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By *enuineguy42 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

worcester

This is probably a topic that's been discussed before, however if I could do this as a poll I would.

Is it true that a majority of women lose interest in sex after a while in relationships. I know the menopause can drop a ladies sex drive, however other than this do you women lose interest

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
9 weeks ago

Leeds

I find i will lose interest if it becomes routined and the same repetitive actions, I need to switch things up, luckily me and my husband have a very varied sex life.

Many women also have the house, children & work which can make feeling sexy much harder when your mentally drained.

I think men overall get turned on much easier than women & forget that we need some mental stimulation too.

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By *enuineguy42 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

worcester

I think men can be the same though, if sex is routine and planned then it tends to become boring, the more spontaneous sessions are much better.

I guess men can be more easily aroused, and have a much higher sex drive than women so it can become frustrating in that instance

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By *r decoratorMan
9 weeks ago

Bournemouth

If women lose sex drive it's a problem with partner or husband she is with

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By *enuineguy42 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

worcester

Do you reckon that's true

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By *rchitectMan
9 weeks ago

Dorchester


"If women lose sex drive it's a problem with partner or husband she is with "
aThe menopause is the real killer

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By *r decoratorMan
9 weeks ago

Bournemouth


"Do you reckon that's true "

Not good enough in sex life

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By *enuineguy42 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

worcester

I think I'd challenge that and say that isn't always the case

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By *r decoratorMan
9 weeks ago

Bournemouth


"I think I'd challenge that and say that isn't always the case "

Sex life is very important for healthy relationships

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By *exandcoffeeWoman
9 weeks ago

Stamford

Having children can play a huge part too

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By *enuineguy42 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

worcester

I do agree, I think intimacy is crucial in a relationship

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By *ogan WillowCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

We match each other perfectly, even with the menopause. In fact if anything sex just keeps getting better

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By *lik and PaulCouple
9 weeks ago

cahoots


"If women lose sex drive it's a problem with partner or husband she is with aThe menopause is the real killer "

I'm menopausal and my sex drive is higher than ever.

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By *uvery30Woman
9 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

I go from highs to lows. Sometimes I can't get enough other times just not interested.

At present I can't get enough sex like I'm horny most of the time. Hubby can't keep up.thats why I needs extra friends

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I can lose interest in people.

I don't lose interest in sex.

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By *sWyldWoman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm single so maybe not best qualified to answer but if things aren't right in the bedroom, it's likely they aren't OK in the living room either. Stress, menopause, boredom, mental health, tiredness, not feeling wanted, desired or cared for. Feeling taken for granted by partner, family, lack of effort, medication, plus so many other factors can impact my desire for sex.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
9 weeks ago

Norwich

Even at my age I crave sex all the time! What does that make me? Best not answer that LOL

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By *enuineguy42 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

worcester

I have and have always had a stupidly high sex drive and I've found in alot of relationships the sex is unreal for the 1st 6-12 months but then it fizzles out to maybe once a month, plain boring sex. It drives me mad as that isn't enough for me

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By *usyBusyElfWoman
9 weeks ago

Brum


"If women lose sex drive it's a problem with partner or husband she is with aThe menopause is the real killer

I'm menopausal and my sex drive is higher than ever."

Same here

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By *ssexcouplemkCouple
9 weeks ago

Clacton-on-Sea

Been together 17 years still fuck 4/5 times a week. Would be more if work didn't get in the way and now were going to swinging clubs to get some more lol

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
9 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Personally, if my sex drive drops, it's usually because my needs aren't being met in other areas of the relationship.

I need physical contact and affection where you're not only touching me because you want to empty your sack.

And if I feel underappreciated, undervalued, or if the majority of the mental load, housework, and childcare is being left to me and you're not picking up after yourself and contributing, than you're not going to get laid.

Simplez.

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