sexuality from a young age. In a prison scenario men tend to turn to the 'dark side'. I've known a fair few guys whom I suspect started down the 'bi-road' because of lack of female interest. Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. In prison it’s almost always about power control not sex " And not desperation after many years for a fk? Oh... Ok. If you think so. | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things no we won't I will not fuck someone I don't find attractive. It's a sad state of affairs all fellas are painting with the one brush. Yawn. Ok. No doubt all your sexscapades have been with supermodels. sorry but have you a problem with people who don't agree 100% with you.
You don't make any sense. You claim (for one thing) that guys need porn to get hard. You just talk nonsense. you asked a stupid question about being attracted to our hands I said no we watch porn and for some reason you have a problem with that.
It's ok... Maybe you just don't have the mental capacity to understand what was being said. Don't worry about it.
Take care. xx"there are words I could use but I'd get a forum ban if I said them about the comment you just left. | |||
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" Guys tend to be hornier than females in my experience which causes their need... Far hornier. Disagree - the difference is women are pickier, majority of men will stick their dick in most things no we won't I will not fuck someone I don't find attractive. It's a sad state of affairs all fellas are painting with the one brush. Yawn. Ok. No doubt all your sexscapades have been with supermodels. sorry but have you a problem with people who don't agree 100% with you.
You don't make any sense. You claim (for one thing) that guys need porn to get hard. You just talk nonsense. you asked a stupid question about being attracted to our hands I said no we watch porn and for some reason you have a problem with that.
It's ok... Maybe you just don't have the mental capacity to understand what was being said. Don't worry about it.
Take care. xx there are words I could use but I'd get a forum ban if I said them about the comment you just left. "I was being serious. Maybe you just don't understand what is being said? I don't know. I don't have 'heart attacks' or fall out with people online, I'm just interested in this subject and what people have to say. But if you start lying about things... It's just pointless. There are opinions sure, but truth is truth and you are being untruthful when you say that men can only get hard if they are attracted to someone. Again - Men WANK off with their HANDS and get hard just doing that (no porn required (as you keep insisting))... They can do it with the lights out. Trust me. I'm a man. | |||
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" What about tvs and cds do they bridge the gap between cis woman ‘unavailability’ and bi curious men? " Some really interesting points here... | |||
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"I’ve never heard of anyone ‘turning’ gay or bi. You are or you aren’t. It’s not sone lesser state that being hetero, a settle for it option. " I have experienced first hand (many times) (and I've been getting a lot of private messages regarding this post confirming it also) that some guys just don't want to admit that because of lack of female attention and desperation they started... Sucking cocks.  | |||
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"An actual straight man wouldn’t ever go near a cock. I have actual straight male friends that while say I am fairly attractive in comparison to women/ female friends there is nothing in life that would make them be able to sexually get turned on or want to try sex with me or other trans women that are attractive .. cock is hard pass / born a male is hard pass . While I think there is some guys that will out of boredom / lack of female interest go with guys I think though these men were predetermined to do so regardless as it’s hardwired into them sexuality wise. Repression / denial / unawareness is very real Ultimately who cares though . It’s not like it’s a contest " Great points. No of course its not a contest, just a fun debate, but I find it quite interesting and must admit I'm quite undecided on it. There are too many angles to all of this for a clear answer I think. | |||
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"I have tried the rubber hole toys but have all ended up in the bin apart from the vibrating butt plug that’s quite nice and only my hand " I tried as well and... I just don't get how anyone can use them... They're cold and lifeless urrgghhh... | |||
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"I’ve never heard of anyone ‘turning’ gay or bi. You are or you aren’t. It’s not sone lesser state that being hetero, a settle for it option. I have experienced first hand (many times) (and I've been getting a lot of private messages regarding this post confirming it also) that some guys just don't want to admit that because of lack of female attention and desperation they started... Sucking cocks. "But were they a 'bit gay' to begin with? I don't know... I just don't know. | |||
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"Yes it is is the lack of female attention that has opened my mind and why not sex should also be fun not just a reproductive process think we all deserve a bit of fun" I think it's great that you can admit that. I was really horny when I was younger and I couldn't find enough women to satisfy me. Everytime I'd reach for the bush I'd get the dreaded 'hand' shooing me away. To be totally honest I found women boring in the bedroom even when I did get them in it, and that boredom prevented me from getting excited enough to do very much. They would lye their like a sack of spuds and expect a great performance from me. They would blame the: 'ghey'... But no... I was just bored. When I started dating guys they were eating out my ass, sucking on my toes, spanking my ass and spunking over me... It was just... Amazing. ... And I finally got a massage back instead of me having to do all the work. Hey just my experience. | |||
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"Yes it is is the lack of female attention that has opened my mind and why not sex should also be fun not just a reproductive process think we all deserve a bit of fun I think it's great that you can admit that. I was really horny when I was younger and I couldn't find enough women to satisfy me. Everytime I'd reach for the bush I'd get the dreaded 'hand' shooing me away. To be totally honest I found women boring in the bedroom even when I did get them in it, and that boredom prevented me from getting excited enough to do very much. They would lye their like a sack of spuds and expect a great performance from me. They would blame the: 'ghey'... But no... I was just bored. When I started dating guys they were eating out my ass, sucking on my toes, spanking my ass and spunking over me... It was just... Amazing. ... And I finally got a massage back instead of me having to do all the work. Hey just my experience." Think you summed it up that’s how we all feel well said | |||
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"Yes it is is the lack of female attention that has opened my mind and why not sex should also be fun not just a reproductive process think we all deserve a bit of fun I think it's great that you can admit that. I was really horny when I was younger and I couldn't find enough women to satisfy me. Everytime I'd reach for the bush I'd get the dreaded 'hand' shooing me away. To be totally honest I found women boring in the bedroom even when I did get them in it, and that boredom prevented me from getting excited enough to do very much. They would lye their like a sack of spuds and expect a great performance from me. They would blame the: 'ghey'... But no... I was just bored. When I started dating guys they were eating out my ass, sucking on my toes, spanking my ass and spunking over me... It was just... Amazing. ... And I finally got a massage back instead of me having to do all the work. Hey just my experience." What was the cause of your boredom? High expectation? Porn? Wanting to be stimulated in a certain way? Im making the presumption you communicated with these ladies to find common ground? | |||
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"Yes it is is the lack of female attention that has opened my mind and why not sex should also be fun not just a reproductive process think we all deserve a bit of fun I think it's great that you can admit that. I was really horny when I was younger and I couldn't find enough women to satisfy me. Everytime I'd reach for the bush I'd get the dreaded 'hand' shooing me away. To be totally honest I found women boring in the bedroom even when I did get them in it, and that boredom prevented me from getting excited enough to do very much. They would lye their like a sack of spuds and expect a great performance from me. They would blame the: 'ghey'... But no... I was just bored. When I started dating guys they were eating out my ass, sucking on my toes, spanking my ass and spunking over me... It was just... Amazing. ... And I finally got a massage back instead of me having to do all the work. Hey just my experience. What was the cause of your boredom? High expectation? Porn? Wanting to be stimulated in a certain way? Im making the presumption you communicated with these ladies to find common ground? " The cause of my boredom was that the women I met were not adventurous enough and would not give and take - it was just all take. I'd massage them for an hour and get a rough one-minute one in return lol. | |||
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"If you are no attracted to the same sex I'm fairly sure you just can't change It's not someone people will admit too, but if someone is desperate enough... They'd fuck a plug socket." I would much rather fuck a plug socket (even a live one) than fuck another man. I can look at a man and agree he's an incredibly attractive man, but I have literally zero sexual attraction to him. I'm not scared of cocks in the slightest, but again I have zero interest or fascination for them - if I did I can assure you I wouldn't deny myself, I have absolutely no issues with gay sex or gay men. I've had no bad experiences, I guess I'm just very straight. | |||
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"I wouldn't say turning gay or bi, but I think less men would seek other men as an option for sex. They aren't attracted to the person. They just want the orgasm and contact from another person. I asked a man once why he got a blow job from another man when he says he's straight. His answer was that there was no women available. " Interesting. I mean... a mouth is a mouth really... | |||
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"If you are no attracted to the same sex I'm fairly sure you just can't change It's not someone people will admit too, but if someone is desperate enough... They'd fuck a plug socket. I would much rather fuck a plug socket (even a live one) than fuck another man. I can look at a man and agree he's an incredibly attractive man, but I have literally zero sexual attraction to him. I'm not scared of cocks in the slightest, but again I have zero interest or fascination for them - if I did I can assure you I wouldn't deny myself, I have absolutely no issues with gay sex or gay men. I've had no bad experiences, I guess I'm just very straight. " I couldn't fuck a man either tbh. | |||
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"What was the cause of your boredom? High expectation? Porn? Wanting to be stimulated in a certain way? Im making the presumption you communicated with these ladies to find common ground? The cause of my boredom was that the women I met were not adventurous enough and would not give and take - it was just all take. I'd massage them for an hour and get a rough one-minute one in return lol." Fair enough. Without making it a whole therapy session i will say selfish lovers are the worse also not communicating, having the open conversations to progress. | |||
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"What was the cause of your boredom? High expectation? Porn? Wanting to be stimulated in a certain way? Im making the presumption you communicated with these ladies to find common ground? The cause of my boredom was that the women I met were not adventurous enough and would not give and take - it was just all take. I'd massage them for an hour and get a rough one-minute one in return lol. Fair enough. Without making it a whole therapy session i will say selfish lovers are the worse also not communicating, having the open conversations to progress. " And yet here I am saying 'a mouth is a mouth' (in regards to males and females), yet admitting I could not penetrate another guy... So I'm clueless. I don't even know if I'm bi. And... I have nothing against women. In fact I 'get it' somewhat (having lived in their world as much as a TV can). I know the bullshit they get from guys, it's fucking terrible sometimes, but it does work both ways. It's just... stuff that happens. Women have it different from men and men have it different from women and each is doing what is best for them. | |||
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"If sex with women was as easy to obtain as sex with men do you think it would prevent a lot of men from turning bi/gay/tv (etc)..." There's a difference between Gay and Bi. | |||
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"If sex with women was as easy to obtain as sex with men do you think it would prevent a lot of men from turning bi/gay/tv (etc)... There's a difference between Gay and Bi." What... half a cock? | |||
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"From my own experience on this I would estimate I get about 70% attention from gay, bi, ETC. but still 100% straight 🤣" majority of my fabs are from fellas doesn't mean I would shag them | |||
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