FabSwingers.com forum: First time

By *uriouscouple69692000 OP Couple
9 weeks ago

murcia

Genuine first timers. Only ever fucked my husband. Been together since teens. Agreed to get fucked as he watches and joins in. Very nervous but excited. Want to go bareback and for him to reclaim me afterwards. So nervous. Not been to a club. Looking to find the right guy/ chemistry/ situation. Any suggestions please?

By *mateur100Man
9 weeks ago

nr faversham

We went to a hotel one new year's eve looking for someone that she liked and showed an interest. We were lucky but please be safe and absolutely sure about the BB thing as it's not something every guy can handle. Good luck

By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

This looks like a great leap instead of a small step. I'd suggest going to a club first and then seeing what you think afterwards. Fulfilling a fantasy is all well and good but it looks like it's a step too far and too fast. How about just soft play first and then seeing how you both feel about it. That way if neither of you like it then it's only a small step back. If you go all in straight away it's difficult to undo afterwards. That's my advice.

By *uriouscouple69692000 OP Couple
9 weeks ago

murcia

Thank you

By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
9 weeks ago

goffs oak

Totally agree with this, also gives you both chance to talk after and make sure your both on the same page.

"This looks like a great leap instead of a small step. I'd suggest going to a club first and then seeing what you think afterwards. Fulfilling a fantasy is all well and good but it looks like it's a step too far and too fast. How about just soft play first and then seeing how you both feel about it. That way if neither of you like it then it's only a small step back. If you go all in straight away it's difficult to undo afterwards. That's my advice."

By *irty-pairCouple
9 weeks ago

South Essex

As others have said, take it slowly. Maybe a club first, perhaps a bit of soft play and see how you both find it.

Make sure whoever you play with knows your thoughts and your situation, and if either of you are uncomfortable at any time, you must put the brakes on. Keep communicating before, during and after. Rarely is trust in yourself and your partner more important.

For what it’s worth, I’d keep BB as a fantasy for the time being because it might be a first step too far.

But whatever you do, have fun! Xxx