FabSwingers.com forum: Fat shaming

By *hunkygent88 OP Man
4 weeks ago

hull

I recently posted a pic of me with my top off and got a few messages fat shaming me so i ended up taking it down. Wouldn’t it be better for people to say nothing than say something nasty or is that just an us thing?

Like i know im a bigger guy it litrally says it in my username

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By *uncouplerk40Couple
4 weeks ago

That’s rubbish x

You should post what you’re comfortable with and people who don’t like it don’t enjoy it!

We’re sorry you’ve been through that x

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By *hunkygent88 OP Man
4 weeks ago

hull

Its always the same, i believe this will always happen. I try to ignore it but sometimes it gets to me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

People enjoy insulting others for how they look. God knows why because I doubt they're movie star material.

It's shocking that anyone feels it's an ok thing to do

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By *ingerie lover1TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Cardiff

Sorry to hear this. Lots of people don't like me dressing.

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By *inceIlkestonMan
4 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I'll happily report anyone to admin that gives me grief.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
4 weeks ago

Cwmbran

Fuck em.

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By *trueceltMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol

nobody should be shamed for their life choices especially as being overweight is sometimes not a choice

don't let the fucks grind you down

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By *ante40Man
4 weeks ago

darlington

"I recently posted a pic of me with my top off and got a few messages fat shaming me so i ended up taking it down. Wouldn’t it be better for people to say nothing than say something nasty or is that just an us thing?

Like i know im a bigger guy it litrally says it in my username "
sadly it's everywhere online I would try to ignore it, you can't win online I have had messages saying I'm too skinny so either way someone will always have a problem it's no fault of yours

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By *hunkygent88 OP Man
4 weeks ago

hull

Im built for comfort not speed

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By *orny entitiesCouple
4 weeks ago

near Gainsborough

Heart goes out to you OP. We can’t stand bullies and like what has just been said by our dearest mod. The tossers won’t be without their own faults and without coming across as mean…. You’ve gotta toughen up and brush it off, as this place can be absolutely vile….. the elitism is insane

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By *heonlycunnilinguyMan
4 weeks ago

Yeovil

Like i know im a bigger guy it litrally says it in my username "

They do it to make themselves feel better. I know it is not easy to OP, but ignore them. Do what pleases you and sod everyone else

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By *urbo321123Man
4 weeks ago

BEWDLEY

Says more about them if they have time and forethought to be nasty to someone else.

It reminds me of when I said hello to a couple on here and the guy messaged me back saying "hairy and a tiny cock no thanks twat" 😂 looked on their profile and he had a smaller cock than me! No need to be rude to people when it's much easier to say nothing at all. It's good you didn't say anything back as it's no good getting dragged into someones negative world.

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By *orthantsfun19Man
4 weeks ago

Kettering

Like a number of people on here have said some absolutely vile creatures on here ! Supposed to be an adult site and all looking for fun in different ways. Don’t let them bother you fella 👍

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By *r99mr99Man
4 weeks ago

Ealing

"Fuck em. "

Don't reward them !!

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By *oodmessMan
4 weeks ago

yumsville

Usually their own insecurities

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By *rInked_MrsRabbitCouple
4 weeks ago

nuneaton

This place is full of vile people but it is also full of normal people who dont judge. Please dont let 1 persons ignorance stop you from being you.

I(mrs) have had to deal with it myself on a few occasions. It is hurtful but these people dont even deserve to breath the same air.

Keep being you, keep posting your pics and keep being awesome

(Mrs) x

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By *oodmessMan
4 weeks ago

yumsville

^ by that I mean they are projecting their shit onto someone else as something is fucked/failing in their pokey life

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By *reddy96Man
4 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Sorry to see this buddy. I'am a big lad also. Just have let them get on with it and ignore them

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By *end1Man
4 weeks ago

southend on sea

Feel your pain OP as I'm on the opposite side I'm conscious that I'm slim or some would say skinny!

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By *ittynzWoman
4 weeks ago

Richmond

Sorry key board trolls made you feel like you had to take it down Don’t post a shit load more!! Be proud of your body and fuxk everyone one who it isn’t for they’re not for you, move on to the next xx

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By *ndianchocolateMan
4 weeks ago

Pinner

"People enjoy insulting others for how they look. God knows why because I doubt they're movie star material.

It's shocking that anyone feels it's an ok thing to do"

Exactly that, I’m sure the number of their scales when they stand on it isn’t the same as a pro athlete at the same age or looks like a male or female model.

But then again…. Some on here act have the ego of someone who’s on billboards

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By *dtvfanTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Carnforth

Always be your self. Be proud of who you are.

Getting out there and playing is what matters.

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By *leaningdutiesMan
4 weeks ago

South London

Lots of horrible on here and in life sadly.

That said, there are many very lovely people on here.

Just try to ignore the former and embrace the latter

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By *aizyWoman
4 weeks ago

west midlands

I'm sorry that happened to you OP, sadly it is how some people get their kicks, trying to make people feel as miserable as they obviously are.

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
4 weeks ago

east coast

People = shit

hope your OK buddy f..k the haters you do you

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