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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Colne

I've often wondered this but why is it always "wife swapping" or "hot wife"?

Is there a "husband swapping" or "hot husband"?

Only curious because we don't seem to see it as often.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

I wonder that too. It's like wives are possessions to be traded, I really dislike the term .

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By *un guy300Man
9 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Must be the wifes are naughtyer, what you see ladies

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By *lik and PaulCouple
9 weeks ago

cahoots


"I've often wondered this but why is it always "wife swapping" or "hot wife"?

Is there a "husband swapping" or "hot husband"?

Only curious because we don't seem to see it as often. "

The wife swapping term goes back many years but if you think about it, if couples are swapping wives they are also swapping husbands....guess that's why it's now called swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"I wonder that too. It's like wives are possessions to be traded, I really dislike the term ."

I saw a post the other day asking something along the lines of "what's the biggest your wife has taken?".

To me it implied the same "possession" view of women. Why are some people still like this?

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Colne


"I wonder that too. It's like wives are possessions to be traded, I really dislike the term ."
Yeah I'm not a fan!

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Colne


"I've often wondered this but why is it always "wife swapping" or "hot wife"?

Is there a "husband swapping" or "hot husband"?

Only curious because we don't seem to see it as often.

The wife swapping term goes back many years but if you think about it, if couples are swapping wives they are also swapping husbands....guess that's why it's now called swinging."

A lot of the time it doesn't seem like that but I may be wrong!

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By *p4TheCrackMan
9 weeks ago

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By *p4TheCrackMan
9 weeks ago

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"I've often wondered this but why is it always "wife swapping" or "hot wife"?

Is there a "husband swapping" or "hot husband"?

Only curious because we don't seem to see it as often.

The wife swapping term goes back many years but if you think about it, if couples are swapping wives they are also swapping husbands....guess that's why it's now called swinging.

A lot of the time it doesn't seem like that but I may be wrong! "

That would be cuck queening I think.

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By *neeyedwillieMan
9 weeks ago

Darlington

I'm a "hot husband" if i have to label it. Wifes a cuckqean who gets off on me with other women (and yes we have a couples account on here).

Its not that common. We are, as far as we know, the only couple who really fills that niche at our club.

There are some husbands who play solo but so do their wives. We seem to be the only couple where more often than not my wife wants to watch or not join in and reclaim me afterwards.

And yes I do love every second of it.

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By *dfabMan
9 weeks ago

Dunboyne


"I've often wondered this but why is it always "wife swapping" or "hot wife"?

Is there a "husband swapping" or "hot husband"?

Only curious because we don't seem to see it as often. "

Maybe it's because some are trying to give them away and get a better one?

As for the husband bit, probably cos half of us aren't something the women would wish on others and the other half they don't want to give away and so don't advertise it.

Perhaps 🤔

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I wonder that too. It's like wives are possessions to be traded, I really dislike the term .

I saw a post the other day asking something along the lines of "what's the biggest your wife has taken?".

To me it implied the same "possession" view of women. Why are some people still like this? "

🤷 I honestly do don't know

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By *ovienightCouple
9 weeks ago

Cardiff

I would love to send him out to another woman (please let me know) or watch him with another woman whilst I sit across the room and masturbate

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By *oontuneMan
9 weeks ago

Menston

A mate of mine once asked what I thought about wife swapping.

I said Fuck that , I might end up with yours.

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
8 weeks ago

Colne


"A mate of mine once asked what I thought about wife swapping.

I said Fuck that , I might end up with yours."
Pahaha! Harsh but funny.

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By *aughtyThreesomeCouple
8 weeks ago

Kent

Bit of a hot husband here 👋😈🥵

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By *erICorknowCouple
8 weeks ago

cork

I believe it’s that it’s only ok to a degree if the wife is happy and suggests it!

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
8 weeks ago

Colne


"Bit of a hot husband here 👋😈🥵"
Now we're talking!

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
8 weeks ago

Colne


"I believe it’s that it’s only ok to a degree if the wife is happy and suggests it! "
Totally agree and it's only respectful to do that.

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By *ualityNotQuantityUKCouple
8 weeks ago

Leicester


"I wonder that too. It's like wives are possessions to be traded, I really dislike the term .

To me it implied the same "possession" view of women. Why are some people still like this? "

I saw a post the other day asking something along the lines of "what's the biggest your wife has taken?".

I think this whole thread is reading to much into it, which seems to be the common trend these days. As for the quote above, how else are you supposed to identify your spouse if you don't call them your wife/husband? If you ask the question "what's the biggest you've seen a wife or a woman or even a man or a husband take?" It's a completely different question.

As for the original question, why is it called wife swapping I suppose it's historical from the days when men were seen as the head of the family, (Please don't try and judge historical norms by present day standards, you'll just go mad). I presume partner swapping or spouse swapping would be far more appropriate in this day and age.

As for hot wife you do also get hot husbands, but due to the demographic of Fab members I presume it's a lot easier to find a partner for your hot wife than it is for your hot husband, which will be one of the reasons why you see the term hot wife far more than hot husband.

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
8 weeks ago

Colne


"I wonder that too. It's like wives are possessions to be traded, I really dislike the term .

To me it implied the same "possession" view of women. Why are some people still like this?

I saw a post the other day asking something along the lines of "what's the biggest your wife has taken?".

I think this whole thread is reading to much into it, which seems to be the common trend these days. As for the quote above, how else are you supposed to identify your spouse if you don't call them your wife/husband? If you ask the question "what's the biggest you've seen a wife or a woman or even a man or a husband take?" It's a completely different question.

As for the original question, why is it called wife swapping I suppose it's historical from the days when men were seen as the head of the family, (Please don't try and judge historical norms by present day standards, you'll just go mad). I presume partner swapping or spouse swapping would be far more appropriate in this day and age.

As for hot wife you do also get hot husbands, but due to the demographic of Fab members I presume it's a lot easier to find a partner for your hot wife than it is for your hot husband, which will be one of the reasons why you see the term hot wife far more than hot husband."

Best answer by far, thankyou!

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
8 weeks ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

It probably has origins, both legal and public psycho-social of women as property.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
8 weeks ago

chichester

Romans

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man
8 weeks ago

Colne


"Romans "
Oh those Romans.

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By *ouplewithKinks23Couple
8 weeks ago

Walsall

Always considered the term wife-swapping to be seedy, not sure why!

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
8 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

Would love to hear him fuck a woman upstairs while I'm downstairs playing. After she's left he comes downstairs and fuck me like he just did her

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By *woamigosCouple
8 weeks ago

harrow

No, wife swapping is not a nice term x

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By *eltic connectionCouple
8 weeks ago

Manningtree

Wife swapping is just a term from the 1960s when it was considered acceptable that the man was totally in charge. A term not really used these days as we have moved on. Even the term swinging has changed its meaning as it now appears to include singles! Language and the meaning of words changes constantly!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Central


"I wonder that too. It's like wives are possessions to be traded, I really dislike the term ."

I think it's a throwback, to the much too recent times when men assumed wives were akin to possessions

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