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Profiles who ask for face pics...

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By *arb45 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Derby

....but have no face pictures themselves showing. Would you send one?

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By *ooking for threesome funMan
4 weeks ago

Basildon

Depends if there profile catches my eye or not

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By *oe n JayCouple
4 weeks ago

Surrey

Nope, never.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
4 weeks ago

Hull

As a man I think we have no choice if we want to progress to a meeting .we all know women have complete control !!

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By *he ExcaliburMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Depends on who they are and why they’re asking

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
4 weeks ago

Scarborogh


"....but have no face pictures themselves showing. Would you send one?"

Not a chance, bit hypocritical me thinks.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If I found someone's profile interesting enough to want to know more then maybe.

But probably not.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

It's totally different sending a face pic in private to having one public though isn't it.

If you don't want to send one they aren't for you.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 weeks ago

Leeds


"....but have no face pictures themselves showing. Would you send one?

Not a chance, bit hypocritical me thinks. "

How so? Everyone who asks for face pics via DM should have them public? That's not really fair is it?

Mrs

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By *ainyDaySunshineMan
4 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Have done in the past but they must be pic collectors

Not sure why they're waiting a pic of my mug 🤔

Ruins things for the honest fabbers

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Have done in the past but they must be pic collectors

Not sure why they're waiting a pic of my mug 🤔

Ruins things for the honest fabbers"

A lot of people consider faces pretty central to attraction.

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By *orkshire Couple2000Couple
4 weeks ago

Halifax

We will send one as a private message but don't display any on our profile. Does that make us hypocrites ?

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

Well as I know from my time as a single male on here, you are bottom of the pile so to speak, there is literally thousands of single men looking for meets.

So you are left with a choice, either send first and have a chance, or don't send and have zero chance, totally up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Will only send a face pic if they have public pictures. Would like one in return but doesn’t work out that way always

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By *ueryMan
4 weeks ago

london


"Will only send a face pic if they have public pictures. Would like one in return but doesn’t work out that way always"

Definitely this. If they have public pics and they want to have a sense of what you look like that's legit. It's when someone messages you with zero images but wants to see what you look like that it's weird

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By *orty and niceMan
4 weeks ago

Nearby to you

Bit hypocritical of those with no face pics asking for other peoples. I never ask.

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By *aomilatteCouple
4 weeks ago

Midlands


"....but have no face pictures themselves showing. Would you send one?"

No, nor would we even reply. If someone sends face pics and they tickle our fancy we may send pics of our pretty faces

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Nope, I don't ask for one first message so wouldn't message someone who demanded mine without some chat.

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By *end1Man
4 weeks ago

southend on sea

I show face on profile picture that way it cuts out the disappointment of not getting a reply back 😊

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By *ev_1Couple
4 weeks ago

Bickliegh

Nope never have done but guess what always get recognised on the blind meets must be the fresh pineapple we carry around with us at all times

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By *eyeYCouple
4 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Yes, we often initiate by sending a couple of us.

However if not reciprocated within a few days we'll remove them.

We expect to see if there is an attraction, we won't waste anyone's time x

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By *ackwoody11Man
4 weeks ago

swansea

As a single guy you have no option but to pit face pic but I would expect to see one back after a couple of messages

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
4 weeks ago

Scarborogh


"We will send one as a private message but don't display any on our profile. Does that make us hypocrites ?"

No because your profile doesn’t ask for it in the first message. I’m sure you are like us and majority of couples on here. After a few messages and think this is fun. Here’s us and hope you receive in return rather than a block lol.

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By *otwife and sexy beastCouple
4 weeks ago

rochester


"We will send one as a private message but don't display any on our profile. Does that make us hypocrites ?

No because your profile doesn’t ask for it in the first message. I’m sure you are like us and majority of couples on here. After a few messages and think this is fun. Here’s us and hope you receive in return rather than a block lol. "

Exactly this.

HW

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By *arb45 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Derby


"We will send one as a private message but don't display any on our profile. Does that make us hypocrites ?"

No. It is the ones who state in their profile saying a face pic is a must or your message will be ignored...yet do not have a single face pic of themselves showing.

The other day I replied to an Ad and sent a face pic. Got a reply saying they knew who I was and were going to show the post to my relative. Haha. Then blocked me

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By *urbo321123Man
4 weeks ago

BEWDLEY


"We will send one as a private message but don't display any on our profile. Does that make us hypocrites ?

No. It is the ones who state in their profile saying a face pic is a must or your message will be ignored...yet do not have a single face pic of themselves showing.

The other day I replied to an Ad and sent a face pic. Got a reply saying they knew who I was and were going to show the post to my relative. Haha. Then blocked me"

That's proper dodgy, did you report them? I send a picture with the first message but sometimes wonder if there is people on here who might try and use it against others. Your experience is the first time I've heard of anything like that actually happening though.

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By *rill PhilMan
4 weeks ago

Crediton

Yup. I completely understand why people don't necessarily want their faces publicly displayed.

I do however think it's pretty rude for them to them reply without a face pic themselves.

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By *arb45 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Derby


"We will send one as a private message but don't display any on our profile. Does that make us hypocrites ?

No. It is the ones who state in their profile saying a face pic is a must or your message will be ignored...yet do not have a single face pic of themselves showing.

The other day I replied to an Ad and sent a face pic. Got a reply saying they knew who I was and were going to show the post to my relative. Haha. Then blocked me

That's proper dodgy, did you report them? I send a picture with the first message but sometimes wonder if there is people on here who might try and use it against others. Your experience is the first time I've heard of anything like that actually happening though. "

I didnt report but I should have done now thinking back. Was a bit taken aback

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By *lthomasMan
4 weeks ago

Wolves

Not until some chat is established and even longer if they have no verifications

Can always ask for a live pic (from photo album) asking them to do something to prove genuine

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By *MCMan
4 weeks ago

London/EA


"....but have no face pictures themselves showing. Would you send one?

Not a chance, bit hypocritical me thinks. "

The amount of couples and ladies that expect double standards and demand this is ridiculous, if I mention this though I’ll be in serious trouble👀

Oh wait… whoops 😅

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

My rule of thumb is if I haven't asked for yours, don't ask for mine.

The moment they do it's the end of the convo. Outside of a very specific set of circumstances, I'm not sending face pics to anyone.

The ones who message you and send one in their first message aren't fooling me either. Throwing your unsolicited mug at me does not oblige me to do the same.

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By *andD300Couple
4 weeks ago

london

If we get messages or requests from members with no face pics then we know they haven’t read our profile so we block them.

It shows to us that they can’t do the simplest of things. C.

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By *uzzleMan
4 weeks ago

Hastings

I think insisting on face pics is very disrespectful.

You are not showing any consideration or respect for that person. They may be a teacher at your childs school or simply a very private individiual. They won't want all and sundry looking at their face pic.

It also shifts the balance of power and dynamic, you supply a face pic, they can take a copy and not send one back. This is an absolute no for me and I won't play such games.

I am not desperate enough to jump through all the hoops that a female or couple's profile insist upon. I am not applying for a job FFS. If you want to see what the person looks like, arrange a meet for coffee etc, isn't that part of the excitement?

I know the next sentence is more of a guys persepective but if she's got a bangin body, I don't care what the face looks like.

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By *ampire69Man
4 weeks ago

Birmingham West Midlands

No No No, not a chance i am very security conscious if some one who has no pictures on their profile is asking for pictures of me first smell a big rat. people don't seem to grasp the risk factor of placing pictures on line, ok each to their own but what they dont seem to value or grasp is once images have been put on any web site you lose control of where it goes and who has access to that image.

So a random request for facial images are just ridicules and risky. I have given people a phone number so can have a phone chat , but i am still security protected anonymity, come on guys wise up, put your thinking heads on before your sex heads

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By *ayleigh1111Woman
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

I have no face pics showing, but ask for one.. if you're happy sending one message, if not,move on, no loss to anyone involved.

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

As I have face pics on profile, I never feel the need to send.

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
4 weeks ago

here and there

If thay are verified by a few people and thay send then we would x

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