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Wives of Couples...Who suggested it first???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So.... You swing NOW but did hubbh say "I want to watch you getting fucked by another guy" or what????

Were you shocked initially girls??

Did you say "no way" then "actually maybe"

This always intrigues me

Tom xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby's been asking for years always said no way

Then changed my mind about 8 months ago

Best decision I have made xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby's been asking for years always said no way

Then changed my mind about 8 months ago

Best decision I have made xxx"

Me too but only a few months ago I said yes, enjoying my decision so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

were you hurt or upset by the suggestion?? Did you feel empowered or degraded by his suggestion?

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

You're assuming that it's always the guy that brings it up?

I bought it up in our relationship.....

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"were you hurt or upset by the suggestion?? Did you feel empowered or degraded by his suggestion?"

No to both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...so was HE hurt by it?? WOnder if he felt inadequate that you wanted to play with another guy

It incredible that we are such a monogamous race by convention I think!

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

We were talking about fantasies and I admitted I had a DP one.

J then spent a while thinking about how it could work.

He suggested trying clubs first and we went from there.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through the kink scene, I've swung for some years both in previous relationships and as a single, crystal although she had never labelled her self a swinger is bi-sexual, has been in poly relationships and has been having group sex since her late teens.

One second date was to a BDSM club and we ended up in the couples room and that was that!

Not sue we ever really discussed it and if we did safe to say it was a pretty short conversation and no recollection of who brought it up... And by the time we got serious and considered ourselves a couple it was clear that neither had any expectation or desire for our relationship to be monogonous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was dating (my ex hubby) he came to me and said, 'can we not see other people?'

I said erm actually there is something you should know.

I showed him a documentary on La Chambre, he was horrified, a week later I took him to La Chambre.

I told him, I wasn't one to stick to one breakfast for the rest of my life and I need/like/want diversity.

He liked the idea at first.

After we got wed, he began to get jealous, when I got a girlfriend, they were both jealous.

Happily divorced 7 years +

Ditched the gf nearly as long ago

Still swinging

Degrading???

I think liberating and honest personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pillow talk no idea who started it although I can remember both of us being very enthusiastic towards the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (david) brought it up years ago but we never did anything about it..always asked for a MFF as it was my and prob every guys fantasy.

That changed a few years ago when getting sucked by clare while dildoing her...said I'd love to see how u react to another man fucking you.

It took another year before we did it and clare can't get enough now, I love watching too before joining in.

C and D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex suggested it I never wanted to do it but because he was a bully was forced into it, now we are no longer together and have found someone I am happy with we love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (gostoso) had swung with my ex, and has chatted to Gostosa about it when we were still just friends.

When we got together somehow we said we'd both like to try it together. Two FFM later and half a dozen parties we love each other more than ever, and love including others too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He suggested a mmf ...I was intrigued but when he arranged it i was mortified and ran out! Eventually i agreed to a meet the guy again and loved the experience..... still do! Had issues with me watching him play tho. ..

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I got him into it....

Not telling you how

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

My ex suggested a. Three some because her friend had one I asked her did she want one and she said Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...so was HE hurt by it?? WOnder if he felt inadequate that you wanted to play with another guy

It incredible that we are such a monogamous race by convention I think!"

wonder how inadequate he`d feel for letting himself be hurt by the very thing that turns him on most of all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was my idea, hubby agreed and we haven't looked back since.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Hubby wondered if I had ever wanted to go with another woman - I said I've always wondered about it and so he bought a contact mag for us to look through.

We found internet sites and it started from there - that was about 2 years into our relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I signed us up on here and then told him we'd both talked about fantasies and his involved a lot of voyeurism and mine involve other women and recently other men. We're happy so far

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I was on my knees giving him a bj and he said wouldn't it be nice if someone was giving you one right now from behind, I said yes and I meant it

We talked about it afterwards - him: so, were you being serious? Me: yes. Him: shall we arrange it? Me: yes

And that's it, we went to abfabs, met a few couples, had a play, being doing it every month since. Neither of us was scared what the other thought of seeing the other having sex, there's been no jealousy, we both know the types the other fancies so we don't make mistakes with potential meets. It's been fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just asked misses to go to abfabs she has agreed so hopefully it will b the start of our swinging life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was me (Rachel) that made the suggestion I had been swinging for about 2yrs previous to us getting together and he originally said no as he didn't believe you could have sex with no other feelings involved, took me 18mths to convince him otherwise, in the end I just took him along to a club last minute and argued that we would go, have a look and if he hated it I would never mention it again... well we are still here

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