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Hotlist - would you want to know ?

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By *tomCom OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

If you was on someone's hotlist would you want to know ?

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Well.... it's a nicer start of a message than the rude ones

(susie)

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By *tomCom OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"Well.... it's a nicer start of a message than the rude ones

(susie)"

The rude one?

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I would love to know......I got a message from someone recently who said he had had me on his hotlist for ages...I was thrilled as he is gawguss...

Met him Saturday for a social and it has potential!!!

Good old hotlist...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id love to know i think it would help identify mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it was an option to be able to see who had added you I would probably look cause im nosey but im not that bothered, personally I think if you could see who had added you less people would use it, most like the idea its private

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I would look if you had the option too but then I'm a nosey buggar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you was on someone's hotlist would you want to know ?"

I would I think yes

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

It's a difficult one this because most of the people on my hotlist are people I think are annoying and enjoy seeing their ranty status updated and shouty profiles after they post on the forums!! Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you was on someone's hotlist would you want to know ?"

Yes because I am nosey as said above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would only want to see what fems and couples had us hotlisted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'd like to know, don't think it would be a long list tho tbh

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If you was on someone's hotlist would you want to know ?"

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would look who's I was on if it was an option but also I wouldn't use it if that was an option.

We use our hotlist for when one of us is browsing and likes the look of a profile so the other can take a peek at their discretion.

If I wanted some one to see that i think their hot but can't be arsed to message id wink them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you was on someone's hotlist would you want to know ?"

Id like to knowx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to know, but who am I kidding? hang on myself, I wouldnt be on anyone's hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks,

I really do not want to know who is stalking I mean perving me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo, might be depressing, finding not on anyones list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be such a rare event I think I definitely would like to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you was on someone's hot-list would you want to know ?"
..not really but it wouldn't bother us,we have a hot-list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it will probably be the blokes who fab my pics lol.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I wouldn't mind - some other sites notify you

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I'd like to know, curiousity and all that

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Nope, not arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it would be good to know every time, but i think it would be a good feature if you were notified if someone on your your hotlist added you to theirs. Or if you added someone when you were already on theirs.

Just a notification telling you there was a match up there could be useful.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I am nosey hence I have the looked at me function, but to be honest, it's not really good news if you are on mine! Well, 50/50 really some I just like to see what their latest status message is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course if you could see who had you hotlist'ed, No one would ever go onto mine and I'd stop using it

so would you rather know, and be on none

or not know and possibly be on some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you was on someones hotlist and you knew what would you do?

would you mail them or just assum they arnt interested as they havnt mailed you? would it actually benefit you knowing?

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Would love to know! I have to admit i do have a bad habit of hot listing people and never messaging them though . Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id love to know i think it would help identify mutual attraction"

not always I add abusive guys to my hotlist and add a note to their profile so I remember them and what they have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would love to know. We have a friend who has 200 on his hotlist now that's some serious perving ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

isnt the point of adding your fav peeps to your hotlist. and then trying to chat them up. i use the hotlist to remind me of people i so want to meet if they say no then i take them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isnt the point of adding your fav peeps to your hotlist. and then trying to chat them up. i use the hotlist to remind me of people i so want to meet if they say no then i take them off"

no, the idea of the hotlist is to find people you like easy and perv their pics without them knowing lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I use the hotlist to keep an eye on men who I am not quite ready to friend request.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"It's a difficult one this because most of the people on my hotlist are people I think are annoying and enjoy seeing their ranty status updated and shouty profiles after they post on the forums!! Lol xx "

Haha and me

Doesn't bother me if I am on a hot list or not. If they are going to make contact they will hit the message button. If they are not going to do that, it's pretty irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would depend why you were on the hotlist cos they liked ya or cos they didnt want to know ya lol xxxxxx maybe its best not to know. got a few on mine who i think are right numpties and that and the notes mean i know i dont want to bother with them lol

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I use the hotlist to keep an eye on men who I am not quite ready to friend request. "

+ 1....more often than not i tell the guys who in general accept graciously why the Hotlist+not the friendlist(yet)

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wots a hotlist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if we had this option we'd only get an influx of forum posts complaining that the same sex has them hotlisted, it's bad enough with the 'men look at my pics/profile and I'm straight ' posts

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

For sure, the filters prevent access to members we don't or rarely seek

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By *ysteryboatMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Hotlists are members private preserve.

Let's leave some privacy.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I use the hotlist to keep an eye on men who I am not quite ready to friend request. "

exactly

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I'd love to know but only if they're good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'd like to know, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...would be nice to know who your admirers are....if any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a difficult one this because most of the people on my hotlist are people I think are annoying and enjoy seeing their ranty status updated and shouty profiles after they post on the forums!! Lol xx

Haha and me

Doesn't bother me if I am on a hot list or not. If they are going to make contact they will hit the message button. If they are not going to do that, it's pretty irrelevant. "

Same here!

Maybe we need a hotlist for the perving material and a 'notlist' for the forum/status following?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is a good idea as long as each person has the ability to allow or not to allow them to see whom they have hot listed. I would not mind anyone seeing if I have them on my hot list. I would hope the ladies would be please and not offended that I had hot listed her.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"

Maybe we need a hotlist for the perving material"

I've perved your pics lots of times. Also your name makes me laugh

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

We should have a truth and reconciliation commission i.e.how many of this thread are on your hotlist

Mines 1 so far

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Don't think it would be good to know every time, but i think it would be a good feature if you were notified if someone on your your hotlist added you to theirs. Or if you added someone when you were already on theirs.

Just a notification telling you there was a match up there could be useful."

So wise and yet so young

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Perhaps a notification if you hotlist someone and they've hotlisted you.....maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we would like to know as we are both nosey

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Every single person/couple on this post is now in my HOTLIST! You are all gorgeous people

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I use the hotlist to keep an eye on men who I am not quite ready to friend request.

exactly "

+ 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'd certainly be interesting to see who's hotlist I'm on (if any!)....

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I doubt I would be on many, if any hotlists; so it matters not if i know or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think it would be good to know every time, but i think it would be a good feature if you were notified if someone on your your hotlist added you to theirs. Or if you added someone when you were already on theirs.

Just a notification telling you there was a match up there could be useful.

So wise and yet so young "

We agree, there is another site that we use that does this and it's really good... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it should be option in privacy settings to show if you are in someone's hotlist or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah id love 2 know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it should be option in privacy settings to show if you are in someone's hotlist or not."

That's a good shout

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Would love to know! I have to admit i do have a bad habit of hot listing people and never messaging them though . Mrs x"

Tell me about it. I do have people in my hotlist that I haven't messaged ever. That's cos they are too far away for me to actually meet and they stay on a for a while until I delete. Pointless exercise, I know...

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here


"if it was an option to be able to see who had added you I would probably look cause im nosey but im not that bothered, personally I think if you could see who had added you less people would use it, most like the idea its private"

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Nope...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you was on someone's hotlist would you want to know ?"

Not really I am more bothered in who I am interested in with what little spare time I have here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to know to be honest.. spoils the fun and intrigued.. Similar to an earlier comment I had a couple contact me recently who stated they had been tracking me through their hotlist and finally decided to take the plunge... six months they had been monitoring me!!

I follow people out of interest as some peoples status updates make me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id love to know i think it would help identify mutual attraction

not always I add abusive guys to my hotlist and add a note to their profile so I remember them and what they have said "

Thats a clever way of using it actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive just browsed 8 pages of local guys, found one and put him on my hotlist, now see why its best as a private thing, but think he is a site supporter so he will know I looked anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if it was an option to be able to see who had added you I would probably look cause im nosey but im not that bothered, personally I think if you could see who had added you less people would use it, most like the idea its private"

Agree 100%

Been on for years dear!

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By *eelsandHoldupsCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Yes I'd like to know x

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