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"A new one for us.. A wink and a few fabs caught our eye, (purposely not mentioning the demographic) messaged our interest with face pictures. Had response and less than 4 hour's later another passive aggressive message saying obviously not then and how we were ghosting and wasting their time.. 🤷🤦 seriously we'd not even seen each other by that point. Do we really live in such an 'instant' age?? " You must remember, where some of us have a life outside of this website, others don't. | |||
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"Yeah it happens. It's really silly as some of them we were interested in till their strop " Exactly this | |||
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"It's good it happens so early on though, instead of wasting time and effort on someone. " Very true | |||
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"It's good it happens so early on though, instead of wasting time and effort on someone. " Fair point!! 👍 | |||
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Er, hello! 🤦🏻♂️
It’s also amazing how many delete their pics after the message has been opened! We aren’t together most of the time and it’s highly likely I’ll open the message first and so C doesn’t get to see them 🤷🏻♂️
It’s a couples profile so there’s two people that need to view pics!
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"A guy messaged us and we exchanged a few messages. He sent face pics and within 5 mins of him sending them, he’d blocked us
Er, hello! 🤦🏻♂️
It’s also amazing how many delete their pics after the message has been opened! We aren’t together most of the time and it’s highly likely I’ll open the message first and so C doesn’t get to see them 🤷🏻♂️
It’s a couples profile so there’s two people that need to view pics!
K"Exactly 👍 | |||
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"A new one for us.. A wink and a few fabs caught our eye, (purposely not mentioning the demographic) messaged our interest with face pictures. Had response and less than 4 hour's later another passive aggressive message saying obviously not then and how we were ghosting and wasting their time.. 🤷🤦 seriously we'd not even seen each other by that point. Do we really live in such an 'instant' age?? " Just curious, but had you seen their face pics before messaging or were the face pics in their reply? Sometimes people are self conscious and feel no reply must mean not interested but you didn't want to hurt their feelings by saying so. If someone has had a lot of rejections they may be automatically pessimistic. If the face pics were in the reply do you think you would have still been interested having seen them, and if not how would you respond? | |||
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"Yeah it happens. It's really silly as some of them we were interested in till their strop " Imagine if you had replied quickly and not encountered an online strop. They could well have been equally as demanding in real life. You probably dodged a bullet. | |||
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"Often put messages back to unread to avoid this situation and saving for a later reply" Same  | |||
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"A new one for us.. A wink and a few fabs caught our eye, (purposely not mentioning the demographic) messaged our interest with face pictures. Had response and less than 4 hour's later another passive aggressive message saying obviously not then and how we were ghosting and wasting their time.. 🤷🤦 seriously we'd not even seen each other by that point. Do we really live in such an 'instant' age?? " I see this as a positive thing - you get to figure out they’re actually complete arseholes early on in the process and have avoided a great deal of wasted effort. Dodged a bullet, block and go and find a perfect couple that are out there looking for you | |||
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"A new one for us.. A wink and a few fabs caught our eye, (purposely not mentioning the demographic) messaged our interest with face pictures. Had response and less than 4 hour's later another passive aggressive message saying obviously not then and how we were ghosting and wasting their time.. 🤷🤦 seriously we'd not even seen each other by that point. Do we really live in such an 'instant' age?? " Getting the hump after 4hr, what's wrong with people? Well we clearly wouldn't have worked for them. Our fabmin is terrible. Alot because our life is hectic and we genrally don't like to invest too much online effort until we've meet face to face. If we are interested we'll send a couple of messages to judge the vibe. Then we'll say we're not in a position to meet in the near future and that we like to save the talking till we meet in person. So no one is wasting any time on each other, just putting things on the back burner till our calendar frees up. After all no ones got exclusive rights, they're free to pursue others in the mean time. | |||
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"A new one for us.. A wink and a few fabs caught our eye, (purposely not mentioning the demographic) messaged our interest with face pictures. Had response and less than 4 hour's later another passive aggressive message saying obviously not then and how we were ghosting and wasting their time.. 🤷🤦 seriously we'd not even seen each other by that point. Do we really live in such an 'instant' age?? " Sounds potentially like someone finished their perve/wank and lashed out. We very rarely get excited over people who are really keen instantly and want to make plans fast - come back in a few hours or tomorrow when we can be more sure you've got a clear mind and we might get somewhere... | |||
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"We get this really often. Usually a message saying something really basic and then when we haven't replied within 5 minutes of reading we get a 'obviously not then...' message. Absolutely unhinged. " Hadn't experienced it previously, but as others have said, a good swerve! 😜 | |||
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"A new one for us.. A wink and a few fabs caught our eye, (purposely not mentioning the demographic) messaged our interest with face pictures. Had response and less than 4 hour's later another passive aggressive message saying obviously not then and how we were ghosting and wasting their time.. 🤷🤦 seriously we'd not even seen each other by that point. Do we really live in such an 'instant' age?? You must remember, where some of us have a life outside of this website, others don't. " Wait there's a life outside the internet??? I don't believe you! Why are you lying? | |||
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