FabSwingers.com forum: Paying for a gangbang

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A couple on here is asking for people to pay up to £20 to attend a gangbang.

This cant be right??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not but maybe they are offering food etc and having it in a hotel so asking others to chip in that could be why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

No..

had a similar 'invite' a cpl of weeks ago..

asked what the £20 was for and got blocked, had already reported to admin..

no idea what happened..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not?"

Ok i havnt seen any of that. But they want up to 20 people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not?

Ok i havnt seen any of that. But they want up to 20 people. "

Blimey, it must include a slap-up meal at the Ritz.

Report them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We been on a few sites and one we use to be on and is not no more you had to be careful cause a large percentage of people on there were escorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm is that all in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not?

Ok i havnt seen any of that. But they want up to 20 people. "

Just ask what the money is for if they can't give an answer report them

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I received an email not too dissimilar some time back.. except they were asking if they could use my place and in return... get this... I'd get a discount to attend.

Makes you wonder if I refused to pay - they'd refuse me entry? To my own home??

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By *thlete0Couple
over a year ago

southend

We have paid £40 for a couples party at a great venue with drinks and food! You would pay to get into a club right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received an email not too dissimilar some time back.. except they were asking if they could use my place and in return... get this... I'd get a discount to attend.

Makes you wonder if I refused to pay - they'd refuse me entry? To my own home??"

Hope you told them where to go lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

We have paid £40 for a couples party at a great venue with drinks and food! You would pay to get into a club right? "

There are differences though:

A club is a venue with some license, operating capital, staff wages, utility bills,... you name it. If they have a bar then there's alcohol license as well.

A random meet ("meet us in hotel") makes you thing... hotel for the night - £90, get 5 people (1 girl and 4 guys?) then the guys pay £20 and the girl £10. Sorted.

But if they're expecting 20 guys, each paying £20 ... that's some expensive hotel!

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

No need to pay for a gangbang,plenty on here who don't ask for a 'contribution'.

Think it's out of order esspecially if they ask for:arrive,fuck,leave

it's 1 thing asking for:sharing hotel costs or a fee for a buffet provided but just asking for payment to play

thats not swinging in my book!!!

(susie)

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

We have paid £40 for a couples party at a great venue with drinks and food! You would pay to get into a club right?

There are differences though:

A club is a venue with some license, operating capital, staff wages, utility bills,... you name it. If they have a bar then there's alcohol license as well.

A random meet ("meet us in hotel") makes you thing... hotel for the night - £90, get 5 people (1 girl and 4 guys?) then the guys pay £20 and the girl £10. Sorted.

But if they're expecting 20 guys, each paying £20 ... that's some expensive hotel!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a party why not charge - they either have to hire some place, maybe put on some drinks, food or even class the donation as help to clean up.

Many parties location get rather messy (dirty/stained towels, bed sheets, used condoms left about etc) even in people own homes.

If it was close friends party then paying seems a bit... er.. but if it's strangers then what do you think.

Cant answer the last posters comment about his own house..lol that one very dodgy.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"I received an email not too dissimilar some time back.. except they were asking if they could use my place and in return... get this... I'd get a discount to attend.

Makes you wonder if I refused to pay - they'd refuse me entry? To my own home??

Hope you told them where to go lol "

Even better - I told them if they want the authority to decide whether or not I can attend a venue (that I happen to have the key to) then they're welcome to pay the rent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have paid £40 for a couples party at a great venue with drinks and food! You would pay to get into a club right? "

Yeah - we've been to theirs too - and we'd pay that in a flash for their party.

Awesome people and palace - sorry place

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

The other week I was invited to join a couple for some teatime fun, mmmmmmm lovely I thought and accepted. I then got a text asking to cover all travel expenses and child care...£80

I was going to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received an email not too dissimilar some time back.. except they were asking if they could use my place and in return... get this... I'd get a discount to attend.

Makes you wonder if I refused to pay - they'd refuse me entry? To my own home??"

A discount you say? How very generous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have paid £40 for a couples party at a great venue with drinks and food! You would pay to get into a club right?

There are differences though:

A club is a venue with some license, operating capital, staff wages, utility bills,... you name it. If they have a bar then there's alcohol license as well.

A random meet ("meet us in hotel") makes you thing... hotel for the night - £90, get 5 people (1 girl and 4 guys?) then the guys pay £20 and the girl £10. Sorted.

But if they're expecting 20 guys, each paying £20 ... that's some expensive hotel!"

speaking as someone who uses hotels regular ive never used a single one where you could get 20 guys into the same room, you couldn't get that many past reception in most hotels, im guessing its a home meet and they just making money from it

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Okay, here's a twist on the "paying for a party/meet that is NOT in a club" (say a hotel or someone's house).

If clubs charge different entry rates (ie guys, girls and couples) as a business model to cover their costs while controllig numbers (to some degree) of who turns up (usually unexpected),...

.. then how do some of these "private parties" justify also charging different rates? They don't have staff to pay, usually the bills are not that much higher (if their own home) and if a hotel then the cost of booking the room is a fixed rate,.. and the people attending are invited only so there's little chance of "randoms turning up" and a need to "control numbers".

So.. why charge differently? A long time ago I got such an invite... £5 for single girls, £80 for single guys, with a note at the bottom of the email "You are guaranteed to have fun".

To me, a "guarantee" (with a £80 price tag for the guys) only means one thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple on here is asking for people to pay up to £20 to attend a gangbang.

This cant be right??

Would you go if they charged £11:99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other week I was invited to join a couple for some teatime fun, mmmmmmm lovely I thought and accepted. I then got a text asking to cover all travel expenses and child care...£80

I was going to them

Teatime fun, perhaps they were offering tea and cakes, followed by jelly, ice cream and caviar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple on here is asking for people to pay up to £20 to attend a gangbang.

This cant be right??

Would you go if they charged £11:99

No only £1.99 as I'm cheap

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"A couple on here is asking for people to pay up to £20 to attend a gangbang.

This cant be right??

Would you go if they charged £11:99

As long as I got my 1p change for the pot back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other week I was invited to join a couple for some teatime fun, mmmmmmm lovely I thought and accepted. I then got a text asking to cover all travel expenses and child care...£80

I was going to them

I hear of things like this regular I honest to god would not have the bare faced cheak, I turned down a meet last week as it was the end of my pay month and I didn't have the money spare to go halfs on a hotel even tho I really wanted to meet him and he offered to pay but i still said no, so I could never be so cheak as to ask for travel, child minder money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have paid £40 for a couples party at a great venue with drinks and food! You would pay to get into a club right?

There are differences though:

A club is a venue with some license, operating capital, staff wages, utility bills,... you name it. If they have a bar then there's alcohol license as well.

A random meet ("meet us in hotel") makes you thing... hotel for the night - £90, get 5 people (1 girl and 4 guys?) then the guys pay £20 and the girl £10. Sorted.

But if they're expecting 20 guys, each paying £20 ... that's some expensive hotel!

A couple of years ago a friend and I got a room in London and had an all weekend party , and lets say we had over 30 guys, the only problem we had was the lovely man on security wanted to come join us...... and the only money spent was we paid for the room ourselves. I could not ask them for money , that's like prostitution in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay, here's a twist on the "paying for a party/meet that is NOT in a club" (say a hotel or someone's house).

If clubs charge different entry rates (ie guys, girls and couples) as a business model to cover their costs while controllig numbers (to some degree) of who turns up (usually unexpected),...

So.. why charge differently? A long time ago I got such an invite... £5 for single girls, £80 for single guys, with a note at the bottom of the email "You are guaranteed to have fun".

To me, a "guarantee" (with a £80 price tag for the guys) only means one thing."

£5 for single girls aka rocking horse .... - rare as..

£80 single guys - ten a penny.

Supply and demand..

Most parties we have been to supply limitless drinks and a buffet - if they make some money well they have to put it to the clean up - wash all their linen etc.. and spend the following day clearing up, and sort out the carpet spill of red wine, cleaning etc

Least in a hotel - you leave it to the chamber maid - poor thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have paid £40 for a couples party at a great venue with drinks and food! You would pay to get into a club right?

There are differences though:

A club is a venue with some license, operating capital, staff wages, utility bills,... you name it. If they have a bar then there's alcohol license as well.

A random meet ("meet us in hotel") makes you thing... hotel for the night - £90, get 5 people (1 girl and 4 guys?) then the guys pay £20 and the girl £10. Sorted.

But if they're expecting 20 guys, each paying £20 ... that's some expensive hotel!

its not like it, it is it

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

"The other week I was invited to join a couple for some teatime fun, mmmmmmm lovely I thought and accepted. I then got a text asking to cover all travel expenses and child care...£80

I was going to them

I love a woman who loves to go Dutch!!

Can we do the same on a leggy blonde??

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We have been to somewhere in the region of 20 parties in our time on here...... and have NEVER been asked to pay anything.

Some parties have been very well put together, hot-tubs, buffets etc and others were more intimate affairs, but all we were asked was to bring our on drinks... and condoms lol!

Swinging is an intimate, personal hobby, when it becomes a "for profit" venture that's when ordinary swingers should walk away.

Clubs have overheads, wages, rent, utilities ... parties don't.

Whilst I'm not against a couple getting a few guys into a hotel room for some gangbang fun for the wife, and asking for a small contribution towards the cost of the room, the sort of profiteering indicated by the OP should be shunned by genuine swingers.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't understand how people can justify the charging of others for what is essentially a sex meet. The reasons given: food, drink, etc, just cut no ice with me at all. If you are hosting a gang bang then you don't have to provide anything bar a little tea or coffee. If it is a hotel meet then the cost of the room should be divided amongst the people attending and no more. The cost of cleaning up? Please! Bloody cheeky. You don't like holding parties don't do it - to charge someone for cleaning is ridiculous.

As others have said, other than GENUINE expenses such as hotel rooms, any other costs are simply paying for sex. That is solicitation and prostitution.

I believe Madam Cyn (Cynthia Payne) actually did time for hosting parties where she accepted luncheon vouchers. That's because it was ILLEGAL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other week I was invited to join a couple for some teatime fun, mmmmmmm lovely I thought and accepted. I then got a text asking to cover all travel expenses and child care...£80

I was going to them

I love a woman who loves to go Dutch!!

Can we do the same on a leggy blonde??

nope, you can have her all to yourself

see how good I am to you

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

"The other week I was invited to join a couple for some teatime fun, mmmmmmm lovely I thought and accepted. I then got a text asking to cover all travel expenses and child care...£80

I was going to them

I love a woman who loves to go Dutch!!

Can we do the same on a leggy blonde??

nope, you can have her all to yourself

see how good I am to you

I never said a her or him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the reason they charge is cos they can make a fortune and they know people on here will pay and do pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never said a her or him

why would a straight guy want to go halfs of a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the reason they charge is cos they can make a fortune and they know people on here will pay and do pay "

that about sums it up

if men refused to pay they would stop doing it, because so many guys are willing to pay £20 for a shag they'll keep charging and will carry on doing so till men do refuse

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

I'm confused and need guidance

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"I'm confused and need guidance

Money changing hands = prostitution

Same principle in a private home, using any kind of business model = business and all that implies,

Using your home as a business, mortgage invalad,

No insurance, no licence for supplying alcohol.

Health and safety, the list goes on,

When you use a club you're paying for the use of its facilities, not sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had message from a guy asking if i wanted to do one if he sorted it out,i said no them goes on to say i could make money from it.told him hell no and blocked him

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Rule of thumb, if it is guaranteed sex and you are getting charged for it then it isn't allowed on the site.

Report, even if in doubt.

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