FabSwingers.com forum: Age Limits

By *arcus HardBull400 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

I was wondering what determines people’s Age Limit Restrictions?

Older than their Adult Offspring and Younger than their Parents?

For some younger 18+ Ladies is Older than their Father a Turn On?

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By *JcuriousCouple
4 weeks ago

Derby

To be honest age is just a number for us, if we get on and find you attractive it doesn't matter 😊

Miss S x

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By *arcus HardBull400 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

I agree with You Both

Miss S you’re Exquisite x

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By *allipygousMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

"To be honest age is just a number for us, if we get on and find you attractive it doesn't matter 😊

Miss S x"

You say that but someone my age could not message you if they wanted to (I checked)

I totally understand the age restrictions but I find in club situations they go out the window when I'm seen in the flesh.

Though my preference would always be a woman my own age or older, wrinkles, saggy bits and all, it doesn't mean I won't fuck someone younger, but given a choice 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *JcuriousCouple
4 weeks ago

Derby

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By *JcuriousCouple
4 weeks ago

Derby

"I agree with You Both

Miss S you’re Exquisite x"

Thank you 😊

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By *JcuriousCouple
4 weeks ago

Derby

"To be honest age is just a number for us, if we get on and find you attractive it doesn't matter 😊

Miss S x

You say that but someone my age could not message you if they wanted to (I checked)

I totally understand the age restrictions but I find in club situations they go out the window when I'm seen in the flesh.

Though my preference would always be a woman my own age or older, wrinkles, saggy bits and all, it doesn't mean I won't fuck someone younger, but given a choice 🤷🏾‍♂️"

We don't have an age filter on, just preference mentioned in the profile as a rough guide from our experience.

You won't be able to message use because we blocked single males.

Miss S x

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
4 weeks ago

Scarborogh

If it’s an online connection we tend to stick to our agreed age limits, ie no jointer that our kids.

But if we are in a club and face to face and chatting and having laugh then we are more relaxed.

The only one we steer clear is if the male is one age and the lady is 20-30 years younger. I Mr just don’t feel comfortable and I don’t know why, so I’ve red lined it. Probably wrong and will get bombed for it but that’s fine.

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I don’t really have explicit age ranges but I find women who are 40+ tend to be in their sexual prime.

They are more comfortable in their skin, they know what they like and aren’t afraid to ask for it. That works for me.

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By *heFabtasticsCouple
4 weeks ago

brentwood

We tend to keep within 10 years either side of us

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By *llNatural36FWoman
4 weeks ago

Denbighshire

"If it’s an online connection we tend to stick to our agreed age limits, ie no jointer that our kids.

But if we are in a club and face to face and chatting and having laugh then we are more relaxed.

You’re not the only one who avoids this and it doesn’t make you wrong, you’re entitled to your preference Mr

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

Our age range is largely determined by me and the type of man I'd like to meet.

I can appreciate beauty and personality at any age but when it comes to sex *in general* I find I'm drawn to men over 50

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
4 weeks ago

Scarborogh

"If it’s an online connection we tend to stick to our agreed age limits, ie no jointer that our kids.

But if we are in a club and face to face and chatting and having laugh then we are more relaxed.

You’re not the only one who avoids this and it doesn’t make you wrong, you’re entitled to your preference Mr

👍🏻

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By *ungandMan
4 weeks ago

daveyhulme

Lots have age limits and some who don’t would block you if you contacted them very strange

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By *othwaysnudeMan
4 weeks ago

chesterfield

I’m 45 wife 41. We have had experience with 23 year olds this year hand hand full of experiences with people in 60s. It’s more what they are like

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By *enitentsCouple
4 weeks ago

trowbridge

Older is seldom an issue but have struggled with younger couples prefer similar cultural references and interests xx

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By *arcus HardBull400 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

I stay at the Mermaid Inn Hotel in Rye sometimes if you’d be into in a Social Meet

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Northampton

Our age limit is not hard and fast. We use it to limit the amount of messages

We always meet in a club and if there’s a connection, great. We’re not asking ages at the bar

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By *ong_John2333Man
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

It's all about the attraction, so age does not have a hard and fast rule for me.

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By *ang Average guyMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester

When I first joined fab I had a 10 year gap either side, but have massively expanded it due to meeting people outside of it. Who I was really attracted to and got on with. Fab has taught me to take my blinkers off.

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By *emboy AlexMan
4 weeks ago

Chadderton, Manchester

For me its basically down to physical attraction. I get nothing from dudes who are 30+ but I do find older women attractive.

Aslong as they're not younger than me, I have no issues! :3.

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By *allipygousMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

"To be honest age is just a number for us, if we get on and find you attractive it doesn't matter 😊

Miss S x

You say that but someone my age could not message you if they wanted to (I checked)

I totally understand the age restrictions but I find in club situations they go out the window when I'm seen in the flesh.

Though my preference would always be a woman my own age or older, wrinkles, saggy bits and all, it doesn't mean I won't fuck someone younger, but given a choice 🤷🏾‍♂️

We don't have an age filter on, just preference mentioned in the profile as a rough guide from our experience.

You won't be able to message use because we blocked single males.

Miss S x

Ahhhh, gotcha 👍🏾

🙂

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By *eaSlutsCouple
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

Our age limits are reasonably dynamic but this is heavily dependent on the person we meet. Some younger people have much more mature heads on them than older people, which is far more attractive. We do have a lower limit though and would not go under this.

C x

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By *aturefabfunCouple
4 weeks ago

Worksop

Well my lower age was younger than my children but that went pretty quickly - I was 60, my children 37, and the guy 35

Don’t think I’d fancy a guy in his 80’s and wouldn’t want to subject my Mr to a woman of that age

Now we’re getting older, we thought we’d try older but, to be fair, wish we hadn’t bothered

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm drawn to older men, always have been and think I always will be. There are enough young women out there for the younger lads....crack on with them

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By *he Silver FuxMan
4 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

If I didn’t know a ladies age when about to play I wouldn’t ask, I’d only see the person in front of me, not their DOB. I don’t care. However I do care about safety so I’d make sure her walker wasn’t left in the corridor or blocking the exit in contravention of Fire Regs.

“Great grandchildren, no kidding? hold on to your teeth you sexy bitch”

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By *yle 888Man
4 weeks ago

wigan

Iam 21 well hung and look8mh for an older couple

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

We put our youngest at 21.

When someone of that age sent a rude message we raised it by 1.

We are now at 27.

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By *ornyGuy69400Man
4 weeks ago

Mid Wales

Women 65+ for me

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
4 weeks ago

wonderland.

I don't want anyone younger than my kids as a rule and probably my age plus 15 years for older but it isn't an automatic no.

It's hard for Mr as he is a bit younger and with younger ladies I just can't xx

Cali

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By *adyLover1Man
4 weeks ago

Hertford

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

For me it’s attraction.

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By *adyLover1Man
4 weeks ago

Hertford

As my profile states 60-80 is my preference

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By *allipygousMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

"If I didn’t know a ladies age when about to play I wouldn’t ask, I’d only see the person in front of me, not their DOB. I don’t care. However I do care about safety so I’d make sure her walker wasn’t left in the corridor or blocking the exit in contravention of Fire Regs.

“Great grandchildren, no kidding? hold on to your teeth you sexy bitch”"

No, tell her to let go of her teeth. It's soooooo good, trust me...

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By *uacksplat.Woman
4 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

im a whore for older men, and women 🤷🏻‍♀️

that's pretty much the be all and end all.

it isn't set in stone at all, however is a preference. Px

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Mainly prefer older tbh

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By *elboy1978Man
4 weeks ago

Fellgate

Age is just a number as long as you both want each other

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By *allipygousMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

"Age is just a number as long as you both want each other "

Happy to walk around town with a 76 year old lover on your arm are you? 👵

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By *uffhandymanMan
4 weeks ago

selby/peterborough

Age isn’t a thing for me, I’m not bothered by it at all!

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By *edonist79Man
4 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I have an age range I tend to go for but I'll venture out of it for the right people.

With women I usually go my age or fairly close. My girlfriend though is 20 years younger than me. I didn't chase her. She showed the interest and made the moves. It does worry me at times that people think I'm some perve or groomer but I know that's not anything I'll intentionally look for.

When I've met guys to try things their age is pretty irrelevant to just play. I've been with guys significantly older than I am. If I'm in a submissive mood though I need the guy to be my age or older usually. If significantly younger part of my brain can't take it serious.

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By *rT25Man
4 weeks ago

Rotherham

"To be honest age is just a number for us, if we get on and find you attractive it doesn't matter 😊

Miss S x"

Said this in another thread earlier. Has to be an attraction at first and if you get on don't see anything wrong

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By *aturelovers2023Couple
4 weeks ago

St Helier

We are mid sixties and to us it’s just a number,but we find younger couples are just not interested,which is disappointing

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By *ny1localMan
4 weeks ago

READING

"We are mid sixties and to us it’s just a number,but we find younger couples are just not interested,which is disappointing "
I'm pretty much the same, fab world is a lot different to the real world (thank God)..ps,sending you a text re Jersey, hope that's okay.

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By *ny1localMan
4 weeks ago

READING

"We are mid sixties and to us it’s just a number,but we find younger couples are just not interested,which is disappointing I'm pretty much the same, fab world is a lot different to the real world (thank God)..ps,sending you a text re Jersey, hope that's okay. "
..just found out you've blocked txt from my sex..sorry.

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By *elboy1978Man
4 weeks ago

Fellgate

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By *elboy1978Man
4 weeks ago

Fellgate

"Age is just a number as long as you both want each other

Happy to walk around town with a 76 year old lover on your arm are you? 👵"
yes I would

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By *allipygousMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

"Age is just a number as long as you both want each other

Happy to walk around town with a 76 year old lover on your arm are you? 👵

yes I would "

Yeah, of course you would.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

This reminds me of a former colleague. She was in her fifties and a younger male colleague had a huge crush on her. He asked if he could take her away for the weekend. She wasn't interested but even if she had been that interest would have faded when he said

"When we check in we can say you're my mum"

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By *londebimbococksuckerTV/TS
4 weeks ago

wales

Nothing wrong with it

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By *londebimbococksuckerTV/TS
4 weeks ago

wales

I know of age gap couples

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bedford

If they are legal I'm fine. Upper age doesn't bother me in fact I encourage although I'm getting nearer to being older than most of the people I meet.

That reminds I must take my Omega 3, joints are getting a bit creaky.

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By *eyeYCouple
4 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

"^^

"When we check in we can say you're my mum"

😳🤣

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By *kinmistressWoman
4 weeks ago

somewhere about

I set my limits based on what i cant get with my husband. He is 32 so 20 to 35 is what i set it to

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
4 weeks ago

falkirk

We prefer 10 years younger than us to any age.Most younger couples and guys have little interest in older these days.

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By *iscreetdude69Man
4 weeks ago

falkirk

Not really

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By *nkedguy777Man
4 weeks ago

Manchester

Id personally say age is just a number,if I like the look of them and we get on that's fine with me

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By *ecret-64Couple
4 weeks ago

Wrexham

I'm easy but the wife prefers opposite ends. As old as possible but also a lot younger than her.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
4 weeks ago

Brum

"^^

"When we check in we can say you're my mum"

😳🤣

Fuck ouch 🤣

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By *aughtyYoungGentMan
4 weeks ago

Hampshire

Do I fit in this chat 😂

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By *ister_EMan
4 weeks ago

Hayling Island

I just can't be attracted to anyone I don't view as an adult. You don't even start growing up until you leave the nest, and start standing on your own feet and earning your own money.

For some people that's 18 for others it might be 28.... and I have no specific upper age limit. Its purely about attraction and sexual compatibility.

So far my extremes have been 22 years younger and 46 years older.

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By *inkyPair2018Couple
4 weeks ago

Wolves

We are very frequently filtered out of searches or disregarded because of Mr's age which on face value is really annoying. But overall its actually quite deeply wounding because a) hes a fit AF 50+ guy and b) hes an incredibly sexual guy and c) has more pazzaz sexually than at any other time in his life to date and is probably a lot more competant than some of his much younger counterparts

One other age related thing that irks me is based on the fact some couples approach us with having me (mrs) in their sights right from tje get go. And ask if they can have me without him. I mean come on, how does that sound when you say it out loud?

Like im about to say "yeah il f£@k him off for you guys"

Thats not to say we dont each play separately but there has to be that clearly defined two way (4 way in fact) conversation with a tactful dialogue before an approach is made

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By *evergiveupMan
4 weeks ago

derbyshire

I'm an older guy and excluded from many peoples preferred age range

But those I have fun with seem not to notice or care about my age - which is great

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Ryde

We feel a but funny about seeing guys younger than us, partly because there's something rather off-putting about having it off with someone whom is plausibly young enough to be your son!

As for upper age limit? We don't have restrictions. As long as they can get it up or can deliver a firm hand to the 'arris, then that's fine.

If anyone's remotely interested, the oldest guy we've had "visit" was 76.

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By *allipygousMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

"I just can't be attracted to anyone I don't view as an adult. You don't even start growing up until you leave the nest, and start standing on your own feet and earning your own money.

For some people that's 18 for others it might be 28.... and I have no specific upper age limit. Its purely about attraction and sexual compatibility.

So far my extremes have been 22 years younger and 46 years older."

You've fucked a 92 year old!? 😲 I know the age limits go up to 99 (I think I have 99) but still... 👏🏾

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